What would you do if?

Question

you saw that your fiance had pictures of his ex-girlfriend in lingerie saved in one of his e-mail folders??

Answer 1

I wouldn't do anything... It's his personal business. I certainly hope to never be snooping about on his computer, and that he will never snoop about on mine... Cuz who knows what he might find... Better let the sleeping dogs lie.

Unless I happened to notice that the pics were sent recently - then I would not ba happy, and would bring it up with him.

Answer 2

I'd get myself to a therapist to try to ascertain why I felt a need to be snooping through his e-mail folders in the first place.

If it's really bothering you, you might mention it to him, but it's most likely only going to cause friction if you do. And not in a GOOD way either!

Jealousy will kill a relationship more quickly than anything else. The thing you need to remember is that she's his EX girlfriend and you are his CURRENT girlfriend!

Answer 3

Ask him why they are there. But that may cause a problem for you. Where you snooping in his folders without him knowing. That is where trust issues comes in. Think about it before you do anything. Maybe you could just delete them and not say anything.

Answer 4

Check out the Opposition-Then Delete! After Jamming a Pencil in His hand!

Answer 5

I would dump him and move on. Gross. That is enough to give me nightmares and I couldn't think of why I would want to stay with him.

As some payback, you can delete the pictures from his harddrive but not until you had emailed them to yourself and then sent them to your fiance and play a little game. That is, if you have the time & energy.

First and final thoughts, dump him and move on

Answer 6

First of all, how did you see the picture. It is kind of hard for you to go and get mad at him if you where snooping in his email. Take some advice from me, my now husband had a box in the table next to our bed when we where dating and it had letters and pictures of his ex. I lost it, made him throw them out. We fought over it for MONTHS. But I also new that he had looked at them because they had been rearranged in the box. I would talk to him, tell him it upsets you and why. Also tell him that you would like for him to delete it, but only if he wants to, you want to make sure he gets rid of it because he wants to not because you want to, because if he does it for you it will always bother you.;

Answer 7

That is a sign ! I didn't see that by the pictures in my husband's wallet years ago & I went through hell with him for about 11 years before he learned to be one on one partner. Watch yourself is all I can say from my own expereince.

Answer 8

Post them online. That should get her. :-P J/K. Tell him that you found them and ask him why he is keeping them. He may have just forgotten that he had them there and delete them right away. Or, if he has a problem with getting rid of them, perhaps you have a bigger problem and need to discuss his feelings for his ex. Either way, he'll appreciate your honesty better than if you just delete them.

Answer 9

Go out and get yourself the sexiest lingerie ever and WOW his mind out and have the best sex ever. He'd probably delete the pic himself. He's already got the best prize with him, he doesnt need memories :)

Answer 10

Look to see when the last time he accessed it was. He may be a poor housekeeper when it comes to old email. If it is just old, ask him to delete it, if it looks as if he has been looking at them, then it's time for a more serious talk.