What is the appeal of a married man to a single woman? When he actually divorces his wife and leaves his kids for them does it make them feel good in some way? Any comments?
2006-10-09 03:51:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The appeal is greed and selfishness. You have this man who makes himself available to see you. He takes time away from his family, knowing that he could lose everything, if his wife found out. But the other woman gives him what he's lacking, so it makes it worth it to them. He's not going to stay around for too long, so the boredom aspect won't happen. You don't have to buy him anything because he can't take any gifts home with him. He spends his time and money on you and all you have to do is exist.
2006-10-09 04:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by T W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a good question? I think it's the fact that it's someone else different. Also I think that usually the mistress does things that wife doesn't do. Plus they probably have sex with the man a lot more.
2006-10-09 11:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the appeal is that he is established and has security that a single man may not have yet achieved ... also, married men who cheat spend money on their mistresses that they dont spend on their spouses ... can you spell GOLDDIGGER?
the flip side of that is that she is getting an established cheater and has no real security cause he will do the same when a better one comes along ... touche'
2006-10-09 10:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it becomes the thrill of the hunt. They go after them to see if "they still have it". Most married men, never leave their wives......... it is more of the idea of doing something wrong, and not getting caught
2006-10-09 11:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by nycgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men dont want to leave their wives but circumstances sometimes present themselves and it happens whatever those circumstances may be but the other person does not feel good.
2006-10-09 10:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not available to get marry with. Live on damage, very attractive!
2006-10-09 11:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SCANDOLOUS, UNMORALISTIC BIT**ES.
THE APPEAL IS THAT THEY THINK THEY CAN GET THEM TO LEAVE THERE WIVES.
AND TO HAVE SOMETHING THAT IS NOT THERES.
2006-10-09 11:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋