Marriage & Divorce - 9 October 2006

2006-10-09 04:29:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Most of my friends are single. With an exception of one ot two. The 2 of my most prettiest friends cannot keep a man. One friend has a new boyfriend every two weeks. She keeps on getting dumped. My other friend is the same way but she got married recently and the marriage lasted for 2 months..lol....Her husband went back to the mother of his child. This is the second time he left her. He left her once B4 they got married....lol

2006-10-09 04:23:35 · 28 answers · asked by saphire 1

2006-10-09 04:21:32 · 11 answers · asked by pepsicola 2

2006-10-09 04:17:11 · 6 answers · asked by sweetlink 1

My husband spent Saturday watching college football and NHL hockey. That night, I showered, shaved, curled my hair, put on my lacy nighty & went to the LR and said..."I've got the red lights on & I'll do anything you want."
He then watched a 2-hour movie, while I read my book in bed. When he came in the BR, he watched the news for 1/2 hour more. I got really ticked, shut off the lights, and said thanks for nothing.
He feels he did nothing wrong by watching some TV, and that we were going to get to the lovin' eventually. It was already 1:00 am, and I'd been waiting 2 1/2 hours. I feel my special invitation was brushed aside for TV. What I want to know is, was I wrong to get bichy with him?

2006-10-09 04:11:41 · 22 answers · asked by Cynthia 3

My wife has implied that she might be interested in swapping with another couple. I'm not into it, but has anyone out there done it and what has the experience been like.

2006-10-09 04:05:58 · 15 answers · asked by REDRHINO22 2

They spend 2 weeks a month at fathers, this is 2nd year in a row they forgot. Father forgets their birthdays when they are with mom and stepdad. Mom and stepdad have always made big deals out of every birthday. Mom's feelings very hurt. Should we just blow it off? Should we purposely forget their birthday next time? Kids seem to be mad at us and try to place blame elsewhere.

2006-10-09 04:04:18 · 26 answers · asked by TK 2

2006-10-09 03:57:11 · 3 answers · asked by ditch 1

2006-10-09 03:55:33 · 37 answers · asked by stpete2106 1

2006-10-09 03:51:51 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the appeal of a married man to a single woman? When he actually divorces his wife and leaves his kids for them does it make them feel good in some way? Any comments?

2006-10-09 03:51:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

im ok with it cos its fun......but now i have to go on dates with them..i have no intention in sex. with them...so is hubby....
give thoughts.....

2006-10-09 03:45:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anita Zultan 1

I feel it's a wife's duty to satisfy her husband.

I'm married and have been with my husband for almost 5 years. I would never deny him no matter how tired I am or what he is requesting. I love to please my husband and I love the thought that he can have pleasure whenever he needs/wants it.

Also the types of sexual pleasure that a man what's should never be denied either (such as going down on him). I would think that since he's your husband you would see it as a privilege to service him. We should never expect anything in return either (although my husband does return the favor most of the time).

What are your opinions on this? I want to see if the general public feels the same as I do.

2006-10-09 03:42:43 · 36 answers · asked by Julie 3

Is remarriage right if you are divorced with a kid? Will it affect the kid, will the new spouse accept my kid?Is staying alone a better idea?

2006-10-09 03:40:09 · 19 answers · asked by hi123 1

I am looking for swingers clubs in my area and can't find anything.

2006-10-09 03:37:58 · 11 answers · asked by Becky 3

Why would a man bring home a case of choclate bars and candy, when he knows his wife has just gotten back to her pre-baby weight? She worked so hard dieting, going to the gym, starving herself. She's hopelessly addicted to junk food and can't have it in the house.
He'd tease her with a candy in her mouth, saying Umm, this is so good. Too bad you can't have it. He kept at it until her willpower was gone. Now, she has put on weight and blames him.
Another friend I know, all she has to do is mention going on a diet and her man starts bringing home fried chicken, french fries and pizza every night for a week straight. He doesn't want her to loose weight.
Neither of these 2 men are overweight. Why do men do this? Have any stories to tell.

2006-10-09 03:36:50 · 15 answers · asked by Sunny 2

Let me start by saying submissive doesn't necessarily mean that you don't have an opinion and are weak. I mean submissive as in catering to your man and allowing him to take on a "King of the Household" role. Again, don't assume this means he's able to boss you around or what have you.

I currently have a job (as does my husband). However, when we have children I will find a way to stay at home with them. There is no way that a woman can work all day, come home and tend to the children and then tend to her husband fully.

Men need to be taken care of. They need to be tended to (sexually, emotionally, etc.) Why don't more women accept the role they are meant to be in?

2006-10-09 03:35:17 · 17 answers · asked by Julie 3

With someone who is just like you, or someone who is different, in your relationship? Sometimes, when people argue, i've heard people say that it's because, "they're too much alike." Can you ever be too much alike, and if so, is this a good thing, or is it a disaster waiting to happen?

2006-10-09 03:34:59 · 8 answers · asked by LibraT 4

I've been in a relationship with a married guy for the past 8 years (I'm 36). I also have a daughter with this guy, but, as time flies, I only feel more and more attached to a relationship that isn't giving me anything. I want to end it, 'cause it's been a lot of time and I don't feel like I love him anymore, but it's such a hard thing to do. Help me, please!

2006-10-09 03:34:09 · 27 answers · asked by candywhiteandrew 2

I have met sooooo many very cool people on here but there is just one thing that bothers me. Bi and lesbian women who refuse to believe that I am not interested, that I never thought about it and that I'm not the least bit interested. I like talking to people, and never exclude anyone until they keep insisting that I'm something that I'm not. I respect who and what they are and I never say come on you know you've seen a man you wanted or I don't believe you never thought about it. I'm ok with who they are why can't they be ok with who I am?

2006-10-09 03:33:21 · 7 answers · asked by sasha 4

How could be a married man says’ I am happy in my marriage’. Then he is dating another girl? What is he after from another girl if he is happy with his wife??

2006-10-09 03:27:23 · 14 answers · asked by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2

I mean, jeez, it's just a business transaction, now she's threatening to cut off my allowance.
Total BS

2006-10-09 03:19:05 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fell in love with someone and he lead me to believe he was in love with me. He told me in the beginning that he had a girlfriend, but that he wasn't committed. We never had sex because we were getting to know each other. He lives in another state. He was someone I knew that came back into my life. He came to see me and we had a nice time. After he went back home, he said he had to see where the other relationship was going. He called me for awhile, and some e-mails, but they got more distant, less frequent. Now he says we should only say hi every month or so. I'm hurting over this. He occassionally sends me e-mail. Should I ignore him completely now? Should I call him and give him a piece of my mind? My emotions are confusing me.

2006-10-09 03:12:46 · 17 answers · asked by wayouthere 4

Ok--my husband and I are going to celebrate our 18th wedding anniversary next week...I have already told him that I would like a nice romantic evening with just the two of us. I have already made arrangments for the kids and everything. (in our 18 years, we have probably celebrated our anniversary 2-3 times as our son was born on our first anniversary and we also put him first) My husband knows how much this means to me...anyway...he was talking to some friends of his and decided that all of us are going out this weekend and party...he wants to go to a titty bar and have fun and get drunk...he knows I don't drink, nor do I feel comfortable going to places like that...Would you be upset?? I feel like I really don't matter much to him. This was supposed to be a special weekend for us.. I have talked to him about it and he just says I need to loosen up and live a little. What do you all think?

2006-10-09 03:12:08 · 22 answers · asked by confused 1

IM thinking of having an affair i am asking for a friend a male

2006-10-09 03:07:50 · 18 answers · asked by cleo_alter_ego 2

How do you feel about that?

2006-10-09 03:04:03 · 23 answers · asked by Me 3

Married for about four years and have a beautiful daughter alomst 2 years old. My wife and I constantly fight. It's clear that we cannot get along. Both of us probably agree that if we didn't have a child together we would have left each other long ago. I love my daughter so much. She is everything to me. I cannot bear to live without her, seeing her everyday. I am scared to death that she will hate me or not even care about me, that I'm just some guy and not her daddy. My wife would likely remarry. I'm worried my daughter would think of that person more as her father rather than me. Anybody have a similar situation?

2006-10-09 02:57:06 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4

About 5 mos ago, he was caught having an affair. We hung out this weekend and ran into some old friends; one was a girl that he grew up with. I was fine, didn't think of anyting(infidelity). The older I get the more I love and do for me; He see that I know how to make myself happy. On our way home, he said he didn't feel comfortable talking to her b/c I can be psycho. I said, It's not that I'm crazy, it's the fact you are not "TRUSTWORTHY" he blew up, and went into how he take care of his family and that is all that matters. I said yeah for father side, but your husband skills can use some improving faithfully. We have not talked since. Was I wrong for calling him unTrustworthy, should I have said nothing, and continue him calling me jealous and psycho? I think it's this new found confidence I have found in me and he is used to these women being insecure. Please any advice will help.

2006-10-09 02:56:31 · 18 answers · asked by confused 1 1

2006-10-09 02:55:44 · 31 answers · asked by stpete2106 1

I have been married almost 20 years to a great, fun loving woman. We have 3 sons, 1-9 yr old and the other 2 are teenagers, There has been many great times, we have had some small troubles and some big, but we still are together, I love her very deeply, but do not show her enough. Our sex life has had it ups and downs. In the begin it was new and exciting, then we had kids and it became quick and less often, as the kids got older, we started to rekindle it, but the same old sex for 15yrs gets old. The wife has been dressing it up, from time to time with some new lingerie, we tried sex in some riskily places and we have even gone to a Men’s club a few times, all where good. She has mentioned that she thought about swing, (that statement really threw me off because I thought she would very considerate it. Turned out to be hoaxes.)
Our regular sex session is some foreplay (on her) then intercourse, and then were done.
I yearn for more from her, I do not want some one else.
I am gilt of searching the internet for porn and this upsets her. I only do this when she’s not home or asleep.
I know that most of the girls I see online are not real or just doing it for the money but there are still some that do enjoy showing and talking about sex.
Am I wrong to want more out of sex from my wife or should I just learn to live with it.

2006-10-09 02:51:26 · 25 answers · asked by PopeyenOliveOil 1