Marriage & Divorce - 9 October 2006

what do you think of a 40 ish man sending an e-mail to end a 21 month relationship and won't discuss it in person?

2006-10-09 20:36:57 · 9 answers · asked by tarzan's lady again 3

If mom and dad live in different states and need to share custody of our children what would be the best way to arrange visitation. One child in school, one starts next year, so school can't be interupted. Just looking for suggestions. Thanks.

2006-10-09 20:30:08 · 9 answers · asked by Lynn 3

My ex-husband supports our children, and is a great father, by no means a dead beat dad. But still owes back support for the time that I was on welfare. Will these arrears stop him from being able to renew his green card? He wants to take the kids to Mexico for Christmas, but says that he is experiencing delays in getting his green card processed. I know you can get your drivers licence suspended, but does anyone know about immigration laws and child support?

2006-10-09 20:20:14 · 5 answers · asked by justwondering 2

2006-10-09 19:57:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

And a whole bunch more. I'm in the Air Force and I think that has something to do with his changes. please view my other question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkJlgY4zEZkxT2o7T5LNKETsy6IX?qid=20061009233757AA3Ugds

or e-mail me if you can give me some more insight.

2006-10-09 19:47:09 · 13 answers · asked by ur a Dee Dee Dee 5

I love him, and we been together for almost five years. When he kisses me, I just peck him. I don't want to stick my tounge in his mouth. When I'm drunk, I don't mind. We can make out for hours. What do this say?

2006-10-09 19:42:10 · 13 answers · asked by Holy Rollin Mama 1

My brother in law is 14. and is a weird kid. He was like my own brother before. My husband is currently posted in Middle East and is away from home for a long time.
He has recently started to behave very badly with me. I was tolerating his bad behaviour like walking in front of me in undies, touching his geni*tals when i was alone etc thinking he was a kid and hence harmless.
But yesterday evening he has crossed all boundaries. After taking my evening bath, i came out to my bedroom, locked the door and was changing clothes. Suddenly i heard a curtain move and was shocked. I wrapped my towel around me and when i looked outside, i saw my brother in law walking away with his phonecam in hand. I immediately confronted him and demanded to see his phone camera. He refused and said he had taken my pictures in the buff. He threatened to post my pictures on the net if i tell anyone & demanded I keep quiet.
Should i break up my family? or shld i keep quiet and tolerate his demands?

2006-10-09 19:34:06 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you burn in hell and why

2006-10-09 19:32:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

don hold back tell the truth

2006-10-09 19:28:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

These Days I Barely Get By

I woke up this morning aching with pain
Don't think I can work, but I'll try
The car is in the shop so I thumbed all the way

I walked home from work and it rained all the way
My wife left and didn't say why
She laid all her bills on the desk in the hall

Put my only two dollars on my favorite horse
He lost by a nose and I cried
Oh and my boss says come winter we'll all be laid off

I want to give up, lay down and die
Worst of all is when she told me goodbye

Oh these days I barely get by

2006-10-09 19:28:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-10-09 19:27:32 · 2 answers · asked by LoveMyBrat 1

I've gone on two dates (really fun and clicking too) with this lady and for the third date I'm thinking of her meeting two of my closest friends (not family) for dinner. Is this too soon?

2006-10-09 19:24:55 · 15 answers · asked by Blue_Falcon 2

2006-10-09 19:22:54 · 4 answers · asked by Sanyal 1

treat me so bad, I love her very much and she says she loves me. But she will never cuddle me and says bad things about me in public when I am there. If I am meant to be her husband, should she have respect for me? I have had enough of it and feel like hitting her, but I know I am not that sort of person and she just she is playing around when I try to talk to her about it. If this is what marriage is all about how to so many people put up with it.
By the way can someone tell me what sex is, because there is no way I am going to find out with her?

2006-10-09 19:21:25 · 13 answers · asked by crusherdogrules 1

my husband said he was coming home 3 days ago after the season was over with the carnival.always has an excuse why he is not coming home and co- workers are lying and saying he is not there and he is on his way home and he is not.Fustared in michiganOur anniversery is the 12 thof oct and he is ignoring me

2006-10-09 19:19:10 · 13 answers · asked by kdkc06 1

My fiance cheated on me and the other woman may be pregnant - she will not tell him if she is or not...

I may be pregnant also!!!!!

He is not sure who he wants to be with now. He is confused!?!

What do I do?????

I am confused????And hurt?????

Should I just leave my fiance alone? I love him and I know he loves me!!! HE ADMITS IT WAS A MISTAKE!!! IT WAS THE FIRST TIME IT HAPPENED!!! Now he doesnt know if he should be with this other woman...or me...it is so confusing...he doesn't know what he wants to do...

2006-10-09 18:58:07 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my man and have given him so much!!! A family, my love and i do everything for him!!!
I want to be with this man for the rest of my life!!

2006-10-09 18:54:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-09 18:42:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am always finding porn sites on my husbands computer. and like many of you it made me feel insignifigant. So I found a way to make him stop. you can go to internet explorer and click on tools. then click on internet options, then settings, then view files, this will show you everything that has been viewed. double click on one of the sites and it will bring up the site. just right click on one of the porn pictures and then select set as background picture. This turns his screen saver into the porn picture. I did it to my husbands and when he went to sign on it showed the porn site in front of his mother. You should have seen his face. He never watched porn on the computer again. also you can copy the pics and then paste them onto his side as an icon. try it. If you still need help email me at jeanneinbottle@msn.com

2006-10-09 18:36:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a divorce single dad that has full custody of my 2 kids..Don't get me wrong,I am proud that I have them.I take good care of them..It just seems that women tend to run away once I tell her my situation. I understand what single moms go through now..

So ladies ,Would you consider dating a divorced single dad???

Overall, I am glad that my kids are taken care of . They know that I love them and I would anything for them..

Positive and negative comments are WELCOME...

2006-10-09 18:34:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've tried being nice to my mother in law since we've been married and she was actually ok at first. since last holiday season she's managed to tell me off about my wanting to have children, never thank me or my husband for the mother's day gift I sent her, and always seems to surface and gripe at me when me and my husband have an argument. she used to call my cell phone looking for him but never says hello to me. what happened? and am I wrong for just not saying anything to her when he talks to her now? Doesn't sound like I can say or do anything right so I just don't try at all (without any attitude)

2006-10-09 18:16:54 · 12 answers · asked by Kisses 2

Do you think that people can get married and stay happy and in love for a long time?

2006-10-09 18:14:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Before I wa married I could never get a date, now that I am married i have women hitting on me all the time. And during times when my wife and I are mad at each other it is hard to not fall into the temptation of cheating?These are girls that I wished I could have dated before I was married, but then they wouldn't give me time. Now I have never cheated but it has crossed my mind? Please just wanted to know what attracts women to married men.

2006-10-09 18:09:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband's coworker told me in confidence that my hubby was trying to secretly get "fixed" before I got pregnant. the crazy part is we discussed having children BEFORE we were married and that I was not going to play stepmom to his boys every summer and not have my own children. after getting pregnant, hubby went back and forth upset about the baby which leads me to believe his coworker was telling me the truth. Was that selfish of me to still want to have my own children? Why would someone try to take that away from me when he should have just left me alone and not proposed? what do you think happened here, I missed a huge red flag somewhere!

2006-10-09 18:05:52 · 12 answers · asked by Kisses 2

2006-10-09 18:01:45 · 16 answers · asked by footynutguy 4

to tell my ex husbands girlfriend to back off without starting a war?
She is all over my daughter and treats her like her own, I should be happy they get a long and that she loves my little girl but she doesn't know when to back off. Especially when I am around. How can I approach her without her and my ex getting all upset. I am trying to keep it peaceful.

2006-10-09 18:00:32 · 5 answers · asked by betty_htch 5

I think this guy cheated with me on his new wife of 9 months. Out of the blue he looked me up (went to a lot of trouble to find me) & tell me how the time he spent with me was happiest of his life. Then he drops bomb he is married for 9 months but unhappily so, got rushed into marrying girl because her dad was dying & she wanted him to walk her down aisle. Tells me can still feel electricity in our kiss, taste me - I send him back to wife to talk to her - he comes back & says he feels better, but I am all he can think about & he doesnt want to abandon her but he wants to have relationship w/me, then proceeds to get EXPLICIT with me, telling me how he would like to have hours & hours to make love to me & sends inappropriate pictures. He has made me the other woman in his marriage whether I like it or not!! I get mad at him for dragging me into it & demand an apology and he goes to his MOM, lies about it & she calls me screaming at me, threatening me. Did he cheat? What do I do?

2006-10-09 18:00:05 · 12 answers · asked by theotherwoman 2

my mother in law has not spoken to me "nicely" since I've been pregnant, we live in different states and there isn't much commnication anyway. I sent her a baby shower invite and never heard a response from her, however, she recently went on a cruise but always complained about not having enough money for anything. I don't make any points to speak to her when hubby is on the phone with her I just carry on with what I normally do. is this healthy? what do I have to look forward to when the baby is here as far as dealing with her?

2006-10-09 17:50:01 · 11 answers · asked by Kisses 2

If you signed a prenup and haven't worked during the marriage (housewife) can you ask for spousal support?

2006-10-09 17:49:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents are currently separated and I'm living with my mother in SW Virginia, while my dad lives and works in DC. This is the first holiday season with them separated, and I don't know what to do. My dad'll be all alone in DC, while most of my family lives around SW Virginia, so they'll all be at my current house for the holidays and I can't miss them. I also don't want to leave my dad alone for the holidays, and I love visiting him because he's in a big city, and there's so much fun stuff to do. How do I figure out how to decide where to go for the holidays?

2006-10-09 17:47:38 · 13 answers · asked by Lauren 2