2006-10-11 08:04:04 · 24 answers · asked by aparna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What is your problem aparna. Take it in a positive way. try to enjoy that. There are numeras women want their husband to be explosive in the bed, you are lucky to have your hubby sooo horny. Enjoy lady.
2006-10-11 08:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to slow down, its not a race.. And if he is being overly aggressive even after you tell him you don't like it..then he has other issues you aren't going to be able to help...some women like it aggressive or rough, some don't..you sound like a DON'T kind of girl...he needs to learn to not be aggressive, and if thats the only way he can have sex, then again he has issues, and you might want to think about getting away from him on that one. I know its hard but being in a marriage when you're not happy especially sexually is a bummer
2006-10-11 08:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband has been watching too many pornos and thinks that pounding away with his member on your gentle little pubis is the way to arouse and please you. If you watch pornographic movies all of the sex looks violent and the women look like they're about to be split in half at any moment, but yet they continue to moan in sheer ecstasy. A simpleminded viewer may see these pornographic movies and think that this is what their female partner would want too and this would make her feel ecstasy and orgasm as well.
-Experienced men know women generally don't like having sex at all and if they do you can only please them with providing them oral sex and analingus.
2006-10-11 08:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open and honest. The sooner you tell him, the more likely you will be able to resolve the matter. Try to not accuse him of anything, instead try to better your sex life from a more neutral approach. Your understanding will help make things easier on both of you.
2006-10-11 08:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by Larren B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You show him what you would like for him to do. Better yet jump on it and do it the way you like. I'm sorry but this is something you should have discussed before marriage because it may be something he really likes and needs to get off. If not, be adventurous and show him so stuff that turns you on. But make sure he is having fun.
2006-10-11 08:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by ameerahteal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many men think that to be a real man is to be a rampant sex beast in the bedroom.
Too many have got this information from sex flix and what their mates say.
Too many men think it is a mans job to make a woman scream.
Too many men can't tell the difference between screams of pleasure and those of pain.
Tell him this, he needs to know.
2006-10-11 08:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by mick w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky to have a manly hubby. You just tell him to slow down, both will enjoy sex. From yr another question i came to know about yr vocal orgasm. So i think you have solved yr problem and enjoying sex. Good luck.
2006-10-14 07:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Lucky1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down with him and let him know what he does to you during sex hurts you. You might also suggest that he see a phycologist for his persistence with anger during sex.
If he loves you then he would find it in him to take your suggestion and seek the help you and even him might think he needs.
2006-10-11 08:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by poppop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you like to be pleased...communication is the key. Is this something new? You didn't have this problem with him before married?
2006-10-11 08:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by phone_man_at_work 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just talk to him and explain how it hurts you he is enjoying himself and not realizing the pain it is causing you. Just be open and honest with your husband...He will understand! Good Luck!
2006-10-11 08:08:10 · answer #10 · answered by JACKIE M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋