It has been told to her over and over about the problem but nothing is bring done about it.
2006-10-09 06:49:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not a man i am a lesbian
2006-10-09 06:58:25 · update #1
She is older then me.
2006-10-09 07:00:24 · update #2
hey you - take the action then
2006-10-09 06:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear of this from so many men, but I think the real problem lies in the feelings she has.
I was married for several years to a man that I was not totally in love with, and not completely attracted to. I just didn't want to have sex with him. I used to make up all kids of excuses.
Now....I'm in a great relationship with a man I love and am extremely attracted to. I want sex more than he does!
Maybe she's just not that into you?? Sorry. There could be more to it, but you should really try to get her to talk to you.
2006-10-09 13:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by HotK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Than what you have to do is if you love her.. You talk about it in a calm respectful manner. And try to work it out . If there are things she doesnt know take the time and teach her.. And if you dont love her than tell her it would be better for you both to go your seperate ways because you would like to remain her friend and it is best so noone gets hurt in the process. GOOD LUCK and GOD BLESS
2006-10-09 14:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say it's been told to her over and over, but have you been specific? Sometimes it really helps to be specific. And be aware that she may be looking to you for guidance if she is particularly young or inexperienced. Also, sometimes women have things in their background or religious upbringing that cause a great deal of inhibition. If you love her, be patient, be specific, and also, a sense of unconditional love, that you're not going to just chuck her out if she underperforms can be just the thing to turn the engine over!!
2006-10-09 13:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex lacking usually stems from deeper issues- most men do not understand that. I would take her out for a night on the town- show her how much you care- as long as your showing how much she means to you, then she will want to have sex with you- get that spark back, that's ALL
2006-10-09 13:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by shannon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps her needs are not being met and therefore she does not want to participate and be left wanting. Perhaps she needs some romance. Listen to what she is feeling as well as what you are sharing about your feelings in the matter and compromise.
2006-10-09 13:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another woman she has passed her sell by date. Keep her fro the cooking and cleaning and stuff and get some action xx
2006-10-09 13:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to cheat on her. The rules of rug munching dictating. If you're not gettingalottapuss, then you're free to go elsewhere to lickalottapuss.
2006-10-09 14:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever the problem is I hope you can work it out. If she won't listen then maybe it is time to move on!
2006-10-09 13:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either find a better way to communicate her failings, or find someone else.
I prefer the 2nd choice.
2006-10-09 13:51:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you need some TLC from her and that you're going to start masturbating since she refuses to realize that you're in need. Let her catch you, maybe then she'll come to her senses.....
2006-10-09 13:52:07 · answer #11 · answered by nycrunner69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋