Marriage & Divorce - 11 October 2006

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2006-10-11 23:52:43 · 9 answers · asked by The Heart Doctor 2

25 thousand rs per month to sustain the minimum standard of living of a 4 member family, for the last 14-15 yrs.he loves n respects me a lot.i love him.he has property.ive been earning due to my maternal contacts.have gud financial support from my mother.mentally n emotionally my mother n kids r not very compatible.shud i leave my husband--goto my mothers house--put kids in hostel n think of 2nd marriage or wait for my hybby to settle his property n chances of running a business successfully?will a 2nd marriage result in more complications?will the 2nd husband give proper love n care to my kids?generally men want to marry issueless women for d 2nd marriage.
very confused.sum1 who has gone thru this plz advise from personal experience.others plz dont waste time.

2006-10-11 23:37:23 · 11 answers · asked by Excellent E 2

2006-10-11 23:23:03 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my partner for 4.5 years. It hasn't been an easy relationship. We both have had very bad experiences from previous relationships. My partners ex wife was a serial adulterer, my 1st ex husband was an alcoholic/drug addict, my second ex-husband molested my daughters. I suffer from serious depression as does my partner. My partner has a temper and can on occasions be violent ie breaking things. He has physically hurt me once. I have 6 children, 2 with my partner and I work full time. 3 years ago, he stopped working for 16 months and I had to support the family financially, even though I was pregnant - I worked up to 3 weeks before my due date. We were supposed to get married next year but I have had SERIOUS doubts about the future. I am recieving treatment for my depression but I need space. The situation is being made worse by my partner wanting to know what is happening with the relationship. I just dont know. My feelings are non-existent . I just feel numb

2006-10-11 23:20:18 · 15 answers · asked by sashabubble 2

I'm married to a foreign national who just got her immigrant visa to the U.S. based on us being married. We have 2 kids (2 & 1). I'm in the military stationed in Germany right now but about to move back to the states in a few months. We've been married now for 3 1/2 years but for the past year it hasn't been working out. I don't feel any emotion towards her anymore, I only care for my kids and their safety. If we were to divorce now, she will not be able to live in the U.S. because her visa will not be accepted unless she is married to me. She will have to return to Cameroon, Africa. My kids are U.S. Citizens. Here is the twist. I have recently fallin' in love with another woman and I want to be with her. She knows my situation and is here in Germany working. She is American and she's currently going through a divorce that's almost final. She can't come the U.S. with me when I leave but we want to be together. What steps should I take with each situation?

2006-10-11 23:12:48 · 16 answers · asked by Big D 2

we were married for 7 years she kicked me out for reasons she told people but i found out truth.all i ask is she look me in face and admit.then i would move on thats all

2006-10-11 23:09:25 · 11 answers · asked by henry c 1

sometimes its difficult to understand their own needs,,,,,,I m always confused wht qualities one should look for to finda nice life partner.

2006-10-11 23:00:06 · 9 answers · asked by Bela Q 1

I am always looking for some extra insight. I posted a few days ago about my wife asking me to leave. Not having sex in 6 months and financial issues have created a rift between the 2 of us. We have communicated by E-Mail, just our thoughts and feelings. We can't get together before Sunday, maybe even Monday. I'm afraid I might lose her. Does anybody have a thought as to what it is I should do? Again, always looking for other people's insight.

2006-10-11 22:52:45 · 13 answers · asked by Norm 2

I'll take out the trash if you do, thanks honey

2006-10-11 22:42:40 · 10 answers · asked by Roscoe P Coletrain..yip yip 3

i always promised myself that i would only give oral pleasure to the man that i marry and i did but i dont do it alot maybe every 4-5 months and he ask for it but not often i thought men were really into getting there perker sucked do you think i might be bad at it and how to improve

2006-10-11 22:12:21 · 24 answers · asked by khissmyputtytat 3

2006-10-11 22:08:34 · 14 answers · asked by omoloja 1

2006-10-11 22:05:10 · 10 answers · asked by dentist 2

i mean i luv my bf and all but lately i start to have a hollow feeling towards this guy. we barely have enough time for each other. he would come chill at my place almost everyday after work, but he'll be too tired to talk to me even. he would just fall asleep. i understand though cuz he works the whole day and school. when we do hang out on his days off, he would just go out with me to places he want. when i suggest places i want like da beach etc. he would not go. im not even tellin him to go to the mall w/ me. i notice he likes doin activities that dont require us to talk much like watching movies/videos at his house. when we hang out at each others house we just do our own thing mostly. weird and boring huh? i just feel like something's missing. he's not the type that would want to talk about probs because everything to him is fine. how do you know when to end a long-term relationship? i'm just confused i dont even know my pt. but anybody could just comment on it. thank you

2006-10-11 22:03:15 · 13 answers · asked by dorkydork 2

I'm tired of trying to make my wife happy. The more considerate I am, the more she seems to act oddly. Any responses are welcome.

2006-10-11 21:57:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please i need a serious answer,
Why do most girls loose their virginty before they get married??????????

2006-10-11 21:56:28 · 8 answers · asked by Eagle Eyes 2

he told me he never do any unfaithful thing to me just because he mouth n hand inch.can i believe him

2006-10-11 21:55:15 · 3 answers · asked by sharon 1

he give me the answer is a stupid misunderstanding thing.

2006-10-11 21:35:26 · 16 answers · asked by sharon 1

2006-10-11 21:03:52 · 17 answers · asked by end 1

2006-10-11 20:43:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-11 20:28:52 · 10 answers · asked by kcggrl 1

women still want to hug or ...kiss

2006-10-11 20:28:37 · 11 answers · asked by Steven A 1

well she and i have had a weird relationship, we have a son and she has left me twice we are together now and each time we broke up she came back to me but now we dont kiss or ne thing even when we r out in public she walks ahead of me and our sonwe dont ever talk and imean never nothing about us and she always wispers things to ppl when i leave the room,when i come back in everone gets quiet, she is very dissrespectful to me,its getting hard to live w but i love my son so much i dont want to leave she really isnt a very good mother so i fear for him and i no as long as im around then he is cared for but my point is if she hates me so much then y play games w me i no she is into another guy,is she trying to make me snap?

2006-10-11 20:19:57 · 10 answers · asked by strykemded75 1

2006-10-11 20:16:34 · 12 answers · asked by dentist 2

One of my guy friends recently let a new room mate move in. The room mate and I have been talking for several weeks now and he finally made "the move". Well, as I was browsing MySpace a few minutes ago, I find his profile that reveals he's married and has 2 children!!! I'm assuming he's going through a divorce and I feel horrible now, but I had no clue!!! What should I say to him and how should I react?

2006-10-11 20:08:36 · 34 answers · asked by Brittany H 2

i wonder will my boy friend can be a good husband in future... when ever i face hardships in life he wont say a single sentence to say dont worry i am there for u, but my friends is always there to support me, to advice me, but not my lover. in the bed when ever his mood is on i have to satisfy his sexual needs, he is not worried about me, but when my mood is turned on he will fight with me and find excuses and go away so i mean when ever i need ... he is not there for me, for all his needs i am there... will he be a good husband in future or should i move on with a person who has feelings for me

2006-10-11 19:50:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have an army life and a 3 month old baby. My husbands hours are long and i'm a stay at home mom.

2006-10-11 19:28:22 · 5 answers · asked by d 2

I Love my wife very much. I feel so useless.I am disabled with construction accident. All of our children are grown and we are blessed with 6 Grandchildren,of which we are raising a 16 month little boy.I would just like to satisfy wife.Between the narcotic pain meds,diabetes,no longer the breadwinner all of bloodpressure meds prostate trouble stress, and all this I know is not good for ones lovelife I'm embarresed to talk with Doctor.. so I thought someone could share experience with an implant,,this is dead serious, so please dont make me feel worse//Thanks

2006-10-11 19:08:18 · 13 answers · asked by ghillips2003 1

She is behind on her child support as much as 4000,00 dollars and she calls every week and ask for her every week end. My question is, how often should she get her and what is the law on this. His X-wife said she will take him to court if she don't get her everytime she calls. What should he do? My son is not holding back her seeing her mother, he has a court order for her to pay child support, by the time he finds her she has quite her job and you can't get water from a rock. She the X-wife ran out on the dad and the daughter and went off with some man for a year are so and came back and wanted her back but the court would not let her have her way she is suppost to pay child support by court order. What he would like to do is let her have his daughter 2 week end each month and not like it is now where she is getting her everyweek end.

2006-10-11 19:04:05 · 10 answers · asked by jack rabbit 2

2006-10-11 18:56:47 · 28 answers · asked by Alkivin 1

Why do we still need that piece of paper telling us we are bound together & committed when after all these yrs t/gether, mortgage, kids etc. Do we do it because it's socially more accepted? People will ask why are we bothering? Do we just want presents? Do I just want it for the ring? He is really definate that we should do it for the kids & to publicly declare our love to the world. I do love him & will be with him forever, do I say yes because he wants this or do I say no because I'm not convinced we need it?

2006-10-11 18:49:53 · 14 answers · asked by trcyrdley 1