Marriage & Divorce - 11 October 2006

If you found yourself stranded or caught in an EXTREME emergency situation where lots of physical labor and quick-thinking are required, and there was only ONE person along with you to get out of this situation alive (Keep in mind it would call for lots of teamwork, quick-thinking decisions, common sense, initiative.) who would you want the person with you to be? Why?

-Would it be your significant other? Why or why not?
-Would you be the leader or follower taking directions in this situation? Or would you both equally step up?

2006-10-11 04:23:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

can a wife claim an interest in her spouse's wcb disability pension under ontario law when divorcing her spouse

2006-10-11 04:11:34 · 3 answers · asked by contemplate 1

2006-10-11 04:08:54 · 16 answers · asked by tnag71 1

He is not a bad guy and hes very good dad, but he always stays after work drinking with his friends till 7 in the morning,he does it at least 3 times a week, he loves been out meeting people all the time and he always has an excuse to drink. We've got separated 4 times because of this.
please help me to NOT care any more,cuz its driving me crazy.

2006-10-11 04:07:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

She says that's why my Harley Fatboy, "Betty" has quit on me. I guess I do beat on it, and cruise on it when I'm trying to relieve stress. I say it's a just a transmission problem. Who is right?

2006-10-11 04:06:43 · 13 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I've been married for 15yrs.my husband and I have had more than our share of ups and downs.Looking back it seems like more downs than ups.In the beginning we were abundantly happy with each other throughout all the problems a newlywed couple goes through.We were very dedicated to each other now that alot of time has past.The love we use to feel for each other has somehow vanished.We say we love each other but we're not in love with each other like we use to.We haven't been happy with each other for a very longtime now.We've talked about divorce on several different occassions.But we never seem to muster up the courage to do it.So I asked my husband if he's not happy with me why does he stay?His answer to me was the kids and the amount of yrs.we have invested in the marriage.That's it not because he loves me and he wants to make it work.Because if we didn't have kids we probably wouldn't be together.If you were me how would you feel?Would you stay and try to work it out,or leave?

2006-10-11 04:06:14 · 24 answers · asked by brooklyncrazysexycool 1

If your spouse cheated on you and you found out about it would you try to work it out or divorce him/her?

2006-10-11 03:59:28 · 42 answers · asked by Gracie 1

My grandmother, who was married for 50 years ( until my grandfather died)actually NOW says that it was too long to be with one person. You never would have known it while she was married. Was marriage as traditionally held actually meant for people who died at 35?

2006-10-11 03:56:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love my spouce very very much and i m sure i cannot love any one else at cost

2006-10-11 03:51:26 · 15 answers · asked by YOGESH R 1

My husband and I have been married for a very short time, just over a year. He is constantly on the internet viewing porn, chatting and joining websites designed to find singles in his area. He portrays himself as single in his profile. I do not know of any times that he has actually met anybody outside of the internet, like in person. I have confronted him about this, he does not think this is cheating and just says it is an addiction. This really breaks my heart because I love and care about him so much. I don't know what to do to stop this. Please help.

2006-10-11 03:45:36 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have found myself falling more and more out of love with my husband over the years. We have been married nearly 8 years, and have 2 children, one of which is autistic, which has put a strain on things, as well as the fact that I was diagnosed with a kidney disease a few years ago.

We always have plenty to talk about, and we argue from time to time, but lately the discussions have been more serious - like the future of our marriage. He has started a new job, and I am about to start one too. There is a fair bit of stress in the house from all this, and we haven't had sex for months. I haven't wanted to, and neither has he. We are rarely intimate any more. We don't hug or kiss any more. He went away on business for a week and I didn't even miss him. In fact, I felt better once he wasn't around. I don't know if it is just a symptom of all the stress of the last few years, and whether something is salvagable. I don't want to split up, but it's hardly a happy marriage.

2006-10-11 03:41:04 · 18 answers · asked by helly 6

2006-10-11 03:36:54 · 12 answers · asked by deadman 1

He is the person very strick forward simple thinking everyone are very hasitate with him. His working and i am not because I have a 2 kid 7 and 5 years old. personally in my eyes he is the person who doent like to be touch and answer or qustioning his comment.
Since we live in China he is dealing with uneducatated people and employee he like to blame with quite way or give a comment-let someone to do on their on way BUT if that a mistake he will blast because thats not they Way He likes.
iIf we were talking about the money he know exacly that Im not working...and he will drive an answer goes to ....earning your own money! or .u can not do anyting without my financial. In my eyes he alway put other human being smaller than him.

Thank you so much for your help...

2006-10-11 03:32:12 · 8 answers · asked by Dewi 2

What does the extra marital affair do for you? Does it allow you to remain married and not face the marital issues? Do you ever fall in love with the other woman and put her before your wife? Will the marriage ever be finished?

2006-10-11 03:24:46 · 12 answers · asked by who me? 3

Discuss why.

2006-10-11 03:21:36 · 43 answers · asked by brownsugar2220 1

is talking behind your back with his family and friends!!!!!!! how can you explain to him what happens in home have to stay in home?????Dont you think is annoying???everybody knows even what kind of underwear you use.........what you will do???

2006-10-11 03:18:23 · 24 answers · asked by haki 5

define the relation in marriage life.

2006-10-11 03:18:08 · 13 answers · asked by satyant k 3

I have graduated from school in this month. I am 24 she is 22. I am thinking to propose her end of this month. I love her so much. She is korean and living in Korea. But i'll propose her in my country Turkey.

What is your suggestion about proposal?

What is your dream about it? But not impossible

2006-10-11 03:11:45 · 7 answers · asked by utopia 1

he also wanted me to go on some dates with them....we dont have kids...so we are kind of a depressed family...some times this will change it a bit...i need to tal more...help me out...contact me from yhaoo massenger -id-litafedricks

2006-10-11 03:08:23 · 12 answers · asked by Lita fedrick 1

2006-10-11 03:03:46 · 7 answers · asked by Michael P 1

my mom and step dad seem to have a promble cause of the age thing. we are fine with it hell age is just a number to me

2006-10-11 03:03:04 · 40 answers · asked by babygirl_79068 1

I have made wedding favours using the little boxes and have used ribbon tied around the boxes but they dont sit straight on the table, its the ribbon but i cant seem to get the ribbon right on the box so it sits straight, any ideas? thanks.

2006-10-11 03:03:03 · 3 answers · asked by rach_b_2003 1

I went to hospital 3 times 3 years ago. I accused her of having an afair and last year I caught her emailing this black guy named John. I admit our sex life was not the best. I forgave her then I caught him saying to her to meet hm at his place... I forgave her again but I took away her e-bay account and check book. Then I followed her and she was coming out of some apartments. She said she was on the way to the store. Then she said she should move out to her Moms. I agreed. Now I want her to come back with my son and she won't. I know I should hang it up but I will try anything to get my son back in my life. She lives 1200 miles away and it is too far to go.

2006-10-11 03:01:28 · 13 answers · asked by bush_is_an_idot 1

2006-10-11 02:56:21 · 14 answers · asked by jules 4

my ex husband has refused flatly to pay for our divorce even though he brags about how much money he clears each week at work. He says that i should pay.

2006-10-11 02:52:16 · 22 answers · asked by AMANDA M 1

we got engaged last year and i want to move on with our relationship. he gets mad at me when i try to push the issue. i feel like a ***** but i cannot stand it any longer. He says he loves me and wants a life with me but i dont think hes ready and i feel i have had it. i have talked to him about how i feel but he thinks i should be able to live with it, if i loved him.

2006-10-11 02:52:07 · 28 answers · asked by michelle2 1

2006-10-11 02:43:26 · 6 answers · asked by volvox_2000 1

I would really just like to know your though processes.

2006-10-11 02:32:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm talking to my boyfriend about getting engaged, and I'm really happy about it. But I guess the divorce rate of America scares me. I don't want to end up getting married and having kids only to get divorced. I just want to know if you regret getting married or if you think its great. Thanks

2006-10-11 02:30:22 · 27 answers · asked by Domi 2

Just this mornig I was getting my children ready for school and out of no where I am being accused of having a affair with my boyfriend from 13 to 14 yrs. ago, maybe even longer, whom was my first boyfriend. I have not even thought of this person in that long, don't know how he's doing or if he is married and could care less. If my husband doesn't stop this crape soon, I am going to just have to get out of this marriage. This is 8yrs. of marriage that I have been dealing with this crape. I have never cheated and don't derserve this treatment, but don't know how to get the respect from him that I derserve. I'm getting worn out, it's hard to even want to work it out with him anymore. You can only take so much, he has hit me a few times over the yrs.and is consantly mentaly abusing me. He makes me feel so stupid sometimes. But I do know I'm not the stupid one, he is, he is the one that is going to break up our family and put our children through hell and I don't know if he even cares.

2006-10-11 02:19:09 · 21 answers · asked by ME 4