Is it possible to love anyone UNCONDITIONALLY in this day of selfishness and easy divorce?

Question

Hey Cobra, I don't think that David Gates of Bread would enjoy the fact that you plagiarized the words to his song, "If"! You did it word-for-word, actually!! "If a man could be two places...I think you could at least give him credit for stealing his words!!

Answer 1

Only dogs love unconditionally.
*sigh*

Answer 2

Unconditional Love

I will forever remember the day,
when my heart fell in love with you.

You’re beauty, with the elegance of your smile,
made me feel, what my heart already knew.

Have I ever told you my dear?
How much I miss you, every time you leave the room
and when you set the phone down,
to help our kids, get ready for school.

If a man could be in two places at one time, I’d be with you
tomorrow and today, beside you all the way.

You are my inspiration for all that I do,
and for the reasons I love you more, each day.

I think of the times, I would feel sad, cause we had, a little fight
but even then, my heart would tell me
It didn’t matter, who was wrong, or who was right.

There is no another woman, on this planet earth,
that could possibly change, the way I feel about you.
I thank god for every minute we share,
and for the day, your mother gave you birth.

So I just wanted, to let you know,
that I’m grateful to heavens above.

For sending me you,
my unconditional love.
By: Kenny P aka- Cobra

Answer 3

no,no one loves unconditionally,not even a dog will take constant abuse.A mother will always love a child good or bad,No matter how terrible that child may turn out,very few mothers will ever stop loving their child.Why would you love unconditionally a grown person that much ?look in order for me to love you,you must do things that grow that love,I may be fascinated in the beginning ,but love is like having a garden,if you don't tend to it,it will wilt and die. Some people will take the easy way out no matter what the circunstance so it's not this day and age ,it's the mind set of the people we choose to love.Free will and the choices we make will determine how happy we are, we can't blame the people we choose for not loving us the way we desire,afterall we do the choosing.

Answer 4

One must try to love unconditionally. Unfortunately it is hard to love like you have never been hurt by that person before. Forgiveness should be given with the belief that the other person is willing to change. The difficult times come when the offensive behavior never changes and the routine gets old. One loses faith the other person is wanting to change therefore faith in the relationship plummets as well.

A marriage takes 2 people continually seeking to please each other, truly wanting the best for each other, and able to communicate honestly with each other.

Divorces start wandering in married people's minds once they start living separately under the same roof and begin a secret life or are held back in a power struggle. Too many desparate people and settle for 2nd best leading to unhappiness and dreams of the greener grass on the other side.

Answer 5

Christ Jesus taught us unconditional love from the way He lived His life and how He died for all of us - with no strings or conditions attached. Christians are taught to not judge because God does the judging; Christians are told to love their neighbor as they love themselves. It's very hard to do. Without God's help, it is in fact impossible. That is why Christians have to call on God's help to have this love in their heart because human nature is selfish, prideful, and unforgiving.

Once you have children, you will experience love on an entirely different level, and perhaps you will understand the dynamics of unconditional love. It is said that the parent falls in love with their child when they are born, and it lasts lifelong - this deep rooted love that accepts your children, no matter what they do.

Answer 6

Absolutely. It's more common among parents and their children, or people and their pets. But since you mentioned divorce I guess you must mean in romantic adult relationships. I know it is possible, but most people would not come to it naturally, or without some sort of INTENT to love that way. It would take attention and commitment by most and to keep remembering that that really is the definition of love.
Love has no conditions....

Answer 7

Sure, you just have to both make a commitment that divorce is not an option, and its important that you BOTH love each other unconditionally, its a 2-way street!

Answer 8

When I saw the word 'UNCONDITIONALLY' My first thought is my son and my new baby and the love that my mom given me.
But when I think back and deeply thought about this word again, yes I did give the man who made my new baby love unconditionally, that's why It's hurt me 'UNBEARABLE'!
There are many kinds of 'LOVE'
Yes, it is possible to love someone 'UNCONDITIONALLY only one CONDITION, is that person also love you UNCONDITIONALL.
this kind of love will work well with 'UNATTACHMENT' then your unconditional love will be possible ;-)

Answer 9

absolutely. yes there are selfish ppl adn the divorce rate has sky rocketed but i know a lot of ppl that have stayed together thru better ad worse. i could name 10+ families right now whos parents are still soooo in love. the trick is to want to make it work, adn to try as hard as you can to be selfless.

Answer 10

Yes

Answer 11

Yes it can be done,but both have to work at it and keep it going,never take it for granite and get tied up in the everyday world things without loving your partner and telling them so.