Marriage & Divorce - 9 October 2006

I can't get her to talk to me on a regular basis or even go out for lunch with me. I am basically misearable living like this and my children are still with me and it has been a hell working to keep everyone one up and I have no life?

2006-10-09 10:03:12 · 28 answers · asked by William M 1

I love fine, sexy women and all I can do is think about other women all the time. But if I try to talk to one I can't get the words out or I just keep on walking by because I feel guilty about this. I really like this girl, but I still like being with other women. What do I do?

2006-10-09 10:01:37 · 8 answers · asked by footballathleticcoach 1

bathing, massage, and happy ending only (nothing more)

2006-10-09 10:01:12 · 18 answers · asked by david f 1

My wife started writing letters to her ex who is the father of my step-daughter. She hasnt seen him in ten years nor has he every seen his daughter. We have been married for over eight years. I opened on of her IMs yesterday and they were talkin about sex and she said that she thinks of him when she and I have sex. I want nothing to do with her anymore and want a divorce. She says its just the internet and means nothing. He lives over five hours away but she was planning to go meet him over thanksgiving so my step daughter could meet him. Now I dont want her to go because I dont trust her after the stuff I read. Says i am over reacting and invading her space by prying and that I dont trust her thats why I read it. Any suggestions? Am I out of line or do you think I am correct?

2006-10-09 10:01:07 · 39 answers · asked by jman_247 2

Is this a good surprise for my hubby?
and how difficult can it be for someone wiht not much dance experience I want to do this around xmas time

2006-10-09 09:56:33 · 2 answers · asked by ? 3

Or just wait?

2006-10-09 09:53:51 · 16 answers · asked by to_sassy4_u 5

My husband used to come home for lunch and sometimes I would surprise him by being in bed, waiting for him, etc., his office moved so now I am missing him. Today I had a chicken bowl. Boring...:)

2006-10-09 09:46:41 · 27 answers · asked by Forever 6

When do you know it is time to leave someone even if you love them more than anything

2006-10-09 09:41:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a problem that I've never run into before. I feel a little scared because my lover is so moody. Sometimes he's hard to gauge and I don't know what to say to him. I want to tell him that when he is so quiet it makes me nervous and I wonder if he still loves me. I know that sounds ridiculous, but that's how I feel.

How do I ask him what's wrong without sounding like I have to know everything that goes through his head or sounding like I don't trust him or that I think he's angry at me about something?

2006-10-09 09:39:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-09 09:38:39 · 10 answers · asked by mybabe 1

2006-10-09 09:38:25 · 5 answers · asked by Irishrose 2

marriages have cheated or will cheat

2006-10-09 09:22:39 · 18 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3

What should I do...? My husband is 21 years old, we have a daughter that is 2 and He basically refuses to get a job. I don't know what is his problem. Every time he has a chance, he comes up with some kind of excuse. Then he tries to come up with an excuse to me about why he didn't go. I know he is young, so am I. I am 22. I am sick of everyone saying that it is because he is young. I have had a job since I was 16. (except for when I was off for Maternity for one of our kids.) I am so fed up that I am seriously wanting to leave him. I am here for real advice. Please Help... I am desperateThanks!!

2006-10-09 09:18:20 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-09 09:12:32 · 20 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3

I know that this may sound really stupid but do you think that it is bad if i want to watch my husband do it with another woman. I mean i would love to watch him but is it also wierd it i want to join in. I mean i am youn and i still would like to play around i didnt get to do this kind of stuff in school. Does this just sound weried. I think that he would like this too.

2006-10-09 09:07:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should we now do ......i love her and she loves me but having our child will break up her marriage.

2006-10-09 09:02:48 · 32 answers · asked by World Traveler 1

My husband cheated on me for several years, I didnt know. The first one he was with was 20, stupid, believed he was going to leave me for her, she got pregnant (it's not his baby) told everyone it was his baby, he dumped her and then cheated with her friend. That lasted for 10 months when I found out about all of it. This girl, also 20, was convinced he was leaving me for her. Both of these girls were pure white trash, dirty, first looked like the Campbells Soup Kid (fat, blonde, plain jane, blah) the second one was tall, thin, no boobs, dirty dreadlock or straight stringy hair, walks like a female basketball player, cocaine addict, redneck...neither could hold a candle to me, ever ever ever, not bragging, just reality.
I filed for divorce, 10 months later, a few days before the final, the Lord restored our marriage and we actually have a REAL relationship now.
I still worry about cheating & the anger for these girls, whew, I want to beat their asses, and I know it wont solve things.

2006-10-09 09:02:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

And how to know a man love a woman deep?

2006-10-09 08:59:15 · 12 answers · asked by russclara 2

She said that she was to tired because she had to work last night and I didn't do anything to the house so she had to do it all today. What the hell should I do? I work 40hrs a week ! i'm hungry!

2006-10-09 08:57:20 · 33 answers · asked by 77greyghost 2

2006-10-09 08:50:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

How often can a woman take a man back to court for more child support? Let's say it was just court ordered and one month after the order, the man found a higher paying job, can she take him right back for more money?

2006-10-09 08:47:47 · 10 answers · asked by Lori W 2

really I don`t like my wife.

2006-10-09 08:45:19 · 49 answers · asked by apm_ir 1

I dont have traditional beliefs...im a bit of a free spirit im not at all sure about the concept of 2 people expecting so much from each other for the duration of forever...by the way i am 36 and have actually been married twice and yes im now single for the last 2 years and during my second marriage this concept kind of slapped me in the face so please dont come on here telling me that i will feel better when i meet the man i want to spend the rest of my life with...and im not bitter either,im actually pretty content but i do wonder if we were able to take lovers and live separately when we chose and didnt have all these rules and expectations,etc if the concept of marriage might work a little better....

2006-10-09 08:38:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

she is bipolar, was found naked with slit wrist pumped up on pills two bottles of whiskey naked with slit wrists... i just got back from iraq, babies had glass stuck in there heads and two older ones look completely stressed out, i cleaned the house and bought them all new clothes and toys, they have all been to counseling, but for some reason i still want to get rid of her

2006-10-09 08:38:17 · 17 answers · asked by 7am gangster 3

I don't know how they are doing this or how to stop it,find out who'e doing it and protect myself from blackmail

2006-10-09 08:36:25 · 6 answers · asked by Mike W 1

"Clara , I am now in a place working a task with deadline,making systems with my colleagues ....

U write a lot about love and planning and future.What I can say is this : stay clam and have eyes for other things in life too.Do not overkill . I mean to tell,that sometimes U can choke a person will cause an average effect.

I will contact U again with any opportunity I have .

Kiss , Jos. "

I wish to know what is the meaning of "average effect"

2006-10-09 08:35:20 · 7 answers · asked by russclara 2

What happened?

How long did your marriage/relationship last after you found out they cheated?

Are there any couples that have made it through cheating? And there man/woman never cheated again?

(Obviously I have been cheated on...I am still madly in love with the man...we WERE engaged and he wants to make things right.)

2006-10-09 08:33:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had a great relationship with my husband for the year we've been married and 9 months we dated. There's just one problem, because I was practically tramatized as a kid, being called fat, and ugly..Let's just say I was the UGLY DUCKLING..I grew up thinking that I was just that..Fat and Ugly..Now I have lil self-esteem. Well I caught my husband looking at my mom's co-worker the other day and I may have overracted. He was looking at her butt. I saw his eyes focus on it.. Is it just me to make a big deal out of it because of my own insecurities. Or should I just let this whole thing go. I haven't brought it up anymore but i'm still thinking about it!!! big time..

2006-10-09 08:28:23 · 24 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3

I am engaged to be married next year-I am MADLY inlove with him. I am not attracted to ANY other men, not even movie stars. I have been this way ever since we met 3 years ago.
How can I tell if the feeling is mutual? It would be stupid to say he doesnt love me because I know he loves me. BUT he doesnt kiss me as much as I want or make love, or talk about our relationship as much as I want to.

He seems VERY comfortable with me because he knows how I feel.
How can I get him to step it up a notch?

2006-10-09 08:25:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of 10 years is addicted to World of Warcraft. He plays before work in the morning, from the time the kids go to bed until past midnight weekdays, and even more on weekends. Our marriage is suffering, needless to say. The game is his mistress and he spends more time with her than with me. We haven't had sex in months...yes, months. This has been an ongoing issue in our relationship for more than a year and seemed to be resolved for a while earlier this year. After communicating that I felt like I was taking a backseat to his gaming, he cut back on his playing time but has gradually regressed to his old ways. In previous conversations about why he feels he needs to play so much he has stated that he's tired & stressed from work and just needs the escape. As someone who suffers from depression, I am sympathetic to that and have a tendency to just let him have his space. But I have needs that are not being met. He knows this, but seems unwilling to change. Help?

2006-10-09 08:23:33 · 17 answers · asked by treefor3 2