i was just told today that another guy at the carnival was trying to break my husband and i up,by saying things that were not true and my husband started to believe them -I guess.Is why he left.Do you think he will be back soon
2006-10-12 20:09:29 · 6 answers · asked by kdkc06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your husband didn't have enough sense to ask you before taking off, that is saying something. What do you think that is saying. If you were in his shoes, what would you have done? I think maybe your husband has some serious trust issues if he didn't even ask you. If he does come back, to save your marriage, you need marriage counseling, together. And let him know that you would never do such a thing as cheat on him, and that counseling will save your marriage and help him get past these trust issues.
2006-10-12 20:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is so easily influenced, I guess it's best he left.
You will just have to get him understand the fact that "trust" is one of the many crucial elements when sustaining a relationship. And if he doesn't trust you and starts believing what everyone is saying (like a clown at a carnival), what is there left to treasure?
Ever watch Desperate Housewives?
My advice: Do what you have to do to salvage and explain. If it still doesn't work out,move on and live your life. Don't waste your time.
Good luck!
2006-10-13 03:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by Geo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is for him to decide. If you are willing to wait, then go for it. Buy HIM flowers. Do special things just for him. It's not enough to say that you didn't you need actions to back up how much you love him. Put yourself out there and give it your all.
2006-10-13 03:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by SquirrelBait 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
???? I'm sorry, what? Your "husband" is listening to some guy at a carnival about you... and you're worried about whether or not he'll be back...
Is anyone else confused?
2006-10-13 03:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope so if you want him back!
2006-10-13 03:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good
2006-10-13 03:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋