2006-10-09 06:44:16 · 17 answers · asked by cowboy59277 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good Question!
2006-10-09 06:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what is going on in your lives...in our case, we started a family right away and kids can take alot out of you! So can the stress of bills, work, etc. I have been married for 18years now and my husband and I went through a period of time where we were lucky to "get together" once a month...now with the stress load lightened, the kids getting older, we have found our sex life better than ever! - atleast 4 times or more a week!!!
2006-10-09 06:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by katydid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because in the beginning women are really into pleasing their man. Then as time passes they start feeling like they are being taken for granted and they don't necessarily feel the need to be as submissive and pleasing as before. How much sex a woman gives all boils down to how she feels she is being treated. If she feels like you are treating her like you never want to lose her then she will try to make you the happiest man alive. (and women know what makes a man happy!) If she feels like she is being treated poorly she will let you leave without giving a care if you ever come back...therefore she doesn't feel the need to please you!
2006-10-09 06:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by bamachick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. Most of the time the guy starts to just want to jump right in, he gives up on foreplay, romance, & kissing. A women needs to get "warmed up" before sex, she can't just jump right into it like a guy can. If you're fighting more or aren't paying much attention to her like you used to, then she begins to lose interest & feel like your useing her as your sex toy. Girls want to have sex, guys just have to know how to get it the right way. Think about this...what has changed from the beginning to now?
2006-10-09 06:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by tanner 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you first start dating- a guy will do all he can in bed to "prove his manhood." After awhile, he stops. Then its wam bam thank you maam- roll over and fall asleep. It's boring for the woman and pointless because we dont get off.
2006-10-09 07:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by Shell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now this is a very good question and all too common.
The truth is they lure you with it and then resort to there more true selves once they have that contract.
This is why you get a good pre-nup.
2006-10-09 09:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they need the energy to focus on sucking the life out of you.
2006-10-09 06:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The same reason , all brides smile on their wedding day. They know they have given their last B/J.
2006-10-09 06:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by Chuck C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience they work hard to get what they want, but once they get it they don't do much for it anymore. That damn piece of paper makes them think they own their partner instead of being a team.
2006-10-09 06:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by flashpro 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it takes work to keep the magic going strong. sounds like you need to give more sexually to wake her libido. It will be worth it in the long run to put forth the effort now
2006-10-09 06:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by jr90292 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋