If ur husband had a friend that u found out about, but they both say they never had sex. she however said they kissed, he said she kissed him. If i trust him, do i just believe him and move on, it's been a little over a year i have done all the spy work i can. i feel like i'm going crazy? If he did kiss her would he tell me. we are not living togather, but i miss him so much. i can honestly say i had no strange feeling that he was cheating, what do i do, he wants to come home, and have promise to never keep secrets again, please help.
2006-10-09 06:57:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the answer is in your GUT ..so trust it girl
2006-10-09 07:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB.Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose
number it is."
Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".
2006-10-12 17:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Akmal Zaidi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust in a marriage is believing in your spouse, unless you see it with your own eyes, or he admits to something against the marriage. I don't think you can love someone and not trust them, and it's not a fun way to live. You will not be able to relax.. you will always be on guard and wondering "is he"? and if it's something that he cannot stop doing. There are people out there that have it worse. Trust in God, keep your head up and hang in there.
1 Corinthians 7 read it, apply it, it worked for me!
2006-10-09 07:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you are feeling right now is not healthy...And you are spending to much of your time thinking about this...You either got to let it go and talk ot your husband and tell him you don't want them talking anymore or you leave him since you don't trust him and move on..
2006-10-09 07:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you obviously don't trust him. Otherwise you would have dropped it. Missing someone and trusting someone are two completely different things. You better make sure that you TRUST him before you allow him to come home.
2006-10-09 07:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by Please use other door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is where you can tell someone a secret an know that they won't tell. trust is where you have faith in someone. if i trust you than you have to decide if you have trust in me not to tell one of you secrets( which i don't know any)
2006-10-09 07:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋