Marriage & Divorce - 12 October 2006

he is always nagging me and yelling at me and barking orders at me.......and finds it also necessary to control my every move...I feel smothered and trapped

2006-10-12 20:13:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 5 years and living together for 3 of those years. My problem is that he is such a drama king. When he gets sick he's such a freakin baby i cant stand it! I mean when i get sick i deal with it and dont ask for much help or sympathy. But with him its like a little cold and he's on his death bed. With all this rub my head, i cant breath, my body hurts, can u bring me something drink, can u make me some soup some times i just wanna thru the soup on him. Am i the only women that dosnt have a very nerturing side or are there others. I talk to him abou it later on but he just makes jokes about it. I know for a fact if i acted the way he does when i get sick he would go to his friends house for a few days! HELP ME!!! i think im just frustrated and needed to vent.

2006-10-12 20:13:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was just told today that another guy at the carnival was trying to break my husband and i up,by saying things that were not true and my husband started to believe them -I guess.Is why he left.Do you think he will be back soon

2006-10-12 20:09:29 · 6 answers · asked by kdkc06 1

2006-10-12 20:08:07 · 8 answers · asked by goretti c 1

I know how pathetic I'm going to sound but what the hell I need to get it out, My wife decided that she wanted to have a gastric bypass by the ending of 2004. I didn't mean to but I didn't want her to have the surgery after the doctor informed us about the complications. I loved her too much to want her to suffer but we worked through that and scheduled her surgery. During her recovery I almost lost my job due to taking off so much because she was scared to be alone at night in the hospital. I stayed for weeks but I didn't care all that mattered was that she feel safe and secure. When we were finally able to return home. I cared for her until she was began to want to do things for herself. Last night she told me she doesn't love me anymore. She has different goals/dreams than I do. And she left. I can believe how horrible I feel like there's a huge gaping hole in my chest. She was my 1st and only love. But what can I do? I'm wondering if this has happened to anyone else or just me?

2006-10-12 20:02:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer two years ago. He has had two surgeries since then. The whipple and surgery to remove three hernias. He complains everyday about pain in his stomach, back or legs. He doesn't take his medication like he is supposed to. And he could have gotten full disability benefits if he had applied. Half the time he can't make it to work a full week because of his pains. And with all our bills we really need two incomes. I'm tired of all his crap though. I don't want him to be in pain but it doesn't seem like he's trying to help himself or me. When we first got married he was reluctant and said he didn't want to end up in a divorce. I promised I'd never divorce him and I've never broken a promise but the longer I stay the harder it gets. I'm tired of babying him because he loves sympathy and tends to play on it with me and others. So tell me what you think.

2006-10-12 19:57:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you handle it or do you

2006-10-12 19:50:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-12 19:49:57 · 13 answers · asked by Smile T 1

Hi guys, i am very worried that my ex is going to win the custody of our children who always lived with me. now the children and I are living in UK and the children are ward of court.. which means we can not take them out of the country. I want to run out of here and start a life somewhere else far from this man. will I be risking prison if I move out of UK with my children, will the authorities look all over for me until they find me and the children? the thing is if this man win the custody I will die I think I will just kill myself loosing my kids who are 11 and 6yrs old and always lived with me.

thank you guys for ur time

2006-10-12 19:45:47 · 18 answers · asked by qalancho_0009 1

My wife of 7 years told me she wants to divorce me because I have neglected her even though I have not even seen her in 6 months since I am at war. I also never neglected her. She is willing to do this depite hurting her childre, one of which is my step son who will really get hurt and she is also willing to do this even though her parents and brother are now angry with her. would you ever do this? if so why?

2006-10-12 19:41:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married with two kids. I used to have a husband who emotionally abuses me and who dislikes my parents very much. Lately, he has been very possessive but improved his treatment of me, by being more loving and supportive. The reason,he suspects me of having an affair with my instructor. It is true. I am totally attracted to my instructor.Problem is,he's married with kids too. Although we never spoke about it,we knew, we would never leave our family. Now,Iam in love with him but he's avoiding me. I have asked to breakup but he doesn't want to and he still insist he wants me but needs time to work things out. What exactly does that mean? Meantime,i am thinking of going back to my husband who lately is trying very hard to make our marriage work for the kids'sake.What should I do? Torn between love,lust and obligation..I have stopped seeing my boyfriend socially but still have classes wth him. I am not able to control myself anymore when he's near me.I am scared of losing it! help!

2006-10-12 19:39:33 · 8 answers · asked by angelheart 2

2006-10-12 19:32:54 · 22 answers · asked by i_got_aheadache 1

a partner and sexual relationship

2006-10-12 19:25:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

does anyone knows a (free)website where i can get his phone# and or address?

2006-10-12 19:12:40 · 11 answers · asked by Simply Me 5

please correct me and give good information, as per my knowledge i cant claim on the wealth of my husband's ancestral or personal property. my husband doesnt have any property right now but in future he'll get good or very huge amount of ancestral property, if i m not entitle of 50% of husband's ancestral property? if not what will i get ?

2006-10-12 19:09:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

If there is a long ( 15 years ) gap between husbend & wife, is it makes unhappy them ? If yes then why ?

2006-10-12 19:06:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-12 19:03:21 · 18 answers · asked by tasneem m 1

I stumbled onto something and am more curious about it. When I come on to a female, slowly, assuringlly and willingly 90% of the time she withdraws or distances herself the other 10% not in this catagory are women that know me or of me and are willing to have fun. I tried something today that is unusually common, I flirted with my cousins caretaker. All the lights where green, so I used a different method of approachal, when she put my cousin in the bathtub for his morning bath, I followed her nonchalantly to the laundry room. Before giving her a chance to say anything I was out of my close necking her from behind, nothing else needs to be said. I am very thankful for this event but am curious as to know is this approach common, because I found it to be the most sufficent method to a fling. I arrived around 6:00 this morning at his house to give company and use the private room for study, after his bath she came back into the room with her jewlery on, she was married. Is this common?

2006-10-12 18:50:02 · 10 answers · asked by Nevermind 1

he already has everything, loves baseball and loves his dog and family, i need something unique.

2006-10-12 18:49:06 · 11 answers · asked by dawn g 1

Im to be married late next year. I have been married before, my fiance has not. When we begin our lives together, we will combine the sum total of two whole houses, and 30+ yrs of stuff under one roof. We dont NEED anything, really. However. My daughter (who will be 18 before we say "I DO"), wants to host a shower for me. Any ideas?

2006-10-12 18:48:05 · 4 answers · asked by L C 2

how come when riding or when im on top i feel like i cant do anything..i mean i feel it but its just uncofortable i feel like im stuck .. what the best way to ride...? Ive seen porn and it looks like a piece of cake a pleasureable , but when it comes down to it its sooo difficult? do i hold it and rid up what the rythm method??

2006-10-12 18:43:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband blames me for the failure of our marriage. I was the breadwinner for a long time , put him through school, bought him a business etc.. He got fat, controlling with money ( I felt bad buying shoes at payless) and basically became a father figure to me. Granted now, I did drink a bit ( when I wasn't working) and got nasty with him at times. By the way the sex was horrible. I know I'm better off, but what nerve to bring me down in the eyes of all our friends. What would you have done?

2006-10-12 18:37:22 · 19 answers · asked by pussnboots333 4

We have been together for almost a year and I was previously married to someone 5 years ago, that didn't work out! He tries to tell me it's because of money, but it don't take money to ask!! I mean we are both 26 years old and I've read before if they don't ask you by six months at this age then you should move on?? I have a son who is 5 and he says stuff like "pretend I adopted him" so I can feel more comfortable punishing him. How can I pretend that when I feel as if he isn't going to marry me? I mean I feel that you should ask and show you want to marry the person, to give them the assurance they aren't wasting their time. It don't mean you have to marry them right away, but give assurance that you want to and that you someday will.

2006-10-12 18:35:19 · 14 answers · asked by slip2eternity 2

OK, heres the problem. I have been having a party at my house every other weekend for the past few months. Me and my Co-Workers get together and have a Shin dig and we have it at my place or at another guy's house. About four week's ago a guy from work brought a midget with him. We got drunk and started tossing him around. We made a game out of it. My wife got all pissed off saying that it is degrading to toss midgets like that. I think it's fun. He likes it so I don't see the problem. She say's that if i keep having the Midget parties(We call them Midget Parties now becasue all we do is play with the Midget)She will move out of the house and live with her mother. Should I stop doing something I love becasue she can't handle it? I think that everyone need's to pick up a midget and toss him so they can see how fun it is.

2006-10-12 18:33:23 · 18 answers · asked by mrharderson 4

if your husband had no sex drive and yours is through the roof is it cheating if you talk to guys on lineand your husband is angry about it but he doesnt want to talk to you about whats going of and you get more frustrated day by day and it causes a lot of stress and then we get sick we disagree about every thing and when i try to talk he ignores me what do i do

2006-10-12 18:25:29 · 9 answers · asked by gloria s 1

Some one told",There are signs like he never takes showers at home at less not every day yet hes always clean and fresh.
he never comes to bed ,when he comes home in the morning from work[4 am}I also think he has a nother phone number or message center on his phone. I know he needs to be real about this before It gets worst but he is not!! he laughs and talks in his sleep alot He never get voicmail only text messages like call me back or ergant He always say's he dont have moneyand theres alway somthing missing or diffrent In the house he Once told me It was spigette sauce on his under Wear but i was gold with sparkels in them and no smell he was riding around with a bottel of club soda in the car like he neede to remove stains' somtimes he makes me feel like I"m crazy I pray that god gives me strangth to understand some times,i even feel like maybe I"m just imagineing this yet some thing else coms up andBoom doubt agin!
What do i do ??? I try not to let it stress me out! It dose.

2006-10-12 18:23:00 · 21 answers · asked by Inlove4ever 1

will i burn in hell for being inlove with a married woman if th woman is in love with me yes or no see how east it is

2006-10-12 18:20:35 · 9 answers · asked by Hard Luck 4

i am separated from my husband now for 4months. he doesn't give a anythingfor child support, but he steadly buy him tv cars furniture etc. for himself with no problem . I moved he move in the same complex and got a one bedroom just for him. we have two kids 8 and 12 girls. he didn't think about them at all. i need advice on how to relate to him about helping out with the kids. and money. he see his kids all the time i never once didn't let him see them. we separated for mental abuse, non communication on his part i got fed up and left. cound take it no longer.

2006-10-12 18:09:23 · 16 answers · asked by babymadison61904 1

2006-10-12 18:08:13 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married to this man from 10 years. I have been giving more to his name, fame, prestige and to the family more than him. I feel that I have given much much more than I ever got. I had bad times with my parents and now it is my husband. why is it so? is that my destiny? I have decided not to go after anybody( I never did that) Is it ethical to stay with him and still not love him. My husband pleads that I have to stay with him for the sake of our child (whom I love to death). How do I cope up with such a dull life.

2006-10-12 18:05:22 · 15 answers · asked by suman 1