Marriage & Divorce - 12 October 2006

2006-10-12 23:32:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Phew! It's so lively!

2006-10-12 23:24:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i ask so because everyone is complaining about their husbands having extra marital affairs

2006-10-12 23:03:36 · 29 answers · asked by she2 1

2006-10-12 22:59:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have two children under 3 and i felt like a robot every day doing everything.there was no time for me,how could i feel like a sex godess?his feelings for me have not changed he has always loved me and wanted me.unfortunately i became hollow and i just felt that everyone wanted something from me.i told him that i didnt want him,however didnt mean in the sense that he thought and i guess that is where our relationship fell flat.i found out a few months ago that he had cheated on me,i understand what happened and in a strange way it was the best thing that happened to me.the problem is how do you trust someone you love dearly and i know that he loves me too.

2006-10-12 22:49:08 · 39 answers · asked by debster 1

2006-10-12 22:46:22 · 6 answers · asked by Didgeridude 4

Such as a husband going out and having an adultress affair, Say you forgive him so you'll not carry the anger (a deadly sin) but How can you forget it was done and move on, especially if you still love this person very very much???

2006-10-12 22:34:31 · 16 answers · asked by Ladeebug71 5

on the internet but how many women do it themselves? surely out of curiosity theres a few who have taken a look.I know I have and it was a bit of a turn on!! to my surprise

2006-10-12 22:23:51 · 16 answers · asked by poptrash 2

my son with my ex is 20 and totaly dependant and lives with me and my new husband. i have 2 children with my new husband we have been married 6 years but my ex constantly tries to disrupt our lives with a constant barrage of demands he does not financhaly contribute to anything and i would'nt want him too. does he still have the same legal rights as he had when my son was under 18. ex left me for another woman so why can't he get on with his life and let me get on with mine i am at my wits end and have even considerd putting my son into care i don't want to do this as it would break my heart but if my ex and his gilfriend carry on it will break my mind

2006-10-12 22:19:06 · 11 answers · asked by shaggy 2

The thing is my ex wants to take the children away from me and send them to Somalia (Africa) where women like me do not have a say. I work full time as a nurse to suport my children, who are age 11 and 6. They have always resided with me since their birth. they also go to visit their dad on holidays. In August this year, he retained my son and refused to bring him back, I went to court and they issied a collection order for my son to be collected. He is now with me. We have an ongoing case and his Lawyer is quite good and asked for the court to do a section 7 investigation here in UK London. He always manipulate the kids and brainwash them that it will be heaven living with him, no homework, eating fast food everyday, go to bed the time they want to etc.

My worries is if the kids says they want to leave with him, will the court decide to take the kids from my care based on that?? i am a wonderful mother for my kids even the schools can confirm that...

2006-10-12 22:09:27 · 17 answers · asked by hanni_mohamud 1

your church, pastor, friends, parents, spouse or you? who carries the most blame if you end up with the wrong marriage partner?

2006-10-12 22:00:30 · 32 answers · asked by wittybaby 2

My wife says that Im suffocating her in all the attention that i give to her. I love to hug, kiss and spend all the time I can with her. She says that she needs space as well and I understand that but I can see her withdwraw when I hug her and try to show affection to her. She has been unfaithful to me and we are trying to work on the marriage. She says she wants to work on the marriage but I feel that she still has feeling for the last man she has been with. What are the major signs for me to look for to know that she is playing me for a fool.

2006-10-12 21:59:55 · 15 answers · asked by ACE 1

There is this arguement going on about whether the decision of who you choose to marry solely lies with you or does your pastor/parent also have a say? That is, to guide and direct you? Please, I would appreciate it if people with religion affiliation, especially christian believers could give their opinion about this question as that makes us have a similar background.

2006-10-12 21:55:44 · 7 answers · asked by wittybaby 2

2006-10-12 21:55:20 · 15 answers · asked by mhyjan 1

Why would a married man METICULOUSLY(he talks about his work every day)hide the fact that he has a female manager?And has had the same one since he began working there over a year ago?

2006-10-12 21:51:23 · 7 answers · asked by Direktor 5

I have written a blog on the topic, and I would be honored if you would visit my 360 and read my words.

2006-10-12 21:49:05 · 10 answers · asked by The Heart Doctor 2

My boyfiend walked out on me when i was pregnant with his child, since then he has subjected me to horrible verbal abuse, cruel & sick jokes, basically making my life a misery. Yesterday he contacted me to say, if I pay him £10,000 he will stay away for good, even sign a contract giving up any rights he has to his daughter. I am sickened that he would sell his daughter, but I am really at my wits end, what should I do? Should I pay him or not?

2006-10-12 21:47:43 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-12 21:43:23 · 15 answers · asked by mouse_0034 1

He was walking along and flashes this group of women a flirtatious expression(I was looking right at his face).This particular group of chicas knew he was my hubby because me and our daughter had just passed them also on theway home and they were waving at her and smiling(we live in the same complex so theyknow we're a family).This behavior is both rude ,disrespectful to me and our relationship,and embarrassing 'cause like I said they knew he's my hubby.So he getsinside and I ask"who were you looking at?"..he lies and says he was looking upstairs.I ask two more times and he replies with the same lie.I tell him,"look me in my face and tell me you weren't looking at them".He gets outraged all of a sudden and tries to flip the table over,with our 3 yr old sitting at the table!He could've hurt her very badly!There were things on the table so he wasn't able to flip it,only lift it slightly and push it to the other end.Our child runs into the living room,scared and crying ..........

2006-10-12 21:27:21 · 12 answers · asked by Direktor 5

so you come in from work, walk up to her, give her a hug, kiss her real passionately and tell her 'baby, your my baby and I love you so much'. Fix her a glass of juice and then walk into the room and shout 'can I fix your bath?'.
Why does she put that weird look on her face, stare down at you like you've just stolen some cookies, and then say 'okay, honey, what have you done this time?'.

2006-10-12 21:22:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everytime he comes for a 10 days leave, she'll be always with him...forcing us to visit temples..and relatives. He doesn't seems to understand tht we don't have enogh time together. I can't say anything against her cuz he loves her a lot. How do I convince him tht he need to pay more attentin to our marriage. ?? Somebody pls help me..

2006-10-12 21:17:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you do - if you find out that your better half discussed the martial issues with ex? or better half talks bad things about you and your parents with ex?

2006-10-12 21:12:35 · 12 answers · asked by neat questions 2

2006-10-12 21:00:39 · 12 answers · asked by Baby 2

2006-10-12 20:59:55 · 26 answers · asked by i_got_aheadache 1

Did you confess? Or not? Were u happy with the results? U regret it?

2006-10-12 20:56:00 · 13 answers · asked by Justme 2

I posted this question before, and am not the only one. I was disappointed with the answers as I only had two, so perhaps just a different category will help. I was looking for unique fantasies, anything from bubble bath and candles, to whips and chains...but I'm begining to think people are afraid to share their deepest desires, for fear of being ridiculed or for fear of being the only ones. Trust me you're not, and trust that at least one other person out there will have a kinkier anwer than you. So what is your ultimate SECRET sexual fantasy that you might be too afraid to share with anyone in person??

2006-10-12 20:54:23 · 10 answers · asked by nikkismiles7 2

2006-10-12 20:45:54 · 23 answers · asked by mr_BIG 3

2006-10-12 20:42:02 · 15 answers · asked by i_got_aheadache 1

My husband does not understand how I feel. He was an hour drive to and from an area where he would have had service. We have two young kids...I knew this was a possibility, but it was difficult. What can I say to help him understand instead of resenting me or shutting down and saying "fine, then I just won't go anymore"?

2006-10-12 20:21:36 · 18 answers · asked by huntingwidow 1

we're married for 12 years, we have 3 kids. no doubt in my mind that i really love him but the thing is i feel miserable. he go out, god knows where, almost every night with friends. last saturday he went home at 6am from one of his night-outs. when asked about it, he said that he never noticed the time because he's in the casino. he had a fit because i said, 'what if i do the same thing w/ you, what would you feel?'. he said, there is no comparison coz we're not on the same situation, something about him being a man. i think he's alcoholic and compulsive gambler and he wouldn't admit it. he's a good provider though. i want way out but can't seem to have the courage to do so because i don't have a job. and i think i can't raise my children all by myself. i am so unhappy. i never felt loved by him.

2006-10-12 20:18:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous