I mean, jeez, it's just a business transaction, now she's threatening to cut off my allowance.
Total BS
2006-10-09 03:19:05 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, did I post this in the "Ultra Right Wing Christian Conservative" catagory?
2006-10-09 03:26:15 · update #1
I am still laughing.
2006-10-09 05:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I cant believe you actually want someone to agree with you on this one, why would you think because you paid for sex it wasnt cheating? In fact knowing that prostitutes sleep with numbers of men actually puts yourself and your wife at risk of all kinds of STD's
I would do more than cut off your allowance Im afraid.....Worse part about this it seems as she is paying you an allowance she probably paid for the sex too.
Now thats TOTAL BS!!
2006-10-09 03:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by tassie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it's still cheating, committing adultery, either way you look at it, it's wrong, a no-no. Seriously, you and your wife need to sit down and talk and figure out what's going on and why. If you're searching for sexual gratification elsewhere, then you really need to have a talk with you wife. Try to incoropate some games to spice up your sex life, try dating your wife again and see what happens. You married her so obviously she got you hooked some kinda way, now you just need to find it again. Good luck to ya and I hope this helps!
2006-10-09 03:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's all she's going to cut off? Just your allowance? I would be inclined to be cutting something else off if you were my husband! Anytime you step out of the boundary of marriage and are unfaithful (even if you pay for it) you are cheating.
You're fortunate she hasn't left you. Keep your "business" at home and remember your marriage vows. If you wanted to stay active in this type of behavior why in the world did you get married? Grow up!
2006-10-09 03:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by okmyrna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to give her that idea? she may decide to become an entreprenuer and open her own little sex "rental" enterprise ... after all, its not cheating, its just a business transaction ...right?
ok, from a strictly business point of view, you are in breach of contract on your marriage vows which gave her exclusive rights to your services, you cannot service others without a renegotiation of the terms of your marriage contract ... so, you dont have a "leg" to stand on no matter how you want to argue your "point"
2006-10-09 03:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude. you cheated. lets face it, we all pay for sex one way or the other. you just used cash. some men might do the dishes or cut the lawn before the wife tells them to and the wife is so happy she gives him sex. Or on the other side, he does not cut the lawn and she holds back sex but the bottom line is he paid for it also. you paid for sex, you had sex, you cheated.
2006-10-09 04:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by mariacdintraining 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot be serious... man it is still CHEATING no matter how you look at it . It was find until you got caught now you trying to get out of it good 1. The wife all she did was take your money you better keep her if it had been my wife i would in the hospital right now. Let's get real is your wife that gullible, i no my wife's not she would kill me.
2006-10-09 03:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by LAMBERT C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she's your wife and she might cut your allowance??? How lame is that?!? Anyway, it doesn't matter if you pay for it or not, it's still cheating because you weren't sleeping with your WIFE, the one you married and told that you would be faithful to her. Maybe you should grow up a bit and then get back into the married world.
2006-10-09 03:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by honeybfly 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is a business transaction that married men should not be involved in, because it's CHEATING!!!! You're lucky she's not cutting off more than your allowance....
2006-10-09 03:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What the hell are u talkin about if ur screwin around with some other women paying for it or not its still cheating u better be glad all she doin is threatning to cut off ur allowance id cut off ur dick no threat involved
2006-10-09 03:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by best_thing_u_eva_had 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is determined by whether money changed hands. Would it bother you if she paid some guy for sex? If you are with another woman, it is cheating. Not only that, I would quit having sex with you just because you went to some dirty, $10 whore and stuck it to her. God only knows what you got, now.
2006-10-09 06:19:55 · answer #11 · answered by JENNIFER G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋