2006-10-12 19:03:21 · 18 answers · asked by tasneem m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey! Learn giving space and asking for space. Remember too men & women come from different planets. Read "Men are from mars women are from venus"
2006-10-12 19:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Raja Mehta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that will change about your spouses attitude towards you is that it may get worse. People don't change unless they want to. If your spouses attitude is abusive, whether emotional or physical the only way to change things may be a divorce. If you talk to your spouse about your feelings, s/he may take note of the attitude used towards you and try and change to save the marriage, but that really needs to be approached carefully, without accusing your spouse of treating you with an attitude. My fiance and I went through counseling with this and learned to use "I feel" statements. Like I feel ......... about this when I think your are........... Fill in the blanks with your emotion, and his behavior. The best way to get through this is if you both seek counseling together
2006-10-12 19:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are seriously bothered by the attitude of your spouse, first introspect and find our how much your are responsible for such behaviour. Then try to reorganise your thoughts about this and change your attitudes towards your spouse automatically your spouse's attitude will change for the better....
2006-10-13 00:40:52 · answer #3 · answered by Satya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try changing yours, couples get stuck in patterns of points.i hurt you and you hurt me back.try and see if any of your behaviour has changed and that could be the cause of it.if this isn't the case then maybe they are just going through some stuff in their own minds.if they are lashing out at you they are probably stressed about something.sit down and talk about it.see if there is anyway you can make it easier for them and that will make it easier for you i promise.
2006-10-13 23:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by shanadam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which part of your personality is not adjusted by your spouse? The truth is that it's impossible to change others unless they decide. Hope you got the answer!!
2006-10-12 19:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by lan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Tasneem,
Marrying someone who doesn't love you is a very grave mistake that you have already committed. Now that the event of marriage is over, you have very little choice with your life. You have to adjust for life with what you have. So, please use the best of methods to please your husband & try to win his love.
Firstly, be kind & caring to him. Treat all his relatives with respect & concern. Tend to all his needs with love. Try to attract him with your good techniques in the bed. Tell him that you love him more than anything else. Take a trip with him for a few days, & try to be as comforting & loving as possible during the holidays. If, he really loves you, he will surely show it soon. Good luck. Bye.
2006-10-12 19:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by sensible scorpio 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you need to change his attitude towards you, you would be better off changing your spouse instead, easier,safer,and a lot More fun looking for new attitude.
2006-10-12 19:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by nana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him or her a kick on the butt and voilla - the attitude is completly changed.
2006-10-12 19:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by wonderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept your spouse for the way he/she is and the way he/she is not. And then follow what Vinayaka P wrote above.
2006-10-12 19:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by nimmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be humble &give respect & good love with good food
2006-10-12 22:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by Hind K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋