I am still single, and I have too many options, men are all over, some love me, some I like, I cant decide who to stay with or marry.
I need advice how do you make your mind up of who to stay with.
thanks
2006-10-16 03:07:57 · 29 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
pick someone that you would like your children to be like.....
2006-10-16 03:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by pickigirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been told by my wife that I'm a man, so I guess this would be from a mans point of view.
We got bored very easy, one way to keep from getting bored is to look at women. . . because women are a mystery to us. But once we figure out one of those women, we get bored, then move on to another women.
So stay mysterious and the guy that's there the longest is one that is still interested. That should narrow it down a bit, remember, don't be stupid mysterious that's a waste of everyone's time.
Also, we get bored of waiting forever, remember, we have 2 eyes.
2006-10-16 10:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by House of Edwin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you are asking this question then you have not met the man that you should marry yet. When you met the one that you should be with for the rest of your life, there will not be any question in your mind that he is the one. I know it may sound old fashioned but it is true. Keep on looking and let us know when you find him.
2006-10-16 10:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the one that makes you laugh when you don't feel like it. Choose the one that CAN'T lie about how you look in the morning but looks just as bad. Choose the one that you try to hook up with other people. He is the one that is best for you. He may not be what you think you wanted but he will be everything your heart desired.
2006-10-16 10:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by Spleakie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, you have NOT met your husband. Just wait for him to come. Did you make a list of what you want? He will choose your first, then make you feel very secure and happy, then your heart will guide you. Its not a head decision like with you asking here. It is a heart decision. Take your time. Marriage is forever.
2006-10-16 10:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to follow your heart. We don't know any of the men you're seeing, and you haven't really given us any details. Even if you had given details, this still isn't a question you want to ask a forum of complete strangers.
2006-10-16 10:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by dorky_goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't commit to anything if you don't have a huge desire to do so. You will know when the time is right. Your best option is to keep your options open, be true to yourself and have fun.
2006-10-16 10:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REMEMBER...not by looks as this could change by accident or age.not by money as this could be ripped off in one minute if not well managed.GOOD..CHOOSE the one who loves,appreciates, & respects you.the one that never shows sign of being tired of your company.the one who makes you laugh(at least you won't wrinkle fast)the one whom you share same or almost the same things in common.the one you can feel free with and open to him freely about any problems.
2006-10-16 10:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to find you first then let the guy find you. When he comes along. take your time to get to know him and dont' rush it. Go slow. Then do the background check like what do u do for a job, etc.. I dont know everyone is different.
2006-10-16 10:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by shyhonney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose no man that doesn't put your needs and dreams over his own.
likewise, do not make that choice to choose a man unless you're ready to put his needs and dreams over your own as well.
when two become one whereas they love each other in unconditional sacrificial support, the depths of love can become boundless....and don't forget, we have to love ourselves before we can love another....insure you have this peace first.
best wishes.
2006-10-16 10:14:35 · answer #10 · answered by Robert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey.never forget true
u have to get married with a man who LOVES u more then u him(it means he is nt an egoist),
never vice verce
it ll be perfect choice
2006-10-16 10:23:34 · answer #11 · answered by nattie_ua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋