Marriage & Divorce - 11 October 2006

am getting really sick of doing all the cooking and the washing up, often i will spend ages cooking then he will decide he doesnt like it-even though he ate it a few weeks ago! he is worse than a fussy child and it is really getting me down, any suggestions on how to turn him into a helpful human?

2006-10-11 08:25:45 · 35 answers · asked by hellllooooo 2

Is it wrong or slutty of me to like it in both holes at the same time?A toy in one, and my husband in the other.He seems to enjoy it too!

2006-10-11 08:25:01 · 12 answers · asked by fluffer 2

2006-10-11 08:24:12 · 16 answers · asked by Celtic 2

Can anyone here honestly say they have found their soulmate and does it even exist? Is there anyone out there that still believes in love the way I do... that it is more important than career, money, and this commercialized society we live in that says having a big house and a fancy car is happiness when in reality it is not? I am a married 36 year old male. Now I love my wife, but I sometimes feel that there is a part of me inside that's missing or that truly isn't complete or connected. And it's that something that I yearn for the most that makes me smile... that makes my heart leap with joy... that let's me love and be loved the way that unites, connects, and completes. Does anyone in here have that? I wish I could have that. Again... I love my wife and she is a good woman... am I just focusing too much on our uncommon qualities? Am I just being a dreamer? What do I do? How do I get over this empty feeling inside? How can one be connected to one you have nothing in common?

2006-10-11 08:19:13 · 19 answers · asked by ezlayedback 1

to better please some of you

2006-10-11 08:15:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-11 08:04:04 · 24 answers · asked by aparna 1

My children(3) are having a hard time with the divorce and the counselors including mine believe we should all go together including my ex wife in order to do what is best for them. All she brings up is the hurt she has and not what is best for the children. I tell her what is done is done and now the kids are the one's we need to focus on.

2006-10-11 08:02:12 · 9 answers · asked by paco 1

yes or no?explain!!!

2006-10-11 08:01:24 · 11 answers · asked by Lady Santa 5

2006-10-11 07:59:46 · 57 answers · asked by bobbydennis352005 2

I do so much around here. Cleaning, homeschooling, cooking, taking care of the kids, working a part time job. Don't get me wrong, I love to do what I do (not the part time job, but the rest) but If I don't cook a couple of times, or am to tired to give the kids a bath and he has to he fusses me out. I realize he works 40 hrs a week, but he has weekends off. I never have a day off. :( Any help, opinions, thoughts of love would be greatly appreciated.

2006-10-11 07:59:38 · 13 answers · asked by lilmama 4

2006-10-11 07:56:27 · 16 answers · asked by malcolmg 6

Well a while back my husband asked me if i would ever had a three some and i told him i would think about it. But the other day I asked my friend who had done it before and I decided i would do it. But when i told him he could pick the girl he picked my best friend And previosly in our relatonship He told me he thought she was hot. It really makes me think he wants her and not me she is only 15 he is 22. it hurts me to think about it even though i told him i would go through with it. i just cant get the thought of him ******* another women it would be like he was cheating on me right in front of my face. How would i handle that i just want this to all go away. But i cant just let it go. HELP ME PLEASE.

I need to be able to look at my husband and feel he loves me.But instead my feelings are changeing about him. I dont know if i want to be with him any more..But i know deep down inside that i love him very much..

2006-10-11 07:53:31 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I will be going home from work in a couple of hours and I want my fiance to know how much I've missed him for the last couple of days (he's been sick and sleeping on the sofa, but is better today). I've been thinking about him all day and want to do something different and special. Any ideas?

2006-10-11 07:49:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean if I were out of the picture he'd just find someone else to take care of him and his laundry, food needs, sex needs. Maybe I'm not as important to him as I thought I was. Here I am complaining of all he counts on me for, when I can be easily replaced. Am I right?

2006-10-11 07:49:12 · 22 answers · asked by lilmama 4

I have started buying my wife flowers randomly for no specific reason like birthday or aniversary, just like that out of the blue.

How common is this? Does you partner buy you flowers for no specific reason?

2006-10-11 07:48:50 · 15 answers · asked by St.Anger 4

I am scared to admitt to myself that the decission I made 2 weeks ago was the right one (to leave my fiancee - 2 years of relationship, loveless, dead-end, we were living as a room-mates not as a lovers for months!). I am scared to death of being lonely (30 years old, Europian girl). Also, I am frightened because I have some emotions for one of colleagues which I see very very rarely :(
So, I am running away from fiance to run into a something unknown. Therefore I have identity crisis (who am I, where I am going, what should I do, do I believe in love, in luck, in ..life? ) and I am crying a lot, for two months already, bad, bad, bad!

What is wise to do - to find a way to stay in relationship with ex-fiance (he is good and nice and that is not good enough), or to ...be alone on my own again and, maybe, terribly in loved in someone almost unreachable?!

Everything seems to be questionable!

:( ...and winter is coming, and I am so afraid of feeling loneliness and cold

2006-10-11 07:47:27 · 18 answers · asked by Eileen F. 1

I did but now she wants it everyday, is this okay?

2006-10-11 07:44:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-11 07:42:42 · 19 answers · asked by lilmama 4

my friend is back from iraq, fallujah and told me some really horrible stories happening back there. He recalled an incident where they entered a house and shot anything that moved after their truck had been hit by and IED bomb. he walked into this room saw the kids and shot them point blank. On close checking the bodies, he found they were just kids 3yrs-7 yrs. His wife is very troubled about this and is considering divorce and doesn't sleep in the same room with him. He gets nightmares too. My pal is very stressed from the war and can't believe he is not even welcome back home. What advise can you give me to give him?

2006-10-11 07:42:20 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

you saw that your fiance had pictures of his ex-girlfriend in lingerie saved in one of his e-mail folders??

2006-10-11 07:35:58 · 56 answers · asked by Nunya 5

Do emotional affairs lead to physical affairs?

2006-10-11 07:34:31 · 19 answers · asked by Kemma 3

My hubby gets upset most of the time when he calls and I'm too busy to talk. Especially if he calls 2 or more times and I can't talk, or if I get too busy to call him back soon, he gets an attitude. Though I try to talk quietly, so I don't get in trouble for personal calls. How about you?

2006-10-11 07:32:42 · 15 answers · asked by liljewel 3

My fiance got divorced, and I dont want the same last name as her, but I want his last name, is there any way he can have her change her last name? Like can he go ask his lawyer or the judge?

2006-10-11 07:31:46 · 17 answers · asked by sissy85 2

I have been only married for 2 years but my husband and I have had many many issues! I love him dearly but he is such a control freak and wants everything done his way. I made the mistake of not standing up for myself initially and let him do whatever he wanted. He parties, hangs out with his friends almost every weekend. We never really have alone time to go out and do things other than stay at home. Which is fine sometimes. He has been abusive but he has learned to be much better and patient with me...but now whenever we argue or fight...I tend to leave the house or not go home at all, usually go to my parents, I know things are not going to get better that way by running away..but I am afraid that he will hurt me again - like I will become the helpless child and I hate that feeling. I want to take back control of my life. I feel we both lost trust in one another - his abuse and my abandonment. I want this to work but sometimes I feel it is better when we are apart.

2006-10-11 07:31:15 · 18 answers · asked by Yasmin76 1

It seems once you are seated- you won;'t be able to check out
the other hooters girls unless they walk by - and what does a guy
do if the hooters waitress he gets is fat or ugly or not the one he
wants- can he say he wants a table where another waitress is-
HOw do you get the hooters waitress to stay there and talk to you
more ? WIll the hooters girls ever take a picture with you-like
sitting on your lap or will they ever allow a guy to touch
threir sexy legs- ??

2006-10-11 07:29:48 · 12 answers · asked by don;t know 3

I mean you expect us to work, take care of the kids, tend to the house, the bills, keep the car clean, feed the cats and dogs, fix breakfast/lunch/dinner, wash everyones clothes etc. the list goes on and on. But then they put up a fuss if something doesn't get done. What is the deal?

2006-10-11 07:28:55 · 14 answers · asked by lilmama 4

their partner cheating on them and why? Do you think it's of your doing or your partner. This is not something I'm concerned with at all but there seems to be a lot fo questions about cheating today.

2006-10-11 07:25:19 · 9 answers · asked by St.Anger 4

Is it because they do not have to worry about commitment? Because they know we love the attention? I love the attention, but can't follow through, because of the guilt. Although, my husband and I are rarely intiment.

2006-10-11 07:23:26 · 21 answers · asked by tear streeked angel 1

I wonder if my husband knows, sometimes he looks at me like he's mad. If you got caught did you deny everything or just leave out the serious stuff?

2006-10-11 07:18:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-11 07:10:04 · 11 answers · asked by jass 1