im ok with it cos its fun......but now i have to go on dates with them..i have no intention in sex. with them...so is hubby....
give thoughts.....
2006-10-09 03:45:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anita Zultan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
only 1c i did dating.mostly its flirting...........
i need t talk more and explain....plz contact me through yahoo messenger...my id is anitazultan
2006-10-09 03:53:40 · update #1
What kind of marriage is that? He wants you to flirt and date other men and you're okay with it? That is messed up...but whatever floats your boat.
2006-10-09 03:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Shannon83 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That can be very dangerous to do in this day and age with AIDS and STD'S going around does he want for the both of you to be swingers or something you both need to do some research and find a club or group with rules and guidelines because doing it on your own is not a good idea because some people out here can be nuts!!!
2006-10-09 03:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by keishahayes2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG female, all i can assert is administered and don't seem back. i develop into in this comparable difficulty approximately 2 years in the past, i attempted to be understanding and supply him area for some weeks, come to be certain later, he develop into cheating, yet nonetheless "enjoyed" his little ones and spouse. Sorry to assert i cant stick around and be 2d selection, I certainly have too plenty appreciate for myself and love my little ones to plenty to be taken care of like that. If he needs his very own place he's already cheating or it truly is on his techniques. i comprehend it isn't the respond you desire to take heed to, and that i comprehend its a protracted restoration technique, yet its extra effective to start now and be uncomplicated jointly with your self as a replace of hoping for some thing which will by no potential take place.
2016-10-02 02:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he wants you to do it doesn't mean you have to. If he is wanting you to do these things now who's to say that he won't want you to engage in sex with these men. What happens when he accuses you of cheating somewhere in the near future?
My thoughts are if you feel comfortable with the situation then go for it. But if you don't then stop now.
2006-10-09 03:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing? I understand maybe wanting to have fun and spice things up, but I think he is setting you up for a future three-some or for watching you have sex with other men. If you are into this, then go for it. But if you are not, you better put a stop to it now.
2006-10-09 03:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by lady_reed_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is one thing - dating is another. Dating is giving the other person the idea that you want something more, and dating without the intention of going further is screwing with their heads and is mean.
2006-10-09 03:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has a voyeurism fetish. It comes from watching too much porn as a child. He likes watching people have sex. He will not be satisfied until he watches you having sex with another man. If you're not into it, better let him know now.
2006-10-09 03:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun, are you sure he doesn't want you to have sex with them? Some guys are into watching their wives with other men. I'd love to go on a date with you sometime.
2006-10-09 03:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Rob B 69 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I would sit down and ask him where is he going with this because it may be fun right now but my logic tells me that this is going to lead to heartbreak whether it be you or him. Playing with fire you are liable to get burned.
2006-10-09 03:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would ask him ...."ARE YOU CRAZY". My hubby would kick my a** if i flirted with ANYONE in front of him. I am his and we BOTH know that. You shouldn't do it if you really only want to be with him. I think its TRULY disrespectful for him to even ask of you.
2006-10-09 03:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by CMA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋