25 thousand rs per month to sustain the minimum standard of living of a 4 member family, for the last 14-15 yrs.he loves n respects me a lot.i love him.he has property.ive been earning due to my maternal contacts.have gud financial support from my mother.mentally n emotionally my mother n kids r not very compatible.shud i leave my husband--goto my mothers house--put kids in hostel n think of 2nd marriage or wait for my hybby to settle his property n chances of running a business successfully?will a 2nd marriage result in more complications?will the 2nd husband give proper love n care to my kids?generally men want to marry issueless women for d 2nd marriage.
very confused.sum1 who has gone thru this plz advise from personal experience.others plz dont waste time.
2006-10-11 23:37:23 · 11 answers · asked by Excellent E 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you say that your husband loves and respects you and so do you. you got through 17 years with him and that love did not falter. so why are you thinking of leaving him? you must have had a good life with him despite the financial shortage cuz if you did not, then you would not have said that you love him. remember, No amount of money can equal the love and respect you have for each other. A lot of couples strive so hard to maintain their relationship with their spouses, but most end up as failures. You and your husband are lucky to still have this LOVE between you, are you willing to exchange that for a big income? Money may buy you everything except LOVE and happiness, specially from your family.
2006-10-11 23:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Count your blessings and be greatful for what you have!!- and get over the confusion= forget about the hostel- and a 2nd husband- work w the one you have- be a supportive wife - you want to trauamtize your children and husband??? I would rather have what money can't buy- like respect and love- he is working and is not a bum-start think straight and be grateful- Don't throw a good thing away! D
2006-10-12 07:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Greetings,
No offense, but I seriously think you should go speak to a psychiatrist. I feel you may be suffering from some kind of anxiety or stress. No person in their right mind who has love in their family would think of getting a divorce on account of financial concerns. I feel very sorry for your children and husband who seems to be living in good faith while you wallow in "gold-diggery". Honestly, please speak to a professional for your family's sake. Again, I apologize if my words seem harsh, but if you continue the way you are, you might completely ruin a bunch of loving lives around you....and there's no going back once the "separation" words pass through your lips.....it will be emotionally catastrophic for your children especially. Please get help.
Good day.
2006-10-12 07:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jesus S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give the poor guy a break! 20 to 25 thousand dollars a month! thats over $240,000 dollars a year! the living wage standard which is used to define what a family of four should live on is just over $36,000 dollars per year. I read that the bare minimum is just over $17,000 dollars per year. I bet your husband is providing wonderfully for you and your kids. You need to be more thankful.
2006-10-12 06:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by Fish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
300,000 yearly is above average. Besides money cant buy you love.Nobody will love and care for your children like their own father. Sounds like professional counseling may be in order for yourself. 100 years ago money was not there instead being rich was to have a loving family.
2006-10-12 06:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not be talking abou US dollars. Because if you are talking of US dollars, I don't know what you are complaining about.
This sounds like a hard-working guy that loves you and your kids. What is wrong here?
Give us more information.
2006-10-12 06:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes trying, was with s.o. who would not even hold a dam job for 7 years....you should stop and think about what you two have as one together, your kids are still alive and healthy, 2morrow one of them could get in a serious car wreck or something, you need to be more thankful, things could be so much worse!
2006-10-12 06:43:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you should get rid of your current husband and try to put up an ad. for another husband who can earn around $1m a month, then, probably you will be happy!
2006-10-12 09:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by Peter_F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't believe that your are thinking to leave your husband for fu*king nonsense money problem move your a ss and work with him and your son will start work soon you Bit*h
2006-10-12 06:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes you think moveing on to some one else is going to help you??? seems to me you should try to be more concern about what you have now
2006-10-12 07:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋