When do you know it is time to leave someone even if you love them more than anything
2006-10-09 09:41:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you know that the problems in the relationship are so deep and irreconcilable. It is time to leave when you have lost hope and the team effort is gone.
2006-10-09 09:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by dumb guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to leave them if you love them more than anything? To give you a good answer you would need to give more details on the "why" part of the equation. Just remember there is always Hope, even in Hopeless so maybe you can work it out if you love them so much. Best of luck to you!
2006-10-09 16:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kwk2lrn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel that you can no longer take it. When you feel in your heart that even though you love them, you would rather love them from a distance than to continue to be with them. If you aren't sure you're ready then you will keep going back to them. You have to make up your mind to never go backwards again. It will hurt and you will feel that you need to at least here there voice from time to time, but don't do it unless you are willing to be in a few weeks asking the exact same question. Just make sure you're ready.
2006-10-09 16:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by wilsonhutchison04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read your question and it's a question that I wanted to ask too. Some of the answers were really good. Myself is trying to leave my husband. I love him very much too. But he hurt me by cheating on me and has a one year old now. I wanted to stay with him because he was my heart well kinda still is but I dont feel I can trust him again. he lies to me over and over again. I do know that i dont love him the way I use too. I say go with your heart. if he is hurting you then dont stay. Good luck
2006-10-09 17:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by prettybrightbutterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they hit you. When they are mean or spiteful or nasty to you in any way shape or form. Love can not heal all..
You don't have to be abused to know its just time to leave. If you asking that question, you probably have the answer already
2006-10-09 16:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anne A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave them. If you have doubts just leave that person so you both can find someone that you both deserve. I don't understand your question, b/c if you love him... work at it. If you don't love him dont waste his time and yours holding on to something you have no faith in.
2006-10-09 16:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want the relationship. Doesn't mean you can't love someone, but you don't want to be with them. Just don't hurt them unless you know it's what you really want.
2006-10-09 17:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very hard. Sometimes you make a decision to leave and end up right back where you didn't want to be. I am trying to leave my husband, but I am not strong enough. You have to be very strong to be on your own.
2006-10-09 16:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by Muslimah 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The 1st thing to do is pray and ask GOD for direction. Then wait for him to answer. If you are in an abusive situation then get out. Because GOD doesn't want you to be a fool either.
2006-10-09 16:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by mskelley4life 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When your not happy and you have tried to relsolve the unhappiness numerous times but everything goes back to the unhappy place after awhile.
2006-10-09 16:49:44 · answer #10 · answered by Aries Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋