I've been in a relationship with a married guy for the past 8 years (I'm 36). I also have a daughter with this guy, but, as time flies, I only feel more and more attached to a relationship that isn't giving me anything. I want to end it, 'cause it's been a lot of time and I don't feel like I love him anymore, but it's such a hard thing to do. Help me, please!
2006-10-09 03:34:09 · 27 answers · asked by candywhiteandrew 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO, it's not hard. Break up with this guy. He doens't love you, he just loves sleeping with you. he's married to someone else.
Tell him it's over, pick yourself up, and for the sake of your daughter MOVE ON and you CAN find someone to give you the love and devotion you deserve, but you will NEVER find that person while you are giving yourself to a married man.
2006-10-09 03:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST DO IT! Tell him that your relationship with him is over, but you'll always be your daughter's parents. That's the only relationship that you can offer him. Think about what you are teaching your daughter? Would you want your daughter in that type of relationship, then why would you stay in one like that yourself. Most people want the best for the kids. You have to want the best for you too.
2006-10-09 03:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by T W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 1st of all, your relationship is going no where. So it has NO hope. It would be in YOUR best interest to let him go. I would just cut off all calls and just drop him. He is married and he can just go on about his marriage...right? You don't owe him an "EXPLANATION" because he is already married he should know why you are leaving. If he doesn't leave you alone and becomes a "crazy stalker dude" then i would threaten to tell his wife. I know you would hate to do that so then he better act like a grown man.
good luck
2006-10-09 03:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so right this relationship is not going anywhere except to keep hurting you as by your ? already you know that. So just find the courage to end it and for god's sake get him to pay child support for that little girl and if he says he cant cause his wife will find out oh well he put himself in that position. Do something positive and get yourself and your daughter out of this . You need to end it .
2006-10-09 03:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his wife if she doesn't already know. She has a right to know what her husband is doing. You shouldn't of even started a relationship with a married man but you can't change that now. Just end it. Good luck.
2006-10-09 03:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell him you love him but are not in love with him anymore and you feel the best thing for both of you is to be able to move on. Take some time for yourself again.
2006-10-09 03:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by Acid Burn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest,and if there isnt any problems between him and the child arrange it so that he can stay in contact. Doesnt have to be that he sees u at the same time. At least for awhile. Good luck Curious 2006
2006-10-09 03:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by Curious 2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he paying child support for his/your daughter? If so cut him loose, and move on. How hard can it be? How do guys get away with such B.S. Unbelievable....
2006-10-09 03:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by Rob B 69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been wit another womans husband for 8 years? I wonder what your daughter will grow up to be like....Since your such a wonderful role model...
2006-10-09 03:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by Melia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look u always have some back up about ur life rite? u got daughter! if u r economicaly dependent on him then u can always go to court and apeal for money on the basis of daughter and get away ! if u r not dependent then who is stopping u? just run away!
2006-10-09 03:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by shal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋