Marriage & Divorce - 12 October 2006

2006-10-12 09:06:34 · 18 answers · asked by narziso23 1

Some women I know don't cook or clean because their husband will do it for them. I'm not talking about marriages where both partners work. I'm talking about marriages where one is at home (not working) and the other is at work. I've noticed people say "My husband is caring and cleans after work." Isn't that taking advantage of a person? Why would someone want to make their significant other spend a full day at work and then have to clean up afterward? Isn't it the partner (wife or husband) who stays at home responsibility to take care of housework when they aren’t sick or have another legitimate reason not to?

2006-10-12 09:03:29 · 39 answers · asked by .vato. 6

2006-10-12 09:02:03 · 18 answers · asked by big daddy 4

My wife and I have been in a loving relationship for 17 years. We both love to wrestle around and stuff, but when she hits me, I have to hit her back. She doesnt seem to mind, but people often ask her about her bruises and black eye. How can I get them to mind their own business?

2006-10-12 09:00:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-12 08:59:01 · 18 answers · asked by Perry G 2

For years my husband (almost ex, divorce almost final) spoke online with women and spent more time in conversation with them than with me. One time, the computer was left on to an email convo he had and I was so surprised at how "in love" they were acting.

We have three kids... he was a stay-at-home dad. I just ignored it.

I thought that maybe these friendships were good for him...

HOW WRONG I WAS...

What the hell was my problem? My not getting PISSED at him destroyed everything. Not that it matters... we aren't very compatible to begin with...

Anyone else with this problem?

Not enough jealousy in a relationship...?

2006-10-12 08:55:03 · 13 answers · asked by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2

Did u think the effect is different in the too?
Did u think one is easier to forgive than the other?
If u had to pick would u perfer u spouse have a one nighter,
or affair,

2006-10-12 08:53:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband loves his job and so do I,but some days he comes home really stress out, and I try things to get his mind off of the stress or at least talk about it, but sometimes he dont like talking about the problem until he is over it. Thats make me upset because I want to help him but its hard when he wants to handle it on his own so that makes me stressed. I understand being in the Marine Corps is demanding and sometimes very stressful, so is it best for me to give him his space during times like that or take a different approach?

2006-10-12 08:52:54 · 6 answers · asked by marine_wife001 2

What would you do if you found out your husband or boyfriend was going to adult web cam sites? I just found out my husband went to one, He says that he only went once but I don't know if I can believe him. I don't want this to ruin my marriage, but I feel betrayed. I really don't mind it if he's looking at pictures on the web but not live action web cams. Should I find different ways to spice up our marriage or should I tell him we need a break untill he knows what he wants? Any insite on this would be helpful!

2006-10-12 08:44:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you had an affair while you were married did your spouse ever find out? With whom did you end your relationship, with your spouse or your lover? Are you still married? Just a question in case I ever want to have an affair. (I'm kidding, but very curious).

2006-10-12 08:41:54 · 13 answers · asked by na5nica 2

Admittedly I the stepfather have said some mean things about the father. When the father talks about how stupid the stepdad is it's ok. When father treats kids unfairly, I have a hard time not pointing it out. I have always tried to be good to the kids. Father manages to turn everything positive I have done into a negative. If I buy them something nice it's bribery, if I don't give them what they want it's punishment for not choosing me over there father. Father treats kids unequally. Kids just put up with it. I am an asss if I say anything. Almost 17 year daughter used to love me. Now won't speak to me. He can feed them crap, and they think it tastes like jello. I treat them like princesses and I am trying to take them from their father, shame on me. I told almost 17 yr stepdaughter that if she keeps buying off on all the bull crapss her father fills her head with she is going to miss out on alot of good stuff. She would rather hate me. Don't know what to do.

2006-10-12 08:39:14 · 8 answers · asked by TK 2

It seems that even being married, people seem to go out and cheat. Especially men. I get hit on by married me all the time and I feel bad for the women because they probably think that they have this great man who doesn't do NO wrong

2006-10-12 08:38:14 · 8 answers · asked by Curious 3

Last Friday was our 16th Wedding Anniversary. It was a busy day so clearly we would not be 'doing' anything on that day. However not a single word of acknowledgement in any form, not even a hug or 'I love you', nothing. I patiently waited, then left him a note of acknowledgement to 'our' day. Next morning, first thing out of his month is a complaint of self, then things for the day, finally cause I wasn't responding it was...oh happy anniversary. We had a very busy weekend, so I left it at that and waited till Monday evening to address it. Which also gave him an opportunity to make up for it (he had windows of time to of done 'something') - still nothing. So Monday, I address it, and stated that our marriage is of priority and that I was hurt he didn't have it in his heart to acknowledge it. His response was that I was over reacting and was providing the usually excuses. This isn't the first time. So, he's on the floor and is pissed at me! What should of I had done??

2006-10-12 08:37:42 · 13 answers · asked by carenffb 2

2006-10-12 08:24:11 · 8 answers · asked by umair 1

When your on Answers, do you get the answers you want to hear.

***Just curious!!!!***


Im just @ work playing around on here. Its great hearing about everyones problems, makes me feel better about my relationship. It is a little addicting! LOL!!

2006-10-12 08:23:15 · 27 answers · asked by **What??** 4

They act as if it's a sin to kiss her in public or say I love you ( I always say "I'm in love with you" to really drive the point home).you stan din line with a rose in your hand at the store and they look at you like they want to kill you! As if a three dollar rose is gonna bankrupt them!Your thoughts please............

2006-10-12 08:19:15 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband had a prior short relationship of kissing and making out and meeting this other woman who was married at the time as well and my and my hub both know her and her hub well. We are really good common friends of each other. Anyway how is it that if my hub and her talked about not seeing or doing anything again...this was over 7 months ago and that every time they run into each other at a party or with us at a restaurant, those two keep staring in each others eyes and my hub gazes in her eyes and he always does this. i find him observe her and her actions at times. why does he do this?
Also if he told her they can't do see or kiss or anything, but yet she writes him friendly/general emails which he ALWAYS replies back to every time, and he also knows the woman loves him. Don't you think my man does like her alot? Is it possible for him to kiss me, make love to me, do good things for me, but then on the side reply back to her emails, only tell me about some of them, and

2006-10-12 08:18:36 · 25 answers · asked by Saira D 1

on my last Q. most of you said "talk to him" and that would work except i feel like every time that i try NO MATTER WHICH WAY I COME AT THE SITUATION he gets angry or shuts down and doesnt answer or it just turns into an arguement. and we both end up hurt emotionally. ive even suggested counselling and he refuses. am i wasting my time should i give up?

2006-10-12 08:18:10 · 18 answers · asked by PyroPixie 2

They where in his wallet (I wasn't snooping, my 4 yr. old got to it). There was 9 of them and he said he got them from somone who came into his work. Other woman said this is common, but it bothered me that he didn't tell me about them considering he tells me every other detail of work. Yes, he could have felt comfortable telling me because we have went to strip clubs together. Needless to say, it turned into a fight, yet he still kept them (they are on top of the fridge). When I asked him why he kept them, he said "I didn't know if you would want to go". What should I think about it? Let it go?

2006-10-12 08:18:03 · 22 answers · asked by MiZmeL 4

I live in Florida and been married for 3 1/2 years. My wife left over 3 months ago and I don't know where she is living now. We don't have any children. I began filing my divorce papers and am doing service by publication. I have not yet filed my financial affidavit. We have a house (paid in full) in both names and I have a large sum of cash is various bank accounts. I paid for everything myself(including the house), she refused to work and did not come to the marriage with any money. The cash is my life savings.
My questions are:
If she never comes forward, how will the judge split things?
Should I cash-out my savings before filing the financial affidavit?
Will she be able to get alimony?
Any suggestions or advice?
Thanks!

2006-10-12 08:14:31 · 10 answers · asked by fatsomoe 1

These girls are all strippers & waitresses in strip clubs. he claims he is faithful that they are just friends, when I ask him to stop the text messages to them he refuses and he will not let me read them. I'm very jealous and today I saw one of the messages. it read" hey babe, hope you had a good day, and hope you have a good evening". Is it possible that he really is just friends or am i just stupid?

2006-10-12 08:09:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-12 08:05:31 · 10 answers · asked by susan b 1

We are in our lates 30's ans we are not sure how to mix our finances. How do you do it? One bank account, sepearte accounts? I am curious how other couples do it because this is tough. I pay all the bills and have to ask her to give me money to help...I don't like doing that...any suggestions?

2006-10-12 08:05:14 · 22 answers · asked by jimmills34 1

Just trying to find best lawyer for my divorce.Money not an issue.

2006-10-12 08:03:55 · 2 answers · asked by jpb 1

He works at a College where there are women around constantly. He has cheated on me before with people that come to his job. at this one and other jobs. Any suggestions? on what I can do?

2006-10-12 07:59:15 · 21 answers · asked by Christian D 1

My fiance and I are getting married next friday... I have drawn up a prenup... but how do you finalize it? I heard you needed a lawyer to sign it but how do I get one... and how much will it cost??? do I need a lawyer???

2006-10-12 07:55:25 · 3 answers · asked by Sparks 2

This is like a Part Two of my first question. Serious answers only please.

Ok, it seems like I'm a big idiot because I've let the wool stay over my eyes and just crossed my fingers that he will one day say the three little words. We've broken up & gotten back together many times and he does all kinds of things with me and for me, and generally takes good care of me. He's just not emotional or romantic. That said, guys, if you had a girl that loved you, and you weren't in love with her, and she wanted more, how long would you let it go on? We've been on this merry go round for over four years. Could he really just be with me because I love him and I accept the wool over my eyes? I'm not some idiot bimbo, I'm educated and sharp and pretty and pleasant and I take good care of him. I thought I would demonstrate my excellent wife skills and he would fall in love with me. Seems I'm the fool though. He'll keep taking as long as I'm offering, won't he. The writing's on the wall, eh

2006-10-12 07:54:12 · 17 answers · asked by Ade 6

2006-10-12 07:51:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, I caught my husband last night looking thru my dresser and then turns around and says that he was looking for a missing sock (lame excuse). I know that he was lying to me because earlier that day he was looking at my phone. I don't mind him looking at it because I can look at his also but it was just odd behavior. I haven't done anything so I don't know what his looking for. Any suggestions??

2006-10-12 07:44:07 · 21 answers · asked by Lily 2

4 yrs ago my fiance (now husband) took the opportunity to go out with his hi-school crush while I was out of town on business. (not telling me) A friend called me while I was away & told me she saw the girl at a gas station & stopped for a few moments to chat w/her, while there, the girl told my friend that she was on her way to the bar to meet (MY FIANCE).next morning I call my fiance, ask him what he did the previous night & he tells me he spent it with his parents. When I continously questioned he continuosly lied,Until I told him I knew he finally came out & told me that yes he had went bar hopping with an old friend nothing more. Come to find out later he had seen her months prior & made the arrangements then, so he had these plans to go with her the whole time & never told me, then lied about it. ok, so yes we are married now etc.. because I chose to believe him, however I still find myself going back to it & getting pissed, I still think he's lying about what happened

2006-10-12 07:43:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous