2006-10-09 06:11:28 · 16 answers · asked by KM77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let me clarify something. My husband and I have always had a great sex life. I am always open to new things which is why I'm confused. Someone had commented that maybe he wasn't getting it from me.
2006-10-09 06:30:09 · update #1
I enjoy sex, it's not a chore for me but this has completely changed who I thought my husband was and who we are as a couple.
2006-10-09 06:37:50 · update #2
He may as well be cheating on you. Go see a counselor.
2006-10-09 06:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's having a self esteem problem and needs to find out if other women find him attractive? Is he old enough to be having one of those mid life crisis things?
If it's a profile, then to me that says he's looking for something on the side. If it makes you feel like crap, then it's a problem. He needs to get off the adult websites as a show of respect for you, then you two need to get to counseling before there's a bigger problem.
It's not harmless, it's harming you.
2006-10-09 09:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by BVC_asst 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are turned on by viewing, that has been known for years. When I stopped having sex with my Husband (now ex), he turned to pornagragraphy. Once I started sleeping with him again he stopped. The urge for men to have sex is much stronger than a females (that is probably why so many prisoners are rapist), I'm not trying to diffend your husband but if he's doing it for self pleasure because your not helping him then let him do it. At least then he wont be pestering you for sex.
2006-10-09 06:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by dumbblond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a question for you to decide and you alone. I ran into this problem while married and after much debate decided to look into it further. I then found out my wife ---now ex--- was cheating on me and using these sites to hook up. It is not harmless if one of you is getting hurt. If he feels he has done nothing wrong why did you "catch" him. Why did he feel the need to hide it? As I stated in the beginning this is a question for you to answer.
2006-10-09 06:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by holendahead 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If these profiles are to meet other women and you agreed to a monogamous marriage, you should confront him about it and let him know you won't put up with it. If he wants to meet other women, let him know you'll leave. If these adult websites are just pictures or video, so he can look at porn, then there's probably no harm in it. Either way, let him know you are putting a stop to all secrets between you.
2006-10-09 06:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kit B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this had happened to me in the past...but it was only a boyfriend I was able to figure out his password and changed his profile that stated his relationship status in a unique way....
I nteresting
H andsome
A ttentive
V ivacious
E legant
A dorable
G enerous
I ntelligent
R espectful
L oving
F un
R estful
I nvolved
E ngaged
N aughty
D elivish
well you should get the idea... and that was being nice....
2006-10-09 06:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a yahoo profile is harmless.
Having one in an adult website is not.
He is looking for something or someone.
What you do is up to you.
Get counseling or a lawyer.
2006-10-09 06:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has nothing to do with the sex you two share - he may be a sex addict and unable to get enough. He may also just be addicted to porn. I don't blame you for being furious - that is not right.
2006-10-09 07:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not harmless-he is looking for something different in his sex life-he may not be asking you for this but he is asking a stranger for it. If you can't be the number one in his life for sex -you don't need him.
2006-10-09 06:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by tenngrangran 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to start an affair with someone as soon as possible. I'm going to recommend myself. Actually, this is a serious redflag. Before you kill him, talk to him and find out what's going on. You're not unjustified in your anger, but no one wants to talk to someone homicidily angry. Get a grip on yourself and the situation.
2006-10-09 06:16:18 · answer #10 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋