its like this he likes me to flirt with other males in his presence and he want this kinky games to be played....i would like to talk more on this topic...plz..email or im me.....
2006-10-09 00:12:39 · 14 answers · asked by Lita fedrick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't let him talk you into doing anything that will make you feel uncomfortable.
Tell him that if he sees his future as a pimp, you don't see yours as a whore.
2006-10-09 00:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like fun to me, if your husband gets excited by and is giving you permisson for some harmless flirting, then go for it. Think of the great sex your gonna have with him later, as discuss the flirting and the other guys. It probally makes him feel like a bigger man to know other guys flirted, but he has you all to himself. Kinky sex games can help you relationship to be more exciting.
2006-10-09 07:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable with these things, then you need to tell him that. Let him know it has nothing to do with him or finding him atractive, but that you simply don't want to do those things becuase they make you feel very uncomfortable and upset. If he pushes, then ask him to go to counseling with you as there sounds like there is a larger issue than just a sexual turn on.
2006-10-09 08:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shitt girl....hey wish i had a hubby that would let me flirt with other dudes,but I totally agree if you arent in to this games your husband wants you to do. Just tell him I dont want to do such things,I dont feel good,use I MESSAGES. If he loves you he will understand or you guys can go to a sex therapist I hear they are miracle workers,see if that spice up the marriage maybe he feels like he needs something a little freeky to make it more fun marriage can dull sex up a little,hey at least he is including you in his fantasies and that its really good dont you think? good luck hun,get some help with a therapist that is my advice.
2006-10-09 07:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you go out, dress really skimpy and slutty, then do a lot of extra flirting with other guys. That will make him jealous and then he will want you to stop. Then tell him you like it so much you just might want to get into bed with another guy but you could let him watch if he wants.
2006-10-09 07:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants an open relationship. or get into the three somes , but make sure it is what you want also. but make sure it goes both ways , not only his way! three somes= two girls OR two guys! not a one way street. you said you felt uncomfortable in it all. maybe beacause you are young yet? so tell him you want to become more stable in the relationship first , that will bide you some time..good luck!
2006-10-09 07:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that your husband is (excuse me) a "man" who does not know god,this is a horrible thing to do,your husband is insane and crazy,so try to go and ask for help,this is only the begining,he might ask you to do worse things later,reach for help before its too late,go to a counseler, a priest,or even to the police,seriously a man who loves you would never ask you do do these things
2006-10-09 08:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by dan d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not loose you self respect your Husband attitude is not good Ask him the reason, and ask him what will be side effect on the relation
It's up to you how to defend yourself
2006-10-09 07:50:05 · answer #8 · answered by ayubp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's what happend when we eat too much pigs. we start act like one, no feeling of shame or honor. sorry to tell you but your husband isn't man enough.
2006-10-09 07:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and do it ,,makes things more interesting, and keeps sex life exciting.
2006-10-09 07:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋