My true love is currently unhappily married. Because of her religious beliefs, she won't leave her husband at this point. Our relationship is purely innocent at this point, as there has been absolutely no physical contact beyond a hug or two. It is very frustrating to me, as I am a single guy. Am I being stupid to wait, or should I cut my losses and just give up?
2006-10-16 03:00:59 · 23 answers · asked by waiting4ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no u r not bein stupid for waiting when the time is right ur true love will come running to u
2006-10-16 04:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be responsible for breaking up a marriage? Is she unhappily married because she's thinking of being with some else? Sorry to say, but your relationship isn't innocent. There is no reason why a married woman should be hugging a single guy who's interested in her. I think you need to look for a single lady. What if she does divorce and you marry her? Don't you think she might have a roving eye again? Be careful, you are walking on thin ice.
2006-10-16 03:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by wjordanfam 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is married it is indeed not right for you to think about her. It is your perception that she is unhappy. How are you so sure? Also during your association with her before marriage there does not seem to be any serious relationship besides a hug or two. It is better for you to move on and find a partner for yourself. There is no dearth of good girls. You will find some one better and you will love her more than any one and forget about all the past. Good luck.
2006-10-16 03:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is married, so she is not YOUR true love. If she is religious and won't leave her husband now, she probably never will. I suppose if you think you must have her, try another tactic. Tell her you are too sad to carry on and wait for her and you think it best that you start seeing other people. If she doesn't decide to leave him, then tell her you must move on.
2006-10-16 03:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's not the one for you... you may think that she is, but maybe you're just rushing things and don't realize she's not the one you've been waiting for all this time.. think about it.. does she make you feel the way you do now? is everything complete in your life when you're with her? is your love for her the same love you give your family members? try looking at it in a different angle and you might see if you should make a move, wait or never move forward. it's not stupid to wait.. it's like you're saying that it's stupid to dream.. but i want you to think about it.. you might end up hurting yourself with the wrong move.. it all depends on you actually..
2006-10-16 03:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by Silver Dragon 35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hard to say but don't be the reason for break up. It will come up later on if you do. If he's abusing her then she has to decide to end it or continue. There are plenty of fish in the sea but if your sure this is your true love be there to support her.
2006-10-16 03:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by Tommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By 'true love' you mean infatuation, right? Why do you want another man's woman? What losses are there for you to cut? Two hugs?
2006-10-16 03:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people go a life time and never find their true love. I always said I will probable never find it until I am in a nursing home.
2006-10-16 03:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there, hell, I'm still there.....nine months and waiting. If it's true love, wait it out. My grandpa used to say, "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours, if it doesn't, it wasn't ever meant to be." My gramps was a pretty smart guy. Good luck. I know just how you feel.
2006-10-16 03:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not stupid to wait. but it's going to take a long time. don't put your life on hold. open up your heart and if she's really meant for you, she'll come around. if not, then your destiny will be glad you went on with your life :)
2006-10-16 03:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by girliegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋