English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

Marriage & Divorce - 9 October 2006

[Selected]: All categories Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

I had arranged marriage while studying law. Then everything felt perfect & fine. But I found him arrogant & stubborn. My parents said that it will get alright with time. He is earning well in a multinational. Immediately after studies I concieved. Now my baby is 1&half yrs. My husband got promotion and is very busy. He travels alot and when at home spends all day working on the computer. I have become his PA or servant. All I do all day is cook, clean and take care of the baby. I have no time for hobbies or reading or taking care of myself. I am completely dependent on him. He doesnt take notice of me anymore. We have good sex and that is all. When I try talking to him he says that I am very negative and selfish & ungrateful.This is what all mothers do and you are feeling bad about it! He has even started screaming at me for little things. He ignores me when at home & keeps working. I want to start practising but will he adjust as it will make me busy? He has no respect for me.Pls help

2006-10-09 23:50:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it possible that you and your husband will be happy even though both of you are not really into sex? But you enjoy your company together because you have a good communication to each another?

2006-10-09 23:49:28 · 18 answers · asked by mean z 1

I had arranged marriage while studying law. Then everything felt perfect & fine. But I found him arrogant & stubborn. My parents said that it will get alright with time. He is earning well in a multinational. Immediately after studies I concieved. Now my baby is 1&half yrs. My husband got promotion and is very busy. He travels alot and when at home spends all day working on the computer. I have become his PA or servant. All I do all day is cook, clean and take care of the baby. I have no time for hobbies or reading or taking care of myself. I am completely dependent on him. He doesnt take notice of me anymore. We have good sex and that is all. When I try talking to him he says that I am very negative and selfish & ungrateful.This is what all mothers do and you are feeling bad about it! He has even started screaming at me for little things. He ignores me when at home & keeps working. I want to start practising but will he adjust as it will make me busy? He has no respect for me.Pls help

2006-10-09 23:46:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

For me... we went to watch Pirates of the Caribbean.
It was so awkward but fun at the same time.
I remember feeling like i was dreaming or something close to that.
And i knew me and him were going to be together from the first time i saw him.
We've been married for two years now.

How about you? Do you remember your first date?

2006-10-09 23:34:04 · 19 answers · asked by falzalnz 6

my fiance is from bangladesh and i am from the USA. We mutually decided to push back our wedding a year because I panicked. We had planned on marrying this November. He is at work in Bangladesh and I am at work in the USA so the strain is kind of hard on both of us. He told his mother that we were going to be married next November instead of this November and now she doesnt believe that I exist and that he is lying. I have never spoken with her as I dont speak Bengali and she doesnt speak English. so she is trying to find a girl for him to marry in Bangladesh. Does any one have any suggestions to this problem? Or similar experiences and what was your solution?

2006-10-09 23:25:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am seeing an Aries woman. We really love each other very much.I am a Cancerian, 18 th July. I have many of the typical cancerian traits like sensitiveness, introvert nature etc.But, by effort, have overgrown these things a lot. But am nowhere near the adventurous nature of the Aries.
Havent there been successful, lifelong relationships between incompatible signs ? I dont want both of us to get hurt.She doesnt believe in these things at all.What do I do ? Please help.

2006-10-09 23:01:34 · 18 answers · asked by sud 2

is it possible to gte IM's for frontal game room of members that played on oct. 9th played b tween members, msmalika1234 & shaunyachangedman

2006-10-09 22:57:56 · 1 answers · asked by shaunyachangedman 1

i try my best to understand it but i cant help to get hurt whenever catch my husband looking to other girl when he is with me...i try to discuss this to him but he said its natural..i know in a way i sounds so immature in this issue but i couldnt help myself to be hurt..im pretty modern woman they say...and i use to be head turner...and now its hard for me to see my husband turn his head to other girl........i dont know how to overcome this...me i couldnt believe that this would be an issue to me in my marriage life....i couldnt imagine to feel this way coz i use to have good self confidence when i was single....pls i need ur smart answer..i do appreciate all ur anwers and concern advice to me...thank u..

2006-10-09 22:33:18 · 16 answers · asked by char 2

we sometimes have a debate on this matter, about who really is more horny....is it men or women...

2006-10-09 22:33:02 · 20 answers · asked by krave t 1

my wife left me for another man and took all furnitue in the house i was left with nothin appart from joint debt witch she has refused to pay.i had to take out a iva.I have been turned down for legal aid but can not afford the divorce canse of the debt.my solitor dosnt seem to want to help me.I had to move away from my home town due to threats as her new boyfriend is involved in crime.

2006-10-09 22:24:52 · 20 answers · asked by adrian c 1

actually, none of us has a problem...we just can't figure out why we can't have a baby...does it have something to do with the position? or....etc. Any advice please??

2006-10-09 22:10:58 · 16 answers · asked by krave t 1

For unusual evening type dress tht would be suitable for a wedding dress (but not white?)

2006-10-09 22:03:39 · 3 answers · asked by emily_jane2379 5

If you live with a partner for some years, but not married and have no joint accounts or proprties, do you actually have obligation towards her/him once you are split up.

2006-10-09 21:48:25 · 13 answers · asked by alfa&omega 1

i am graduating hs in june & i plan on going to college to be a lawyer. work out.he understands that & we be helping me alot. we have been dating for a yr & a half now. we already have everything planned out & it all seems to be looking good. so whats the problem right, i do love him but so many people are telling me to wait? i need some other opions.

2006-10-09 21:47:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need some advice. I got married in may of 2004 The day after we got married he went back in the service. In August he said he want a divorce. Here it is 2006. I cant find him. I want a divorce. I do not have the money to hire a lawyer. I have a baby now but he is not the father. Since we havent seen or spoke to each other in over 2 years do I have to say anything about my baby. How do I get a divorce? Isnt there something about running it in the paper if so How do I do that.

2006-10-09 21:40:20 · 8 answers · asked by meme 2

Y do I think this? Im not THAT bad looking .. But he doesn't look at me the same anymore .. What do you think ?

http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y278/lexis_910/77a2.jpg
http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y278/lexis_910/9ee2.jpg
http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y278/lexis_910/new026.jpg

2006-10-09 21:39:43 · 12 answers · asked by LoveMyBrat 1

2006-10-09 21:39:17 · 6 answers · asked by serene 1

A child is also involved.

2006-10-09 21:29:49 · 6 answers · asked by wondering 4

I'm getting a divorce soon but we haven't split yet. We've put the house up for sale and when it sells we're going our separate ways...I get the kids, he get's the dog! This really cute guy has asked me out and I don't know if I should tell him that I'm married waiting on a divorce or just don't tell him anything! I don't want to scare him off!!!

2006-10-09 21:23:08 · 64 answers · asked by prettywoman 6

This peom I wrote describes it all .... what do you think I should do now?

Operator please connect me with Nineteen-Eighty Two
I need to make apologies for what I didn't do
I sure do need to tell her that I thought the whole thing through
And now it's clear that she is what - I should have held onto.

Postman can you sell me - a special kind of stamp
One to send a letter from this crazy lonely man
Back into the wasted years of my living past
I need to tell her, now I know - how long my love will last.

They say hindsight's 20-20 but I'm nearly goin' blind
From starin' at her photograph and wishing she was mine
It's that same old lost love story - it's sad but it's true
There was a time when she was mine in Nineteen-Eighty-Two.

Losing my mind, going back in time - to Nineteen-Eighty Two.

2006-10-09 21:16:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey, you know what paradise is?
It's a lie, a fantasy we create about people and places as we'd like them to be
But you know what truth is?
It's that little baby you're holding, it's that man you fought with this morning
The same one you're going to make love with tonight
That's truth, that's love......

2006-10-09 21:15:17 · 9 answers · asked by silverstarlightfairy99 3

He's hit me 3 times and calls me ugly and fat all the time. Most of the time he's really nice. He just has a tempur problem. There's deffinetly potential, with therapy but, there's a cute guy that flirts with me really bad and I'm tempted to just let my mouth do all the talking... if you know what i mean! HELP ME!

2006-10-09 21:14:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Come on you can do this. Be creative!

2006-10-09 21:00:34 · 9 answers · asked by DidoDeeDee 3

i have been married for 4 years, we have sex proberly once every 1 or 2 months. I cant bring myself to have sex. Im a loving and cuddley person, my husband, doesnt cuddle, hold hands and has only kissed me properly on our wedding day, he hates kissing. I thought i would be ok with this, but im struggling. even when im upset or crying he just walks away he cant handle effection. So after time ive stopped having sex with him, he might aswell leave me 10 pounds on the side of the table thats what it feels. Im getting more angery everyday about it, i cant bring myself to show any effection towards him now. i feel like ive been married 60 years. its scaring me as i dont want us to split, but everytime he has a drink he brings up not having sex and i know what he was like before i married him bla bla bla. his parents have had 8 kids and they dont show him any attention so im blaming them what do you think i should do..... Ive really gone off sex....

2006-10-09 20:55:45 · 14 answers · asked by chicken 2

I was drunk one night and on the back of post card this is what I wrote .....

Maybe it's the beer talking baby, but you've got a butt that won't quit. They've got these big chewy pretzels here that are [I don't know what I wrote here] Five dollars? Get outta here.


Do you think that was reason enough for her to leave me?

2006-10-09 20:39:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

fedest.com, questions and answers