i ask so because everyone is complaining about their husbands having extra marital affairs
2006-10-12 23:03:36 · 29 answers · asked by she2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because men dont know a good thing when they have it until they mess up and realize what they lost
2006-10-12 23:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear wanna know y:
Extra Marital affairs because of several reasons,One or both couple may:
(1) fall out of love and needs to feel inlove again
(2) want excitement
(3) needs better sex
(4) revenge-if one partner cheats on the other
(5) not satisfied financially ,emotionally, sexually
(6)pressured into having sex or an affair
(7) have low self esteem and needs other people to confirm it
(8) just cant be faithful
(9) have a too good life and takes it for granted
(10) and other weird reasons
Love SANAM
2006-10-12 23:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
begins with a thought on the inside of a person,alot of it is who they listen to.right or wrong thinking determines ones character. alot is caused by who we hang out with, and who we believe. many affairs occur because someone sees value in your mate, and they don't have a mate so they latch on to yours.they do all they can do to get your mate to leave you and choose them, and ofcourse something new is always a temptation.i would say cheaters have a low self esteem, and this new person is stoking their already low self worth.also lack of communication between two people causes alot of this. cheating is caused by the way a person percieves things, their thinking process. also they are self serving never giving a thought to the outcome.cheating is also caused from not giving your best in a marriage. also not getting the right council.ofcourse if a marriage needs some work and another comes along and does all they can do to sway a person, it gives the cheater a false sense that all will go well with this new person and that their spouse is the bad guy.also people don't keep their priorities in line with the word of god, and they sin and move away from the will of god, until they can't even feel they are doing wrong anymore.
2006-10-13 03:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men by their very nature are hunters (you can't change their genetic make-up).
A man will stray when his partner does not (or cannot - i.e. when travelling on business) fulfil his needs. Sometimes after being with the same woman for years, and seeing as he can no longer go out and grab a woman drag her back to his cave and ravish her, he will try to prove he still has what it takes to attract a woman. It's male human nature.
Take a look at the Nature programs on TV and take note of how the male species acts. Men are more "conditioned" to the human and society way of living, but the basic instincts are still there.
Of course this is where it all goes wrong. The male forgets he has feelings too and can fall in love with the other woman.
The best way for a woman to prevent this from happening is to remain at all time attractive to her man both in appearance, intelligence and in bed.
By the way guys, it's a two way street. Men need also to be good in appearance, intelligence and in bed with their women.
2006-10-12 23:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by berksman49 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Extra-marital affairs happen in relationships because the couples have a breakdown in communication. Neither spouse thinks to consider what the consequential behavior will have on the other so goes for the SELFISH mindset!
Grass looks greener on the other side but once you've crossed to the other side you find that that green pasture has barbed wire and thistle weeds in it.
2006-10-12 23:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Existence of race is the core point for all living beings, and for this reason, the sexual desires in a couple will always be more for male than female. So..as water for thirst, sex for desires. And it means, at any point of time. If the desire is quenched after marraige from other partners, its called extra marital. Simple.
2006-10-12 23:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by alexander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of communicating the problem you have with your spouse you go somewhere and complain to someone who will be sympathetic and end up in bed with them. Most extramarital affairs are caused by a lack of communicating with your partner.
2006-10-13 00:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its in the nature of every human being. Nobody will be contented with what they have and its the thrill to see someone new and wondering what will be the outcome esp in bed. And most of the time, its also finding someone who is much better than their own wives.
2006-10-12 23:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass appears greener on the other side of the fence.
The flattering attentions of another woman will appeal to a man's ego and he can be very easily tempted ... show me a man who isn't interested in some nice young sexy lady and I'll show you a liar!
2006-10-12 23:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lack of discipline and a corruption of values. A spouse cannot cause the other to cheat. It is a decisive process by which objections are overcame until the fulfillment of the desire to cheat has been accomplished.
2006-10-13 00:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by kyle g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They occur because people are not willing to take responsibility.
People who respect their partners, do not have affairs.
Loving is respecting and treating with honesty. Those that have an affair are immature and lack respect.
2006-10-12 23:07:25 · answer #11 · answered by myself 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋