I have a husband that i married 3 months ago , he still lives with his mum . i have a newborn on the way in 5 months he has giving me numberus reasons why i should not to stay by his many let downs like what to name the baby to why he wont drop any of his work load to spean time with me or the baby. ive had enongh , ive had cryed my last tear last night , we tryed to go to some church buddies to help with our problems like we have done for many of sundays this time he left me there with these people. he went home to his mum, my son was there , my son cryed before we left because he wanted to go out to eat with us he didnt understand why my husband came back without me . that hurt me to the core nobody messes with my son like that and gets away with it . but i prayed to let my son brush this unworthy mans doing and i pray that i have more understanding on why this man my husband is this way toward me and has no respect for my sons feeling i need some words of wisdom, what should i do
2006-10-09 06:37:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like him an his mommy share too close of a relationship hun! there is one thing to be a mommy's boy , but my god! You just need to let mommy have him! And maybe she will help pay his child support too! wishing you good luck , my thoughts an prayers are with you honey! take care jd
2006-10-09 09:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is the god fearing christian here?
You have a son, married to a guy, not his father,pregnant with another and married after pregnant for a month? Guy lives with mommy and will not take care of his wife?
Can I ask, What are you doing with your life? It sounds like you both are way misguided. It also sounds like your husband was tired of your association with this church group.
You had better figure out what is going on and do it quickly. You are messing around with 4 lives including your own and apparently have no clue what direction you are going. As for the church. They have not helped you much to date perhaps you should find another group for advice.
2006-10-09 14:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry sweetheart but your husband is a self absorbed jerk that needs to grow up and get away from mommy.
2006-10-09 13:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y are u with a boy that's living with his mother? u don't need a boy like that. u need a man. dump him and find someone that will treat you and your son with more respect. u deserve it!
2006-10-09 13:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by Snki55ed Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl he is your husband rite? well y is living with his mom? i say dump him, the bible in gensis that we are suppose to leave father and mother and cleave to our spouse ..so i suggest to just leave him and move on and his mother is a ***** for not taking your side....u can do better ..good luck
2006-10-09 13:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Ari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to dump him He's not mature enough to be a father or a husband
2006-10-09 13:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by crazy_ol_hippie_radical 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, you need some counceling...and an annulment.
Sounds like you were better off alone.
2006-10-09 13:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by gina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave momma's boy. Bible says that you "Cleave unto your spouse" He can't leave momma.
2006-10-09 13:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't waste your time praying...educate yourself (I can hardly understand your question) and get dump the loser.
2006-10-09 13:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by a kinder, gentler me 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋