Ok my fiancee had a call on his cell today and tried to play if off as a wrong #. Which was so lame anyways I got the # and called and its a local strip joint around here. I totally freaked cuz just a few months ago I busted him in this place. I walked in an he had his hands all over some stripper. Needless to say I smacked the hell outta him a few times. He swore never to go there again. So when I confronted him about the call he gives me a lame excuse that he doesnt know why this stripper is callin him. Then demands me to say sorry for being a @@@@@ to him. Why on earth do i need to say sorry for him bein a liar. Next thing i get is if i dont trust him i should move out of his house!!!! Please explain to me how this got turned around on me and how in the world do i handle this crisis. I am not speaking to him now an vice verse. He started tryin to excuse me of doin things, which is way off base! I am soo fed up with his lies and have no clue how to handle this. Please help!!!
2006-10-11 13:16:49 · 12 answers · asked by Kim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Needless to say,I was in a relationship somewhat similar nothing to do with strippers.My ex-fiancee was constantly lying to me to handle that situation ditch the jerk you will find someone better or you could do bad by your damn self.My pet peeves is a compulsive liar,cheater,and theft.And I can't stand people who tend to put themselves in this category,hell yeah you have a right to be mad cause he's constantly lying and then tries to make it seem like you are the one who's in the wrong,so he could cover up his stupid tracks.Which ain't working by the way cause he's already caught.GOODLUCK GURL!
2006-10-11 13:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sister Queen Mama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea why you are still with this guy. He has proven to be unworthy of engagement and he sounds like such a dog. You need to set higher standards for yourself. You need to let a guy know right in the beginning that you think stripclubs are practically the same thing as cheating and any other beliefs you may have about fidelity. Before getting caught up in a relationship, evaluate the guy and see if he meets your requirements. If not, don't waste your time
2006-10-11 13:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ann Ducketts 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
POINT BLANK move out if you don't trust him he's being honest if he's not wHAT you want there are plenty of fish in the sea. ALSO IT'S NEVER OKAY 4 A WOMEN TO SLAP A MAN it's NEVER OKAY 4 A MAN TO SLAP A WOMEN!
2006-10-11 13:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people who cheat always turns it around to make it like it's your fault because they KNOW they're guilty and it lessens their guilt to do so. There's no point in staying in a relationship with someone who's untrustworthy. Move on.
2006-10-11 13:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why did he call you from the strip club? P.S. It's not just you. I always think the same thing: Do I attract jerks or something?
2006-10-11 13:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just leave, he is trying to put it all on you, its all on you to call his bluff on everything. as soon as you leave, he will come back to you crying ang begging for your forgiveness. trust is important, if there is no trust, there is no foundation and you need a good foundation for a relationship
2006-10-11 13:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by drew46759 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i got a head ache after the first 2 words...
2006-10-11 13:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
you need to dump him and go on with your life you deserve better.
2006-10-12 02:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just you.
2006-10-11 13:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
sad. its life, you can't trust anyone
2006-10-11 13:20:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋