my b-day is tommorow and my husband hasnt brought up or even asked what i wanted or what i wanted to do...i think he forgot. if he forgets what should i do? should i just go on and pretned like its just another day to make him not fel bad or should i ask him if he rembers my b-day is tommorow.its not like him to forget things but im just worried that he has forgotten.
2006-10-16 03:49:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe hes just not saying anything so he can surprise you with something very special, but if he doesnt do anything, then make him feel very bad for it
2006-10-16 03:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by riyan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Write it on a calander or include it in a phone conversation while he is around. Don't say anything else about it, unless he asks, which if he forgot, then he probably won't say anything to keep from being embarassed. Atleast this will give him time to do something, even though it will be kinda last minute. If he did forget, just remember we are all human and some of us don't remember dates. But it might be ok just to give a little hint and see what happens. Women are better with that kinda thing anyway.lol
HAPPY BIRTHDAY anyway if he doesn't remember. And life will go on.
2006-10-16 10:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get too upset...yet! Give him the benefit of the doubt, considering you said yourself that he is not normally forgetful. Perhaps he wants you to think that he has forgotten-maybe he wants to surprise you some how and way. If you think, by chance, that he has forgotten-drop a subtle hint. Mention that a friend or co-worker wants to take you out to lunch tom. to celebrate your b-day and did he have any suggestions on a good place to go! That would definitely remind him in an obvious way!
2006-10-16 10:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by PBnJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would book a facial, pedicure and a day for me... I wouldn't mention a thing.....
If he hasn't remembered then don't worry about it,
let him know when he gets home empty handed,that you bought yourself a birthday present and spoiled yourself a little today for your birthday.
Lots of guys forget the things that are sentimental to women, that is unfortunate, but is true.
Don't mope around and worry about it, do something positive that makes you feel good.
If you can't afford the spa, then purchase something new and wear it...
This is your day with or without him....
happy birthday......
2006-10-16 10:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not mention it to him and just see what happens. If he does forget and it means alot to you , which it sounds like it does, then you should tell him that your feelings are hurt because he forgot your birthday. Dont just let it go without saying anything because then other things will build on top of it until there is a huge blow up arguement.
2006-10-16 10:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Aw, Happy Birthday! He might have forgotten, but don't say anything until the day of your b-day because if he didn't and is trying to surprise you with something you don't want to ruin it.
If he did forget it just be like hey babe are you forgetting something today....the greatest day ever....lol.....and when he says oh my gosh I'm so sorry just be like yea whateva and walk away...lol
2006-10-16 10:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by the best 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just playing you since you say its not like him to forget things; I think you'll have a nice surprise.
If I am wrong and he forgets, you better tell him to make it up to you big time!!!
Either way, Happy birthday!
2006-10-16 10:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure he will have sumthin planned, if not im sure he has a lot of stress or other reason for forgetting. ive forgotton my wifes birthday, my kids even my own! its just another day really so if he has forgotton wait a week and make reservations to a restaurant for you and him. when he asks whats the occasion say for my birthday last week. im sure you will get an even better present than if he remembered!
2006-10-16 10:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he has a surprise planned for you. Hang in there.
If he hasn't said anything by bedtime, dress up all sexy, tell him it's a special occasion, then get into bed and ignore him. Refuse to touch him. Tell him you want to get some extra sleep because it was exausting to get a year older. That ought to teach him.
2006-10-16 10:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by sandostrich 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends how long you have been married. Also, is there a lot of things going on? Work, school, kids or family? he may be stressed and forgot, or maybe he wants to super surprise you!
2006-10-16 10:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by Fuzzy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well... you wait until tomorrow and if he really forgot your b-day you should be reasonable and ask him for a divorce.....no I'm just kidding he mostly wants to surprise you ....
2006-10-16 11:01:59 · answer #11 · answered by nice_girl2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋