I can't get her to talk to me on a regular basis or even go out for lunch with me. I am basically misearable living like this and my children are still with me and it has been a hell working to keep everyone one up and I have no life?
2006-10-09 10:03:12 · 28 answers · asked by William M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You poor love, get a damn good lawyer, kick her ***, get on with life, get another woman, your wife will give in when she sees you despise her (assuming you are that angry, i know i would be) force a divorce upon her, she cannot keep you hanging on a string forever, you deserve a life, you sound like a nice guy, good luck!!
2006-10-09 10:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, sue her for child support. That will get her attention real fast. She needs to contribute to the well being of your family. That is even more important than her talking to you or not.
Secondly, talk to a lawyer about filing for a divorce.
If you want to give her one last chance, go ahead, but you need to follow up with REAL consequences if she doesn't respond. ANd that means child support and divorce. There is no reason for you to keep hanging around, waiting for a relationship that isn't going to work. Be a man and grow a backbone.
2006-10-09 17:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by noir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will not initial the divorce because it's convenient for her. That way, the courts do not make her pay child support to you because the children live with you. Why do you want to go to lunch with her? It sounds like she already has someone else to go to lunch with (wink wink) so stop feeling sorry for yourself and move on with your life! You do have a life, you have a great life because you have your children living with you and you have gotten ride of someone that doesn't want to be with you. Could you imagine life with out your children? Be a strong man and file for divorce and full custudy. Jeeez!!
2006-10-09 17:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by marimar0025 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go to a lawyer yourself and start the proceedings. It's not her job. If you're the one that wants the divorce, then you need to start it.
Then you need to move on. Have a life. There's no reason for you to stop living just because your ex doesn't want a divorce.
The only person you have to blame is yourself if you don't have the guts to get what needs to be done, done.
2006-10-09 18:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting for? You go get the divorce started! She'll have to deal with you then! You should be getting support for those kids! I'm sorry things are so bad right now, but you can make them better by doing something! Good luck with it all.
2006-10-09 17:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter and advise her on how you feel whether you want to try to make it work or if you want a divorce. Give her a time limit to when you want to discuss this and then follow through let the cards fall where they may.
2006-10-09 17:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start the proceedings yourself. My husband wouldn't even talk about the divorce. When it was all said and done, I got on with my life and my children are better off.
Good luck
2006-10-09 17:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by Dawn F 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is this woman contributing to your life? NOTHING. You should initiate the divorce. Of course she won't, she has it all her way. Just go ahead and cut ties so you can begin to heal. Good Luck.
2006-10-09 17:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can initiate the divorce. Call a lawyer and see what your options are. Or go see a counsellor first, tell them your issues and see if they can offer any way for you to get her to talk to you.
2006-10-09 17:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
File the papers yourself. Force her to sign them, if you want a divorce. Think about your children. When you are miserable, they can sense that. You need to be happy so they can move on to. They need you to be strong, so you must take the steps yourself to ensure your sanity!
2006-10-09 17:07:00 · answer #10 · answered by wnramirez77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋