Most of my friends are single. With an exception of one ot two. The 2 of my most prettiest friends cannot keep a man. One friend has a new boyfriend every two weeks. She keeps on getting dumped. My other friend is the same way but she got married recently and the marriage lasted for 2 months..lol....Her husband went back to the mother of his child. This is the second time he left her. He left her once B4 they got married....lol
2006-10-09 04:23:35 · 28 answers · asked by saphire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
By the way..I only laugh Bcz my friends think that they are gods gift to men, and obviously they're not.....And Ive been happily married for 5 years and Im only 26
2006-10-09 05:08:36 · update #1
Maybe they are different people when they are with guys, which is true of most people. I am different with my guy friends than I am with a lady, to a degree. Mostly because of the romance factor, and the whole notion of a 'relationship'. It's not that there are untruths going on, but different goals, different feelings involved, and that kind of thing.
So, maybe these woman project a much different personality to the men then they do around you as friends, and perhaps this personality is not to the liking of most men.
The other thought is that maybe the majority of the men are unsavory and when they find that your friends are classy, ethical ladies that don't 'put out' right away, the guys move on to a more sure thing.
You know your friends better than I do, but I think you asked a great question.
:)
2006-10-09 05:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they are looking for something out of the man that they can only find within themselves. It helps to be happy and content with yourself before you enter into a relationship. If they are miserable when they are not in a relationship then they will get on the first bus that comes along and then will be surprised if it doesnt lead them to the right place. They need to do some soul searching first.
2006-10-09 11:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most women try to change a man after the "I DO " part and most men can not keep their women happy- we try, but the woman's hell bent on this way or no way , and we get down on ourselves and just can not live up to those high expectation the woman have of us----most pretty women use their beauty to get what they want and for the most part beauty must have a personality or it is a lost cause--
2006-10-09 11:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it has to do with sex. Women give in too easily. Men love a challenge. And if you give in, and have sex then the guy gets what he wants and moves on. If you wait and have it after marriage then he will not leave you. Remember God gave us the pleasure of sex for the marriage bed only.
Give a man a chllenge. If he loves you that much then he can put a wedding ring on your finger. And then make love to you. Sex is so special that it should only be done in the marriage bed.
2006-10-09 12:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Irritating one another for not accepting their differences. It is work to stay married, and most people want convenience like the corner store...for a marriage to be successful both parties must be willing to work at not judging, and not demanding too much...the Bible has plainly told us how to behave, and to keep a marriage together, but being a Christian is work, just as being married. It is well worth the effort, the rewards are greater when the time is spent working at making your relationship beautiful in doing all you can imagine instead of finding fault, & bickering!
GALATIANS 5 VERSE 24-26
... THOSE WHO BELONG TO CHRIST JESUS HAVE PUT TO DEATH THEIR HUMAN NATURE WITH ALL ITS PASSIONS AND DESIRES. THE SPIRIT HAS GIVEN US LIFE; HE MUST ALSO CONTROL OUR LIVES. WE MUST NOT BE PROUD OR IRRITATE ONE ANOTHER OR BE JEALOUS OF ONE ANOTHER.
2006-10-09 11:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they have the "I'm pretty so you must cater to me" attitude which most men find gets old really quick. You know, they think the man has to kiss their @ss all the time because they are cute. After he sees how she really is, he can't stand to be around her, even if she is hot. By the way, laughing at your so called friend's misfortune? Real nice.
2006-10-09 11:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she all beauty and no brains?? new bf every 2 weeks? she needs to be on her own for awhile and get picky= she needs to be his queen and him her king= as for the married one= for 2 mos= there were warning signs and she ignored him= they go off during dating- that is when to end it= and not when you are so addicted to a bad relationship you can't see or think straight= there are marriages that last = but we tend to hear about the bad and not the good- relationship classes should be mandatory along w -premarital counseling- better to -prepare than repair- D
2006-10-09 11:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by Diane W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur "friends" would be so happy to know that you, their "friend" is laughing at their misfortune.
Maybe the guys are the problems are not your "friends" eva thought of that. Do you have a man? Are u sure hes not cheating on you? lol
grow up.
2006-10-09 11:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same reason men cant keep women.
humans are selfish and go by emotion.
as soon as someone realises that a relationship isnt all about them and what THEY can get out of it, they are on there way to a better chance of staying together.
2006-10-09 11:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you - you know what it takes to get married and stay that way. Your friends probably think they're too pretty and perfect to get tied down with one person.
2006-10-09 14:13:55 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋