Marriage & Divorce - 9 October 2006

When I sleep, I'm dead to the world...a 747 could land in my kitchen (not that my kitchen is that big) and I would never know. This annoys my wife to no end! "Why do I always have to get up with the kids?", "Why don't you move when I tell you to stop hogging the bed?", "Wayh, wayh, wayh?"

Is there a way to sleep 'lighter'? I don't think so, but maybe someone could enlighten me!

2006-10-09 02:40:13 · 8 answers · asked by a kinder, gentler me 7

Is divorce ok after having kid. What about social outlook for divorce in India or better to be in some other country?

2006-10-09 02:35:12 · 17 answers · asked by hi123 1

We have been married for almost 3 years. He has always had a problem with porn. I thought things were different when we first got married then I found out that he has been checking out porn and chatting with women. He wants to hook up with some of these women for drinks...with a chance of other fun. He tries to keep this a secret but I know a lot of what he does. Because of this...the spark is no longer there. If we kiss...I feel nothing except wet lips. What should I do?

2006-10-09 02:19:40 · 13 answers · asked by Jenny 1

thats not all...im scared that it will end up by having sex with them....i now have to go on dates with them...he enjoys watching and listning to those events.....
need ideas abt this issue............

2006-10-09 02:17:17 · 24 answers · asked by Lita fedrick 1

I recently got married. My husband and I dated off and on for about 4 years. The last time we had broken up I got so depressed that I did some stupid things. I didn't want to tell him about these things because I was afraid he would leave me. I kept them from him for a long time. The day before my wedding my used-to-be friend called me and threatened to tell him everything if I didn't produce this ring she said that I had. ( I don't have it by the way, she was just upset that she was not in my wedding). She said she would show up at my wedding and beat me up and ruin my wedding day (along with some other very horrible things). I felt I had no choice and I confessed the worse of what I had done to him. He was very upset but said that he still loved me and we got married anyway. She didn't show up but now I have this fear that she will ruin my marriage if she ever gets a chance to speak to him. Should I tell him the other things I did? I honestly don't know what will happen.

2006-10-09 02:07:55 · 26 answers · asked by nicksgirl3283 1

2006-10-09 02:01:06 · 6 answers · asked by prettylady 2

2006-10-09 01:59:17 · 25 answers · asked by Rebooted 5

whay the people dont whant to have real love

2006-10-09 01:55:36 · 10 answers · asked by romeo 1

any ideas on how i can build a better self - confidence. I am not fat i weigh 58kg i am 1.56m
every one tells me that i am pretty but i don't believe them. it is creating problems in my marriage.

2006-10-09 01:49:17 · 13 answers · asked by sweet - angel 3

2006-10-09 01:36:51 · 13 answers · asked by zoolihoi 1

not everything,but i feel she's hiding a lot from me..i don't know if i can trust her nor forgive her...help

2006-10-09 01:36:46 · 24 answers · asked by no name 3

I've been with my current partner now for 13 years, married for 8. I have two children from a pervious relationship and one younger child from my marriage. Over the past 3 years my marriage has been on and off the rocks. My partner is a good man but love has gone for me. I know marriage is all about working at it but it feels i'm the only one doing all the work, my husband just takes each day as it comes. We have talked about this in the past and i'm sure he knows how i feel but he chooses to ignore it. I've been seriously considering leaving him and start a new life on my own, as i feel i'm already on my own anyway. The only reason that stops me leaving is because of finances. My husband has his own business and has supported me and my children for the past 8 years. I wouldnt know even where to start. So what do i do? Do i carry on in an unhappy marriage or do i throw the towel in and start all over again?

2006-10-09 01:36:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been apart from my husband for 7 and a half years, i want a divorce but i am really frightened as he put my daughter and i through hell, life is good now we have not seen him for 5 years, but i fear that if i start divorce proceedings that he will try and scare us again and try to see my daughter who incidentally he has had not contact with - when we first separated he took me through courts to obtain access when he got it he didn't bother, so therefore that is why i am scared in case he puts us through all of that again - ps i hope to get married again - please help

2006-10-09 01:27:55 · 15 answers · asked by ali 3

I have tried all the standard tests. I threw myself in front of her car (she did slow down to about 10 miles an hour), I lay at the bottom of the fish pond for what seemed like 20 minutes To her credit, she walked over to the neigbors house for help, and came back with a cup of sugar and a rope. I tried throwing myself off the roof to see if she would catch me, but it really wasn't her fault that she had to answer the phone during my decent. So I'm thinking, is there a better way to find out? By the time I get a real answer I could well be permanently disabled or dead. Or should I just go over to my girlfriend's house and get some of that real loving I can understand?

2006-10-09 01:18:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-09 01:10:49 · 32 answers · asked by JSK 1

i am married to a wonderful husband, my problem is that i don't think much about me, i look in the mirror and hate what i see. due to that every time my husband mention a female friend i go bilistic due to my jealousy. my hubby is so good looking and i am scared that he will leave me for someone better looking than me, he has told me that it will never happen cause he loves me but i cant help feeling insecure. any advise

2006-10-09 00:31:38 · 16 answers · asked by sweet - angel 3

2006-10-09 00:25:02 · 30 answers · asked by mani 1

when we were still expecting our son, we went through some rough times, now it seems even worse now. You'd think that you'd have a pretty good grip on how to go about it the second time around but, it seems like the rough times are even rougher. I've tried everything to calm things down, any suggestions?

2006-10-09 00:18:53 · 20 answers · asked by Dumbfounded 1

What can a pregnant women do to stay sexy?

2006-10-09 00:18:04 · 20 answers · asked by sarah 1

My husband is severely depressed and in treatment counselling with a psychiatrist.

His main issue is that he feels total rage and anger against me. He doesn't know why, he says. We have gone throguh many things together including his mother died suddenly 10 months ago, and I had to break the news to him.

He seems totally pleasant and fine around everyone but me and our children. He syhas he feels no connection to them either.

Then when I ask him if he feels if it would be better that he (or I and theboys) moved out while he worked on this becasue I can feel it when he looks at me and I was hoping it would give him more space. He says I am talking to someone who can't current;y process info so he really doens't know what we should do...

BUT he is making financial descisons and talking about moving to another city...to make things better whether we are together or not...

I feel if he can't make descisions about us and can't think clearly he shouldn't be considering things

2006-10-09 00:13:59 · 18 answers · asked by Sandra C 2

its like this he likes me to flirt with other males in his presence and he want this kinky games to be played....i would like to talk more on this topic...plz..email or im me.....

2006-10-09 00:12:39 · 14 answers · asked by Lita fedrick 1