I'm reading answers from people who are DATING now who met on answers, and I have friends who graduated together with me who met on yahoo after 20 yrs and hooked up so it's not that "anonymous" as you want to believe it is. I don't feel paranoid, just lied to and my privacy violated. Yes, it's a lot to ask in 8 mins but this has overwhelmed me and taken up my whole morning with the information I've found out. It's rather devastating to think you have a private relationship with a man you love and respect and he's talking openly about our sex life for the whole world to see. WHERE IS THE MUTUAL RESPECT? I DON'T THINK I'M OVERREACTING AT ALL. and NO he's NOT Sausage-Fingers.
2006-10-09 06:20:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
interresting question . even for myself I've posted a few things that I wouldn't want my daughters to read , but if they did I wouldn't lose any sleep over it . and knowing that they have myspace / zanga accounts , I looked at them a couple of years ago , and haven't looked since , my thinking is there are some things that I may not want to know { they are both in thier 20s} if its that much of a concern start up a nother account and use it for any questions or answers that you don't want coming back to you
if your signifant other is talking that openly about your sex life that can be a problem . even as a guy I've heard things from friends and coworkers and I would just as soon not know about , and by the same token have said a few things about my own relationships that I should of kept to my self . thinking about some of what I've heard from other guys I've often woundered why thier wives put up with them .
2006-10-09 06:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by crazy_ol_hippie_radical 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pamela, no you aren't overreacting...no you have every reason to be upset. I would never tell you didn't. You thought this kind of stuff just between you and your husband. Well, as I had said early in the 1st question I answered by you. I wasn't allowed to talk to anybody, so I used this for my therphy. You are a very private person, and my husband is too. He doesn't mind me doing this, but he doesn't want our dirty laundrey aired out.
I wish I knew what name your husband goes by, so I could see exactly what he wrote, Their are alot of men and women on here that are disgusting. But for the most part, we are just asking for opinions, and help in general.. You can say who you are, or you can remain in secret. There are people that don't mind being on the spotlight, I don't mind asking for help when I don't understand something, I get my information private. That's my decision. Please give this a try, and give your husband some credit for being concerned enough to seek advice...he could just not give a crap...I would rather him ask somebody, then not worry about things..Pamela, he must love you truly, to risk you finding out, so give me a little slack..I don't mean let him completely off the hook, but I think it's something worth giving a little more thought and understanding on both parts...
God bless us all.............
2006-10-09 11:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe anything anyone says as far as feelings on the internet. If I could go into detail I would but I don't think I'm allowed to do so. Never, never trust anyone. If you honestly believe this person and feel the need to meet him or her then bring someone with you or meet in an open well lighted area and don't take a ride with them. I don't care how old you are. What they say online is just a way to lure you. I'm not saying all of them but some and you won't know which ones they are. Remember whatever you say can be saved in archives and later copied and shown around. Better safe than sorry. Who knows this could be the one for you or it could be a big mistake. Please, please be cautious. Oh, and by the way, you are NOT paranoid, you are smart.
2006-10-09 06:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by winter715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some call it paranoid,I call it being careful. the guy subsequent door has made me sense paranoid at instances, because of the fact I submit together with his noise in basic terms see you later and then I call the police. earlier i'm able to cling up the telephone, the neighbor stops making noise and drives away. This has befell this manner of excellent form of instances i've got come to have faith that he the two has a faucet on my telephone or he has a chum in the PD. that's approximately it. preserving my handbag close to to my physique whilst i'm outdoors is extra warning than paranoia.
2016-12-16 04:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by wexler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only not anonymous if you choose to make it that way. Again, you seem like you're upset with the people on this site when the answer lies in your husband's lack of respect for you. I can't blame you for being mad but taking out on the people in this forum is just bad form. Talk to your husband as he's the one who turned to this site and opened up your private life, inviting everyone else in.
2006-10-09 06:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way...if he wasn't sharing this information with strangers online he would be sharing it with non strangers in his life. Some times we all have questions or thoughts and we just need to get some feed back. No, it isn't entirely private but I think if you choose to be then it is pretty close. The truth though is that privacy is only what we choose to make of it.
2006-10-09 06:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're paranoid. In fact, your rage is quite sexy to me for some reason.
When you have a chance, watch the indy movie "Long Distance." I think you will truly be able to identify with the premise of the movie.
In the meantime anonymous mouse, take it easy and don't get all cyber-stretched out about things, oK?
2006-10-09 06:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? What is your question?
I don't know you so I can't say if you are paranoid or not, but with the rest of your "question", I'd say someone needs Oprah. Or Maury.
What is sausage fingers?
How can someone date someone and be anonymous, now I am completely confused and must go eat some pudding.
2006-10-09 06:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pam didnt i tell you that you would'nt just ask one ? the reason you are doing it is the same reason your husband is doing it , nobody knows anybody in here in less they want you to your husband is not having a affair he's answering ? for people and asking ? you make it sound like we are a bunch of hookers or something talk to your husband about it you must like it too you still on yahoo answers the bad place that gets in people's bussiness your husband ask a ? we answer it we do not go out for tea
2006-10-09 06:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a first class creep! He does not respect you at all, He's totally using you. And he's lied to you. Tell him to take a hike! Why would you even consider putting up with someone so self centered and shallow? You deserve better!!!
2006-10-09 06:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by jewells 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋