He is the person very strick forward simple thinking everyone are very hasitate with him. His working and i am not because I have a 2 kid 7 and 5 years old. personally in my eyes he is the person who doent like to be touch and answer or qustioning his comment.
Since we live in China he is dealing with uneducatated people and employee he like to blame with quite way or give a comment-let someone to do on their on way BUT if that a mistake he will blast because thats not they Way He likes.
iIf we were talking about the money he know exacly that Im not working...and he will drive an answer goes to ....earning your own money! or .u can not do anyting without my financial. In my eyes he alway put other human being smaller than him.
Thank you so much for your help...
2006-10-11 03:32:12 · 8 answers · asked by Dewi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have to learn how to talk and ANSWER HIM until he shock or stun or at leat he listen and repect with my sentence and think twice...I need your help...Iam quite person by the way..I better walk out or throw something to make my feelings better.
2006-10-11 03:37:03 · update #1
I'm afraid you are going to have to shoot him. I know it sounds extreme, but sometimes ya just gotta do it!!!
(Just kidding!)
But it is fun to fantasize, isn't it?
2006-10-11 03:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by The Heart Doctor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Millions of women in your situation get a job, once you are working he may see you as more of an equal. I doubt it thought some men are just sure they are better than anyone else.
Ask the other women in your area how their children are taken care of while they work, then look into it. See what jobs are available, and if you don't qualify for any of them why not tell Mr. Better-than-everyone that you want to go to school so you can be a better, more educated woman since that is important to him and you do not wish to embarrass him? Then take your education and get a good job. And let him live on his own and find someone else to drive crazy.
2006-10-11 10:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a very intimidating person.
I had a friend once who was in an unloving relationship and she thought there was no escape becuase she had kids and no jobs.
In the end she came and lived with me untill the council sorted a house for her and she has never looked back. she has rearly come out of her shell and she is now the best friend i once new again.
all i can say is make the decision and stick to it
2006-10-11 10:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lilolme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl my boyfriend is the same way. He talks to me like i am a kid and always gets on me over the littliest things. It's either his way or no one's way at all. He acts like he's so smart yet, treats me like i am stupid or a kid. I'll never understand why he does that but, a good slap upside the head might work.
2006-10-11 10:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by llldeliciously_kissablelll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want to divorce him, you need to research the laws in China regarding divorce. I don't know if he'll be financially obligated to you and the kids if you're not married or not, in the US he would be, but that's not where you are. I would contact the person who in the US would be called a divorce lawyer, but I don't know how it works in China. Best of luck to you.
2006-10-11 10:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dewi your kids are old enough ......when they go to school you should look for a part time job.....you need to earn your own money ........your husband knows you are not working so he feels he can manipulate you......be smart and start looking for a job you will feel better and your selsteem will be upâ«â«
2006-10-11 10:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him. He is too nasty for you.
2006-10-11 12:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will spell it out for you
D-I-V-O-R-C-E L-A-W-Y-E-R
if not, seek a therapist
2006-10-11 10:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋