Marriage & Divorce - 11 October 2006

I"m happly married to a sexy BLACK MAN. However..I"ve been trying to make a HICKIE on him for quite some time..My question to ya'll is..Do black men Get HICKIE?? NO RACIST ANSWERS..PLEASE!!

2006-10-11 15:06:16 · 13 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3

we havent had sex in 3 years ,he wont take a bath,he treats me like a nobody,he doenst notice me,no compliments,were never in the same room for long periods at a time except when we go to bed,were always arguing.

2006-10-11 14:57:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-11 14:57:14 · 25 answers · asked by OOO! I know! I know! 5

I just emigrant and married 7 month ago, applying my resident and work-permit. I am a housewife now and I hope it's not my final destination. We don't want kids too early cause I'm only 26. I want my career first. My dream job is to be a F/A. Do you think your marriage will effect what you want to do? I feel I have no one to discuss if I tell people I want to be a F/A. They'll said I'm married, it can be a problem if you cannot be home often. Or, I can go grad school. But before that I wish I can work save some money so my husband won't feel financially stressed.
Sometimes I'm wondering am I wasting my time being stay home. I really want to do something and make more friends. But I live in a very small town you may never hear. (only 1000 population, the neighbor town are all ghost town! 4 hours away from Vegas or Reno). I'm from a big city, it's a huge change to me.
What do you do if you were me? ...

2006-10-11 14:55:48 · 3 answers · asked by whatsup2015 1

we are married but separated right now.i asked him if he is sure this is what he wants. he said he thinks this is best for right now. is he just trying to not hurt my feelings or does he really not know what he wants?we've been together almost 7 years.and love each other. we're just not in love . he wants to have sex still,but isn't ready to move back in. i don't understand. please help

2006-10-11 14:52:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is behind on her child support as much as 4000,00 dollars and she calls every week and ask for her every week end. My question is, how often should she get her and what is the law on this. His X-wife said she will take him to court if she don't get her everytime she calls. What should he do?

2006-10-11 14:50:09 · 9 answers · asked by jack rabbit 2

My husband and I have a very open relationship about everything and as gross as this might sound but I'm usually in the R.Room with him while he does his thing..It doesn't bother me to see him sit on the pot! But I have a huge privacy issue, I like to be left alone preferably in an empty house. HOWEVER my huband is angry cause I won't let him in when I'm in there. This is a constant argument between us..nothing that would interfear in the marrage but just somthing I'm sick of hearing him BI*CH about ..lol...(this is a weird question) what should I DO? Let him watch and smell me..or continue with my privacy which I prefer!??

2006-10-11 14:42:37 · 19 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3

10 points for the first correct answer

2006-10-11 14:42:18 · 13 answers · asked by pickledaddy 3

My ex husband and I have been seperated for quite some time. We have never bothered doing the paperwork because we have always worked things out on our own. We have nothing in writing but it has worked well. I am thinking we probably should get things formalized. A friend suggested that using a mediator can be much cheaper than an attorney. We hav children together so I want to make sure things are done right in case the breakdown of communication ever does happen. I am leary about using a mediator instead of an attorney though. Has anyone else used a mediator instead?

2006-10-11 14:26:31 · 3 answers · asked by Sleepless in Seattle 2

2006-10-11 14:26:05 · 4 answers · asked by mijesus66 1

Because he (almost) never does. We've been married for four years and I just don't usually hear those things, hardly ever anyway. Is that normal or is that just the way marriage goes?

2006-10-11 14:24:52 · 25 answers · asked by littlenicky 2

im scared if i marry a guy too small i will cheat and im scared if i marry a guy with a big one he will cheat...in da past my ex had a huge one just wat i like but he used to cheat left to right....wat can i do?

2006-10-11 14:15:35 · 15 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4

My husband is a semi mama's boy.
My mother in law is soooo stubborn.
My mother cant let go of her grown up sons,she wants to be the center of attention all the time.
She is a Protestant , I am a Catholic.
She loves to makes her sons feel guilty

2006-10-11 14:14:40 · 7 answers · asked by 092174 1

2006-10-11 14:07:35 · 29 answers · asked by misscynic 2

I am a 26 year old man residing in Australia and work in a bank. In addition, I have graduated in December, 2005 in the course, "Bachelor of Science in Computer Science". Please contact me for further details regarding my educational and work experience.

I have got strong traditional and religious values and am searching for a Bangladeshi girl in Australia to marry.

If any of you ladies are Bangladeshi, of Islamic religion and have traditional values similar to mine, please do not hesitate to contact me in regards.

2006-10-11 14:07:09 · 1 answers · asked by K 2

How often do you think about the "other woman?'

2006-10-11 14:07:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my soon to be ex is paying a very low sum of support for 4 children less then 300 bi-weekly.......he lives with his girlfriend who helps him pay bills as they pool their monies i however am left with the kids the big rent etc etc......is there anything i can do ....if i get a 2nd job i dont see the kids at all as i work now a fulltime job...........

2006-10-11 14:06:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my ex-hubby have broken up after 9yr together. We had our up n down but still work through them. We move to Texas to buy a home. Ok we got the home, he was so happy when we move in. but then two-three weeks into the home. he change. Everything change is mood ,everthing!!! Then one day doesnt come home n tells me hes doesnt feel the same for me. He say its not me. Im the greatest thing that has ever happen to him but it over... Ok this was a mouth n a half ago we broke up. He stills lives at home with me but we sleep in diffrent rooms. We've had sex in many occations. I dont get him?, he tells me he going to move out but he wants to help me out with the kids. He put them to bed then he leaves dosnt come home till 530 am. If he sleep some were else why is he still in my home?? Why his he doing this?

2006-10-11 13:52:21 · 41 answers · asked by nuri8281009 1

Looking for Jeffery owen Nichols or Jeffery Lee Kelley. Birthdate 11/11/77. Lived in alabama most of life. born in Milton Fla. also lived in Sc, GA, Tn, FL, NC. very important that I find him. Any info would be helpful. thanks

2006-10-11 13:31:50 · 4 answers · asked by sarah555lyle 2

i have been married 20 yrs (not divored yet )......but because i work they say i cant get any........how can this be?

2006-10-11 13:26:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

going thru divorce and i miss my kids and i miss her i will always lover her she was my soul-mate she is my soul-mate and wil be my soul-mate, i prolly wont get a chance to se her everyday now but no one can"t stop me thinking of her, i still lover her soooooo deeply that i can not even type , i miss "MI LADY", its sooooooooo painfull , have i mention the kids yet "NO" i rather take some phusicall pain then go through this proceess please someone help me please i am missing them and i am crying , what happen to us, please help me !!!!!! it hurts so badddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd!!!!it is so so so so so so so so so s PAINFUL....OH GOD HELP ME SOMEONE PLEASE!! :(

2006-10-11 13:23:31 · 16 answers · asked by all-alone4eva 1

how can i get into it

2006-10-11 13:22:13 · 13 answers · asked by Brina 2

The dad's had custody for 4 months. The son feels obligated to care for dad & refuses to leave. No matter what the Mom does, the court still says the boy is old enough to say where he wants to live. They say that she is exaggerating the drug problem.
I saw the man, he looks like he's at death's door.

2006-10-11 13:18:11 · 6 answers · asked by awnery 3

Ok my fiancee had a call on his cell today and tried to play if off as a wrong #. Which was so lame anyways I got the # and called and its a local strip joint around here. I totally freaked cuz just a few months ago I busted him in this place. I walked in an he had his hands all over some stripper. Needless to say I smacked the hell outta him a few times. He swore never to go there again. So when I confronted him about the call he gives me a lame excuse that he doesnt know why this stripper is callin him. Then demands me to say sorry for being a @@@@@ to him. Why on earth do i need to say sorry for him bein a liar. Next thing i get is if i dont trust him i should move out of his house!!!! Please explain to me how this got turned around on me and how in the world do i handle this crisis. I am not speaking to him now an vice verse. He started tryin to excuse me of doin things, which is way off base! I am soo fed up with his lies and have no clue how to handle this. Please help!!!

2006-10-11 13:16:49 · 12 answers · asked by Kim 2

And he said he was no longer talking with the girl he cheated with cell phone bill came yesterday and he has called her two times i'm hurt because he has been telling me that's over with and i believed him i'm hurt because i started having feelings again and i have really been trying to get my marriage back on track please give me some advice please? I dont want a marriage were we just live together i want to be loved.

2006-10-11 13:14:06 · 16 answers · asked by lisa 2

please everybody who is as offended as I am , please report that black panther for all his racist comments? He love to piss the world off with his nasty white comments! and it is usually everynight! Let's stand together on this?

2006-10-11 12:54:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i've grown up in a good home, everybody has stayed together in my family. No divorces.(not trying to sound snooty or anything, i don't mean to offend ppl) So i'm most likely being naive about this question but my boyfriend comes from a broken home, his parents are divorced and both remarried... i was wondering if this will have any affect on his marriage when he decides to get married. Like are people who come from divorced families more likely to get divorced than those who come from families that stay together? thanks for the input!

2006-10-11 12:51:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-11 12:48:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seperated from my wife for 3 months now and tonight seems the worst yet. It is like after we seperated she has become this cold stranger person who will not even talk to me. I feel just like the country song out there "like we never loved at all" I am so sad I don't know what to do with myself, anyone else out there feel this way, any good ideas what to do?

2006-10-11 12:33:00 · 19 answers · asked by jbrown280000 1

We have a very full and healthy sex life, so I am not cool with the concept of "hey, let him look at porn then he'll come and do you"....
I am repulsed when I find out that I have had sex with him, when he was on the computer earlier looking at other women... I am hurt and so worried that he is picturing these "other women"..
Am I wack??

2006-10-11 12:32:33 · 26 answers · asked by shasta 5