2006-10-12 20:59:55 · 26 answers · asked by i_got_aheadache 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well i have cheated on b/fs before and alot.... but this last time i did i realise that cheatin on him wasnt worth losin him over.... and i know it was a mistake... and i will never do it again b/c the person i cheated on him wit wasnt worth it and i realised that... so yea i think ppl can change... i did...
2006-10-12 21:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by hesgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ONLY time I will take a chance is if I see that he's truly sorry and works extremely hard in regaining my trust. Actions speak louder than words remember? BUT....if it happens again...there will be no more second chances.
2006-10-13 04:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u do give him chance ull be having the biggest hesadache,,,not to mention the petty quarrels and the lies u have to live by,,,ull be so fed up that u would be all numbed and crazy to think properly...so if i were u not a second chance,,cuz once a player is always a player!stick the middle finger to his face insted!!!
2006-10-13 04:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not.
If she is an ex, that means they are separated, and whatever the cause, a return won't last too long and a second separation will be outrageous.
So if they are still friends, it is a good thing.
Keep being good friends.
2006-10-13 04:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets put it this way...you can try but its very hard to trust someone again after you've lost it. This type of strain on a relationship takes lots of work and patience.
2006-10-13 04:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on. Everyone deserves a second chance. But just a second. Not a third. Not a fourth.
2006-10-13 04:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might give him a chance but I will never trust him/her again. I will always be keeping an eye on him.
2006-10-13 11:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you take a chance with an ex-cheater, than you're a fool.
2006-10-13 04:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by RunSueRun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would very much depend on the sincerity of their apology, and promise of fidelity, the reason they cheated, and who they cheated with. nothing is that cut and dried ... if they proposed a course of action to improve the marriage between us, then i would be inclined to believe them, if it was just an apology and a promise without substance, then i probably wouldn;t
2006-10-13 04:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. giving chance to them will only hurt urself more. they have lied before definitely they can do it nw as well. swearing is just words with no promise, who can guarantee that thing will not happen again.. right.
2006-10-13 04:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by a_o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋