Does your marriage effect what you want to be?

Question

I just emigrant and married 7 month ago, applying my resident and work-permit. I am a housewife now and I hope it's not my final destination. We don't want kids too early cause I'm only 26. I want my career first. My dream job is to be a F/A. Do you think your marriage will effect what you want to do? I feel I have no one to discuss if I tell people I want to be a F/A. They'll said I'm married, it can be a problem if you cannot be home often. Or, I can go grad school. But before that I wish I can work save some money so my husband won't feel financially stressed.
Sometimes I'm wondering am I wasting my time being stay home. I really want to do something and make more friends. But I live in a very small town you may never hear. (only 1000 population, the neighbor town are all ghost town! 4 hours away from Vegas or Reno). I'm from a big city, it's a huge change to me.
What do you do if you were me? ...

(dear all, before you give any advice, please do not assume that I'm an illegal immigrant or just want use my husband.
I got sucks advice before such as call me "BS" or go back to my country. We married is bc we truly love each other.
Despite, I'm a career woman type or I feel lost..That's why I ask this Q!)

Answer 1

why rush into anymore? if you want your career first , the relationship has got to be strong enough to withstand it all.

Answer 2

You're 26, a recent immigrant, newly married... Looks to me that you're starting many things, and now you want to have a successful career right now?
Slow down. Marriage can help you, if you want it to be a source of growth for you. Perhaps being a housewife might be a good time for you to be with yourself and start sorting things out in your life.

Answer 3

Discuss this matter with your husband.
Communication is key --- be honest and discuss your goals with your spouse... this should of been done prior to marriage --- so it doesn't come across as a way to create disharmony in the marriage.