marriages have cheated or will cheat
2006-10-09 09:22:39 · 18 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My daughters father askedme to marry him to. I was scared for the same reason. But I need to trust him that he won't.Top af all is I really do love him. I trust him and we are getting married and I couldn't be happier. We are going to be a happy famialy that I always dreamed of and wanted. It's a risk that everyone has to take when they get married. It is a risk I was willing to take. Look at the positive. Ask your self " Do I love him?" If the aswer is yes I have to say go for it and marry him. If he makes you happy, your in love with him, and trust him I would say marry him. Don't think about him going to cheat on you. If you do you will drive yourself crazy and might push him to do it because you will become jelous and it will show.
2006-10-09 09:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by chrissy20us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right about that but you don't base what your marriage will be like because of all the others that went bad yes it hard to keep your marriage in line but if you love him and trust him it will okay i have been married for 3 years and i love my husband to death and been married is harder then been in a relationship and we was together 8 years before we got married but we love each other and we are will to stay together and fight it out everybody has their up and downs but that's life and i have no plans of cheating on him and the same for him no i cant speak for him but that is what you do always think positive and put that trust in him and you will be fine
2006-10-09 16:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this important question: Has he cheated before?
Don't generalize that all marriages end because of cheating. Many marriages end because of many other reasons.
However, if he has cheated before, you will have to ask yourself if you can put the past behind, forgive and go on. to marry this man. Cheating on one another is horrible! Good luck!
2006-10-09 16:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends. Do you love him? Is he a good companion? Is he a good father? Is he reliable in terms of work ethic and stability? Am I right in thinking that he hasn't cheated? Are you ready for commitment?
If the answer to all these questions is yes, then stop being paranoid and marry him. Don't let life pass you by while you stand by afraid to live it.
There are no guarantees. Learn to communicate and work at it and you'll have a fighting chance.
Best of luck in whatever path you follow.
2006-10-09 16:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Mystery of Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not all cheat in marriages.
If you love the man and want a family with him then marry him and quit your freaking out with the "what if's".
Don't do it for your daughter.
Having a child is no reason to get married
Has he given you a reason to thing he would cheat on you if you married him?
Do you love him enough to spend the rest of you life with him?
If you are this uncertain you should take it slow and maybe live togeather for a year and see how things go.
If you are already living togeather and he has not ever cheated on you and you love him and are willing to spend the rest of you life with him, then pull yourself togeather and say yes.
I wish you the best of luck in whatever decision you make.
2006-10-09 16:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by bree30 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats not true, I know many marriages that are complets success, Honesty and trust and communication are the key. If you can't trust the person that you want to marry then why on earth are you going to marry him.
2006-10-09 16:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by kimber g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are going to do what men are going to do......you cant control it! with any guy your NOT going to get a some sort of guarantee what will happen 5..10 years from now. Hell......there no guarantee that as soon as you get married he wont colapse from heart failure.
Just take your chances,& work through the problems that arise. not make excuses for something that yet to happen/(that might not even happen). Waht if you really loved him & wanted to marry & spend the rest of your life with him......but he comes on here & write,(I dont know if I want to marry her because,what if she gets fat 15 years from now)......then thats just someone createing reasons to not do it!
2006-10-09 16:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by Scorpio Rising 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship there are three feelings that are the base of it. TRUST, RESPECT and LOVE.If don't have one of them that marriage shouldn't take place.I know it's your daghter's father but why marry a man who nannot be trusted.Think deep and take the right decizion.
2006-10-09 16:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by DUKE OF SEGOREAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't base your marriage on someone elses marriage. and besides IF it does happen you both may be strong enough with love to work through it. That's what a marriage is. Through the good and the bad..L.
2006-10-09 16:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by ben and lisa h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all sweetie you need to have trust if you want to get marry. not all marriages are like that. so if you dont have trust then dont get marry because in the long run you will regart it ok. good luck
2006-10-09 16:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋