2006-10-09 02:55:44 · 31 answers · asked by stpete2106 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO!
2006-10-09 02:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by Melia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it gets too many people into trouble. Many people think that it's absolutely harmless, and in most cases it is, BUT it only takes flirting once with the wrong person. Then, things end up going further than you expected. The next thing you know is that you've cheated, and wish you had never done it. I personally think that flirting with others when you are married is disrespectful.
2006-10-09 03:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I answered your other question about sleeping with someone else and sounds like you have a problem. Sit down with your spouse and discuss your issues. be fair to his trust and either divorce him or quit thinking like this. You are one confused puppy. Get it together. Men will ---- you with out any thoughts of you and your feelings. Sure they tell what you want to hear but believe me, as a man we only want sex. Nothing good will come of this. This person will believe if you will cheat on your spouse then he will never trust you if this relationship turns into something more than a fling.....Back to this question-- no it is not alright to flirt.
2006-10-09 04:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No.
If your husband is okay with it and doesn't get bothered by you just flirting with other men. Also if you can just flirt and keep it at flirting without it going any further I said its okay. To do this though you have to have communication within your relationship with your husband and be comfortable with each others actions and have trust.
If you don't have trust and communication with your husband and if he don't like your flirting then its wrong. Ask yourself what would I do if he flirted, if the answer is no you wouldn't like it then I think you shouldn't do it.
2006-10-09 03:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Lips of Morphine ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can even flirt with members of the same sex. Flirting can be just a simple, innocent thing. But if it makes your partner jealous, stop it.
2006-10-09 02:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH YEAH BABY!
It adds flavor and spice to the day!
Some people have a hard time differentiating between playful flirting and actively looking for an extramarital relationship.
Unless you are into swinging and all that stuff that is!
2006-10-09 03:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by Manny L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if:
1) Your spouse doesn't have a problem with it
AND
2) The person you're flirting with realizes that it's "all talk and no action" and that you're not going to do anything more than flirt
2006-10-09 02:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that flirting for the most part is innocent. If you are unsure if you have crossed a line or are being innappropriate think about it this way... If you can't do it while your partner is standing there next to you then you probably shouldn't do it. That way you know you wouldn't be crossing any lines.
2006-10-09 03:09:12 · answer #8 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends... can you leave it at flirting only or do you think it will go further. flirting can be a dangerous game and you may be a tease more than a flirt to the other person. btw, how would you feel if your husband were doing the flirting? i think therein lies the answer...
2006-10-09 02:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by asian chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn straight it is, hun. Just be careful of the people you do it in front of. Nobody likes tattletales. Other thing too, the more you do it the tougher it is to know where draw the line. It'll keep getting further and further - trust me. Have fun and be careful !!
2006-10-09 03:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by Lexington 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Do you value your marriage? Do you value loyalty? Do you love your spouse? If you answered yes to any of these questions then NO, flirting is not acceptable.
2006-10-09 03:01:18 · answer #11 · answered by Tania 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋