My husband cheated on me for several years, I didnt know. The first one he was with was 20, stupid, believed he was going to leave me for her, she got pregnant (it's not his baby) told everyone it was his baby, he dumped her and then cheated with her friend. That lasted for 10 months when I found out about all of it. This girl, also 20, was convinced he was leaving me for her. Both of these girls were pure white trash, dirty, first looked like the Campbells Soup Kid (fat, blonde, plain jane, blah) the second one was tall, thin, no boobs, dirty dreadlock or straight stringy hair, walks like a female basketball player, cocaine addict, redneck...neither could hold a candle to me, ever ever ever, not bragging, just reality.
I filed for divorce, 10 months later, a few days before the final, the Lord restored our marriage and we actually have a REAL relationship now.
I still worry about cheating & the anger for these girls, whew, I want to beat their asses, and I know it wont solve things.
2006-10-09 09:02:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You say God restored your marriage,I am so happy for you.
You have to put everything behind you in order for this to work.
Embrace him with all your heart, be happy and delight in him.
Enjoy what God has given you. If you truly forgive and trust him the worry will go away. God can make everything right. And
violence will not solve anything. Its hard but you have to find
it in your heart to forgive the females also. Dont try to hold
your marriage together by yourself, ASK GOD FOR HEALING
IT WORKS. God can and will save this marriage, just turn to him
(God).
2006-10-09 11:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by DI 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't know why you went into such detail about how skanky these women are. It really makes it sound like a jerry springer situation. Your desire to beat them and prove yourself better than them doesn't make you sound very "christian".
you should get tested for sexually transmitted diseases as quickly as possible - and make your husband go too - and use condoms until the results come back.
you need to work on your self-esteem right now. It's been through the ringer.
2006-10-09 10:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a hard thing but you either trust him to stay with him or you don't and gotta let him go. I would suggest marriage counseling. It 's real hard getting over betrayal. My ex cheated on me and I left him. I figure I'm better than that BS. Good Luck to you and yeah those nasty females aren't worth your time. Your better than that.
2006-10-09 09:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are mad at the wrong peoples it was your husband who did you wrong knowing he was married and not careing about you. and ask your self if you got all this going on for you why are you still with him. why not move on to someone who would love you and would be proud to have you as there wife. and honey GOD is not the one who save the marriage adultry is one of his laws to live by. you say you have a real relationship yea till another one comes by. any way good luck you gone need it use protection
2006-10-09 10:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u need to think about things. just remember if u really love him then u should be able to trust him. to tell u the truth this has never happened to me before but i know that it would not be a good feeling and to be very honest with you i honestly dont think that you should be with him if ur gonna have to worry about this all the time
if u wana talk more my email is muthafaka8o8@tmail.com
2006-10-09 09:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad you found the Lord. At this point beating the poop out of them may make you feel better. Knowing you kept you husband, he chose you over them, and you were able to beat their butts too.....
2006-10-09 09:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by Joesmoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seriously advise you to move on. Did the Lord really restore your relationship? Or did you have a last minute change of heart... did he really change?
It all sounds really difficult... I'm sorry...
2006-10-09 09:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right, they aren't worth getting arrested over.....
I had to chime in here, because your description of these two floozys had me laughing!!!!
Funny!
2006-10-09 09:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should be leaving him. You sound much better than that. Go ahead and test other waters.
2006-10-09 09:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny how you describe yourself as better than these women. Guess your husband didn't think you were better than them when he was balls deep.
2006-10-09 09:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by timwakefield 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋