2006-10-12 23:32:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
- if he goes out of his way just to spend time with you, no matter how busy or far he is from your place.
- if he always includes you in his plans for the future
- if he accepts you for what you are (even when you fart in his presence, he'll still find it cute)
- if he spends time to get to know your family (parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, grandmas and grandpas, nieces, nephews, even your pets)
-if he never gets tired of saying "I Love You"
-if he remembers even the littlest details, like the color of the dress that you wore when you first went out on a date.
- if he respects your views and opinions, even if he has different ones.
- if he includes you in his prayers.
- There's also such as thing as a woman's intuition. Learn to trust it. You'll "feel" it if he's sincere or just taking you for a ride.
2006-10-12 23:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are the ways I show my wife I love her.
1.Help with house work. This sound cheesy but it's a biggie in our house.
2. Tell her I love at least 6 to 10 times a day.
3. Take my son out for supper on friday nights so she can pamper herself. You know that a bubble bath listen to soft music that kind of stuff.
4. Cook a meal for her and set candles on the table. Even if our son is around it's still nice.
5. Send her post cards when i'm away on business. (We call eachother but a card is a nice gesture I find."
6. Buy flowers for no particular reason.
I could go on but I believe these are the kind of things a man does when he loves his wife.
2006-10-13 07:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know because he will not only tell you he will show you as well. When he sits and discusses matters with you that has happened at work or about other things that he is interested in. Even if you are not a big fan or you really don't understand completely about what he is interested in he will still share things with you and also explain them to you. And when you can also share your interest with him and he will sit and listen and talk with you about them because he knows that you are delighted about what ever it is(even though he is not a fan of what you are interested in). That is showing you that he Loves and wants to be with you and keep you happy in every way. A partnership is a special bond that the two of you have. The two of you are not only showing your true love & emotions to each other intimately, you two are also showing your true love & emotions to each other verbally as well. And that is the best kind of relationship to have.
2006-10-13 12:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is really the difference between love and lust....
When you are new to a relationship -- your world truly is colored by the hormones thrashing around in your body. You barely think of your beloved and you get a smile on your face. You think you've had a misunderstanding and that pit settles in your stomach until you talk again and reassure yourself that he won't leave. You want to spend 24/7 with your lover....and can't imagine anything without him.
Lust is all about those fluttery, amazing feelings that make you want to be a couple....that makes you want to shout to the world, look at me! look what I found!
True love is much more than that.
For most couples.... the lust starts simmering in the background...and a feeling of stability and dependability and admiration take over. The more comfortable you are with your partner, the more you see him/her with all of his/her warts fully visible. And, the best part, is that's ok....because you feel like your lives are so intwined that you can't imagine not having him in your life.
Thats not to say you are blind, deaf, dumb or immune to temptation....or the other end, lonliness. I truly believe that no two people can be everything to each other. The happiest couples have strong relationships with each other and also have friends outside their marriage. They don't do everything together all the time. But they are content to be themselves and avoid breaking promises by satisfying immediate needs (affairs).
So....how do you know if your man is really in love with you?
Is he there for you? Do you see it in his eyes? Feel it in his kiss? Does he make you feel like his number one? Do you make him feel your love? Do you say it everyday, and mean it?
Some people can't say "i love you" but you know they want you because they make sure to reach out to you to make sure you're ok. They show it in each and every way they have contact with you....they share themselves with you.
I hope you know your man is in love with you. Its the best thing in the world....
2006-10-16 09:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by MustangSally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Gabe, you make this too easy! If your man is really in love with you, he can't bear to be away from you for one minute! The rest can all be acted out, but this, my dear, seperates love from a charade. Time is our most precious resource, and when you have it all, you have his heart!
2006-10-13 07:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by The Heart Doctor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will make you afirst priority in whatever he is doing, and the frequent of communication will be higher
2006-10-13 07:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by theodory z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he trusts you...most men have a hard time with trust and for them to trust a woman is like complete vulnerability, so if he trust you then it is likely that he loves you...
2006-10-13 06:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by Teena R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love happens in time.
If it's not an abuse relationship - verbally or physically and he's not cheating on you - wait and see!
2006-10-13 06:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by Linda A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've never heard your man fart, you have a keeper. True Love.
2006-10-13 07:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Raptor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he planning a future with you? (marriage, kids, those sort of things)
2006-10-13 06:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋