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2006-10-09 06:12:35 · 15 answers · asked by florencia s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is an irrational statement to say that you "need" romantic love. I recommend you straighten out your priorities and stop being so shallow.
2006-10-09 06:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, what is "romantic", anyway?
Figure out what is important to you in a relationship. There are "romantics" that write you wonderful love notes and bring you flowers every week, and then leave you for the "next best thing" when you least expect it - hey, sounds like my ex! Walked out after 3 lbs of love notes and 4 years of marriage. Then again, there are some fairly "unromantic" people who are not good with all this superficial stuff, but will give you their all, and will love you unconditionally; this is the man I'm married to now - and I wouldn't change a thing. The most "romantic" thing, to me, is the respect I get in the relationship; wouldn't trade it for all the love notes and flowers in the world.
Just ask yourself, what is it that is important to you; what is it that you're looking for. If your relationship is lacking something that is very important, and it is not being made up for in some other way - perhaps it's time to reconsider. Just remember that there are more important things than "romance", and the very definition of being "romantic" varies from person to person.
2006-10-09 13:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need romance in a relationship, then yea.... But realize this: MOST MEN WONT BE ROMANTIC FOREVER... there will come a time when the chase is over and they have you so they will stop being romantic. Almost all relationships start off with the guy doing sweet romantic things/gestures for you, and then as the relationship runs its coarse the gestures stop or slow down. Its completely normal, and you can either accept the Deep love you have for eachother, or if it really bothers you and they wont change, leave. But you will continue to repeat this cycle for the rest of your life. Good luck
2006-10-09 13:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I might suggest is maybe making him a nice romantic dinner for the two of you. Bring up how romantic it is and that this is the kind of stuff you like! Then he can learn from you. Remember no one is psychic and if you don't show him he won't know.
2006-10-09 13:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would just tell him how I feel be4 I would do any thing. Then if he can't understand that u need romantic love leave him or just take it slow depending on how long u 2 have been going 2gether.
2006-10-09 13:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by Baby girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel your lover can't or will not change then you are destin to an un-romantic life and if that doesn't work for you then you know the answer.
If per chance though, maybe through counseling or by your creative idea's your lover will come around and learn to be romantic. then I think you need to see it through, People can change , but only if they want to , you can't change people otherwise.
2006-10-09 13:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Maybe you are very romantic and that's why he likes you. You take the time to find what makes him tick romantically and bring out his best side. Maybe he's better at planning things. Find compromise in your relationship. :)
2006-10-09 13:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's it. Why not try to make it romantic. Why not you be the one try new things? If you really love him, why would you consider leaving instead of fixing?
2006-10-09 13:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by TanJaan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its all up to you since you cant give more details.
2006-10-09 13:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just tell him about how you feel and say that something needs to be done about it.
2006-10-09 13:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋