Look for any significant changes in his behavior. for example, turning his cell phone off, having it on vibrate, or not answering it when you are around, erasing calls from phone, all of a sudden working late or extra shifts, seems unusually distant, impatient with you, annoyed with you, decreased sex drive, won't get near you or have sex with you when he first comes home, when he comes home the first thing he does is jump in the shower. Just look for behavior that is different that what is normal for him. Also, snoop around. If he doesn't think yoiu suspect anything he might not be so careful to cover his tracks. When he isn't around go through his pants pockets, his car, his wallet, his phone. You never know what you'll find. Don't confront him unless you have concrete evidence of his behavior.
2006-10-16 06:46:32
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answered by scheerbarbara 1
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If you are suspecting anything, chances are he is. Women need to pay attention to that "funny feeling" we get in our gut. If you want to do detective work to find out, there are some signs. Look at his cell phone when he's sleeping or in the bathroom. Check call log for womens names you dont know. Check the TEXT MESSAGE inbox and outbox. Check his computer internet explorer history and see if hes been to any internet dating websites to chat with women.
Are there times when he is no where to be found and doesnt answer his phone and later says something lame like "I fell asleep"? Thats a big clue. As his girlfriend, you should know where he is most of the time...not liek a watchdog, but just beause you should be talking to each otehr enogh to know what each others shedule is and stuff. There should never be big blocks of time where he is missing.
Also, its always a bad idea to get into the habit of going out without each other. Both of you need boy time and girl time, but limited amounts. The whole point of going to a bar is to meet someone of the opposite sex, right?
If you are questioning whether he's cheating, you need to pay attention to those gut feelings...they are usually right.
2006-10-16 03:48:53
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answered by EllisFan 5
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He is acting distant, can't look you in the eyes, spends a lot of time working late, is always on his computer and when you come over to see what he is doing, see him quickly move mouse to hide windows.
2006-10-16 03:45:16
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answered by Dave S 2
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i cant really say..if he still loves u, then u shouldnt doubt him..great love n successful relationships depends on trust. unless u've seen it with ur own eyes, dont jump to conclusions. some ppl say that when ur bf starts to buy u gifts, then he's cheating..to me, its bullshit. dont doubt him..
2006-10-16 03:46:01
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answered by nini moreal 3
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if he doesn't come home to you...says he stayed at a friend's house
if he smells like a woman's perfume...or puts more of his own on before coming home to you
if he comes home and takes a shower after going out...
if he receives "wrong number" calls while he is with you...
if he carries condoms in his wallet, car...
2006-10-16 03:48:45
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answered by **Lil QT** 4
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the teasing stops hes too tired to do anything with you hes always distracted finds excuses like im tired im going to bed..the i love yous and laughter is a lot less says mean lil things he never would say before...grumpy dont answer his cell
2006-10-16 03:47:11
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answered by little_outlaw_angel 3
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Have you looked at yourself closely, when was the last time you gave him O to completion or A what about outdoor sex or dressed to impress? Have you put a few pounds, told him you are not interested in playing around whilst watching a blue movie..keep it stimulating and exciting..or it will happen again..and the future looks bleak without him doesnt it?
2006-10-16 03:44:50
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answered by Anonymous
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no pickin up the phone when u call, convo is short, always busy when u call, phone is always off, sex is short and boring... honey u can tell when the passion has run out
2006-10-16 03:47:18
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answered by sexygurl 2
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One sure sign is if he is having sex with another women.
2006-10-16 03:51:06
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answered by Anonymous
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he buys lots of new clothes
uses more cologne
starts working out excesively
stays out without you
forgets to call
2006-10-16 03:46:46
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answered by BOOYAH 3
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