I fell in love with someone and he lead me to believe he was in love with me. He told me in the beginning that he had a girlfriend, but that he wasn't committed. We never had sex because we were getting to know each other. He lives in another state. He was someone I knew that came back into my life. He came to see me and we had a nice time. After he went back home, he said he had to see where the other relationship was going. He called me for awhile, and some e-mails, but they got more distant, less frequent. Now he says we should only say hi every month or so. I'm hurting over this. He occassionally sends me e-mail. Should I ignore him completely now? Should I call him and give him a piece of my mind? My emotions are confusing me.
2006-10-09 03:12:46 · 17 answers · asked by wayouthere 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, we didn't have sex. Thank God.
2006-10-09 03:21:23 · update #1
Move on hun, he is playing the open door game, Why whould you want to be second if it dosnt work out ?
2006-10-09 03:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by alig8or_1965 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard to accept the loss but it is over.
Email him to tell him to stop all the contact because the occasional contact is hurting you too much. It only reminds you of what you really wanted. Don't give him a piece of your mind. The sound of his voice on the phone will only pain you more.
Move along, someone better out there deserves a woman like you.
2006-10-09 10:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by lofolulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat a dead horse. Accept the fact that it's over between you as far as the kind of relationship you are looking for. Think about it you don't really want to be closely involved with someone that doesn't feel the same about you. It will pass and give you the opportunity to find 'the' one for you.
2006-10-09 10:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. you don't want to have to share some one anyway.. if he don't care enough for you to come and be with you then you don't need the crap.. besides he lives in another state. get on with your life. stop e-mailing him don't except phone calls. just go and carry on with your life .. start anew.
good luck He has a girl.
2006-10-09 10:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be in a relationship with someone who is 'cheating' on his significant other... he's a jerk... Another reason not to be too caught up in this mess is that he lives in a different state as you... find someone close to home to love.
2006-10-09 10:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be harsh dear but this is what i get;
He is already commited in a relationship and he is obviously happy or he wouldn't be with her. You need to leave him alone honey, he is taken.....how would you feel if you were the girlfriend in this situation.
If he has stopped contacting you he isn't interested.
2006-10-09 10:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is going to stay in the relationship with the other woman and this is his way of distancing himself from you. You should ignore him and go on with your life.
2006-10-09 10:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you ignore him? You should keep on being a door mat and when he rolls the heart brake truck over you. You should ask for more.
2006-10-09 10:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read your question as if you were an answerer who has never met you or the other beautiful person- I KNOW you'll come to the right answer.
2006-10-09 10:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by Schmeep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. this isn't fair to you, who wants to be the lady in waiting... there is someone out there for you, but if you allow yourself to be on the back burner you won't find your real prince!
2006-10-09 10:16:55 · answer #10 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋