Marriage & Divorce - 9 October 2006

If ur husband had a friend that u found out about, but they both say they never had sex. she however said they kissed, he said she kissed him. If i trust him, do i just believe him and move on, it's been a little over a year i have done all the spy work i can. i feel like i'm going crazy? If he did kiss her would he tell me. we are not living togather, but i miss him so much. i can honestly say i had no strange feeling that he was cheating, what do i do, he wants to come home, and have promise to never keep secrets again, please help.

2006-10-09 06:57:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my husband for 8 years. And he has cheated for them 8 years.. I have now seperated from my husband,And I could not be more happier than what I am .. The man I have been talking with for 7 months flew down here to be with me.. And we made love for the first time. And I have to say I never thought I could ever feel so happy again and with another man at that.. I always have been devoted to my husband and he has never been devoted to me.. I finally realized that it was never my lose but his... And you wouldn't beleive he has asked me to forgive him and give him another chance.. I told him Heck No! I feel the reason why? he wants me back is because he sees I am happy and I am becoming more successful without him.. He asked why? I never wanted revenge on him.. I told him I did get my REVENGE.. And he said How I told him WHEN I BECAME SUCCESSFUL THAT IS WHEN I GOT MY REVENGE..I am happy and I want to stay happy and that is without him... GOD is GOOD all the time..

2006-10-09 06:57:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I have been together for a little over a year and we have one child. He has these two friends that are girls that he works with. I was visiting family this weekend and he had these two girls over at our house while I wasn't there and they hung out and drank and talked. One of the girls, who happens to be an ex fling of his, got too drunk (go figure) and he allowed her to spend the night in our guest bedroom. I'm completely bothered by this! Do I have the right? I feel justified! Also, any advice on how to handle this conversation with him or is this a deal breaker? Opinions welcome!

2006-10-09 06:51:53 · 28 answers · asked by Nancy W 1

It has been told to her over and over about the problem but nothing is bring done about it.

2006-10-09 06:49:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does any one feel the same way?

2006-10-09 06:46:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-09 06:44:16 · 17 answers · asked by cowboy59277 2

she's 24 I'm 23. we both grew up in the states. I met her in college. she's the one for me. how do I make it memorable?

2006-10-09 06:43:24 · 26 answers · asked by leor00 2

I have a husband that i married 3 months ago , he still lives with his mum . i have a newborn on the way in 5 months he has giving me numberus reasons why i should not to stay by his many let downs like what to name the baby to why he wont drop any of his work load to spean time with me or the baby. ive had enongh , ive had cryed my last tear last night , we tryed to go to some church buddies to help with our problems like we have done for many of sundays this time he left me there with these people. he went home to his mum, my son was there , my son cryed before we left because he wanted to go out to eat with us he didnt understand why my husband came back without me . that hurt me to the core nobody messes with my son like that and gets away with it . but i prayed to let my son brush this unworthy mans doing and i pray that i have more understanding on why this man my husband is this way toward me and has no respect for my sons feeling i need some words of wisdom, what should i do

2006-10-09 06:37:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What if my husband filed for divorce out of State and Custody? Does he have more of a upper hand on the situation since he's only suppose to have them for one month this summer and didnt' return them into my physical custody?. My Attoney told me i have to file for 911 custody here in the state i live in and file a suit on my husband for childsupport back pay in the State of VA. ?.

2006-10-09 06:36:13 · 2 answers · asked by tyedyebutterfly 1

2006-10-09 06:34:52 · 5 answers · asked by onebear57 1

Alright, honestly who among us wants to admit this? Not I for sure. I love my fiance dearly. Nothing, including his parents, is going to keep us from being married. That said, how much mistreatment am I supposed to tolerate? His mom basically told him to choose between me and them. He chose me. Seems simple enough. But he is miserable. So I guess either way I am damed. I can tell he wants to have a relationship with his parents even though he was told to choose. Am I just supposed to pretend they do not say hateful things about me? Am I suposed to pretend I don't care how they treat my kids? Am I supposed to ignore when they do and say something hateful to a person I love? I really do not understand this. Why would anyone want to put themselves through all of that. I would be very content to turn our backs on the whole hateful situation, but that doesn't really seem to be an option. So has anyone else been through anything like this? If so I would appreciate any words

2006-10-09 06:29:56 · 7 answers · asked by Liz 3

2006-10-09 06:29:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-09 06:27:12 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1

If you are a mother of a 2 year old, separated from your husband (not yet divorced) and living with your parents, what is the likely-hood that you will start seeing a man right away. (Within first 6 months)?

2006-10-09 06:24:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why am I so doubtful??
I am dating a guy who is great. He's very honest, and I trust that he would never cheat. I know that he has strong character, and that he strives to do the right thing, so my doubts don't stem from him.
I get freaked out though. He is away at school, and I can only see him every other weekend or so. I have a busy life too, so even though the distance sucks, It's probably better . But I can't seem to get over my insecurity. I am an otherwise strong and stable person, but I get anxiety about him- does he feel as strongly as I do? Are his feelings changing? Is the distance thing going to be too hard for him? What if this isn't going to work out? What if I'm wasting my time? What if...what if...
I can't stand that I'm being so fearful- it seems irrational. I think that he might be able to pick up on the fact that I feel insecure, and we all know how unnatractive THAT is!! can anyone relate to this??
Any suggestions on how to change my attitude?

2006-10-09 06:23:16 · 15 answers · asked by smarty 2

Help me solve this problem please. Me and my partner split up and i am still living in our house, he is fine with that but now we are talking about finalising things properly. I desp want to stay in my house but the mortgage is quite hefty, i couldnt afford it. The only way i can afford it is to have my dad as a guarantour, not really sure what that entails yet but i feel awful asking my dad as he is getting old and retired. What do i do? Its wreckin my head!! Plus my ex wants his payout frm house, how do i afford that too???

2006-10-09 06:23:08 · 19 answers · asked by woodentop 2

My husband was adventurous with the other women in his life; all of whom were Caucasian or some other race. I'm one of only two African-American women he has been with and he never married any of the others, but why can't he have the same passion with me. I will admit I have a problem with his history when it comes to women. He is a wonderful man and takes excellent care of our new family, so why can't I get over his early penchance for non-black women. I guess I'm creating a problem when I shouldn't because a lot of women would say if he is good to you why think about the past. It's just sometimes I find myself wondering if he misses the other women. How can I get over this and stop comparing myself to the pictures of white women I see in his photo albums.

2006-10-09 06:22:20 · 10 answers · asked by impressionist 1

I'm reading answers from people who are DATING now who met on answers, and I have friends who graduated together with me who met on yahoo after 20 yrs and hooked up so it's not that "anonymous" as you want to believe it is. I don't feel paranoid, just lied to and my privacy violated. Yes, it's a lot to ask in 8 mins but this has overwhelmed me and taken up my whole morning with the information I've found out. It's rather devastating to think you have a private relationship with a man you love and respect and he's talking openly about our sex life for the whole world to see. WHERE IS THE MUTUAL RESPECT? I DON'T THINK I'M OVERREACTING AT ALL. and NO he's NOT Sausage-Fingers.

2006-10-09 06:20:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2 months ago we had few arguments about him talking to atleast 10 ex girlfriends and i proved my point how disrespectful that is and he stoped.but he also stoped having sex with me.he doesn't want to touch me,hug me,kiss me -nothing.and when i asked him he said i'm too needy and whant too much from him..we both have our daily stress but he is definitly avoiding me...he sleeps on the couch and i'm in bed...for 2 months!!he also said he has a problem with getting it up,but he has pillls (cialis)and using them(there r few left)and still not having sex with me...i love him and i'm pretty sure he loves me too but this is starting to hurt me...i gave him time and space to come to me(he rejects me if i come to him)and it's not happening....what to do?what to say?he doesn't want to go to marriage counseling..thanks

2006-10-09 06:19:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can not give more details

2006-10-09 06:12:35 · 15 answers · asked by florencia s 2

we were lets just say swinging, They have a daugter that is in her mid twenties, They may have invited her to join, or she may have joined in on her own. I was a little upset when I saw my Husband having two, and when I told him I also wanted two ( older son) he was upset and thinks its wrong. What do you think I should tell him?

2006-10-09 06:12:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-09 06:11:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-09 06:11:28 · 16 answers · asked by KM77 1

My husband told me it is not possible to contact someone and possibly start a "friendship" or relationship through Yahoo Answers yet I've seen many people post their website addressess and contact information.

HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE MET OR CONTACTED FURTHER SOMEONE YOU ANSWERED A QUESTION TO ON YAHOO ANSWERS? or HOW MANY WERE OFFERED THE CHANCE TO MEET SOMEONE HERE?

2006-10-09 06:08:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Months ago my hubby started talking about Yahoo Answers. Nowadays it seems he's addicted to it! Since it's so important to him I decided to "check it out" and I am really pissed off at some of the things I've read. Hundreds of people know him by his yahoo name and if they were to see and read what he says openly about our marriage they will know intimate details about us that I don't care to share with anyone else! Do you guys THINK ABOUT THAT before you give such private details about your lives? Do you think about the other people that will can be affected and hurt? There are marriages and families at stake here! It seems you do this as an amusement - just fun & games - but for those of us being OPENLY DISCUSSED behind our backs it seems a violation of privacy. WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS?

2006-10-09 06:05:21 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband very much. Our sex life suffers sometimes because of work, kids, etc. I have noticed that if we skip over 2 or 3 nights without having sex my husband starts acting really cold towards me. When I ask him what is wrong he says, "Well, you act like you don't want anything to do with me." And I asked him, "Is sex the only thing that shows you that I love you?" And his answer is yes. So I guess all of the other things I do for him don't matter? I guess I could treat him like crap and do nothing around the house, and as long as I am having sex with him on a regular basis he is fine. I don't understand this.

2006-10-09 06:04:06 · 19 answers · asked by LadyA 2

thinking about getting married need some input

2006-10-09 06:00:37 · 19 answers · asked by jack 2

have sex with another woman while i watch? She has gone to the topless bars with me and has even gone to pervert row with me and let the women put their boobs in her face, touch her, and suck her boobs and man was that a turn on! I told her I would love to watch her go all the way with another chick..thought that would be the ulimate way to spice things up!!! Don't get me wrong, we have a great sex life! We have been married for 15 years and we are very much in love....When we went to the bars together, we both came home hornier than ever..i just think her with another woman would be the greatest thing ever and I told her I would just watch unless she wanted me to join in...she is considering it, which is cool but some people think I'm asking too much..what do you think?

2006-10-09 05:57:49 · 20 answers · asked by confused 1

2006-10-09 05:53:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

he flirts alot...now i also do it.... i went on some dates.....
but need help in ideas.....dont think badly....many ppl have the same prob

2006-10-09 05:52:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anita Zultan 1