we were lets just say swinging, They have a daugter that is in her mid twenties, They may have invited her to join, or she may have joined in on her own. I was a little upset when I saw my Husband having two, and when I told him I also wanted two ( older son) he was upset and thinks its wrong. What do you think I should tell him?
2006-10-09 06:12:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you want to be a swinger, buy a swing and hang it from the oak tree. If you have no tree, dig two 4x4's in the ground (with concrete) and attach a couple of 2x6's and hang a swing. Your family will enjoy years of swinging. Buy pressure treated lumber.
2006-10-09 06:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hedonists are everywhere! Obviously, for whatever reason, you two are ok with each other having sex with other people, Geesh! But do I detect some jealousy? Do I detect rules? Hmmm let's see, why should either of you be limited or follow any rules in regards to swinging... You didn't keep the rules of your wedding vows, why should this be any different?
I am so glad I am not one of you. If I want to play, why woud I get married.
Or did your wedding vows say,
"I promise to love, honor and obey. I also promise to only do the guys that you say are ok to do. "
Where did you two go wrong?
2006-10-09 06:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now....... for all you people who like to judge others. FYI.....People in trailor parks just cheat on eachother, they don't swing. People who swing are generally middle and even upper class! Right???? You should definetly discuss the rules before you play!!! If not it will lead to exactly what just happend.
2006-10-09 06:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What is good for the goose is good for the gander...if the two of you are really into this lifestyle then he needs to be accepting of your needs and wants. If he can't do that then your relationship is never going to survive.
2006-10-09 06:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him that it is 50/50 in your relationship. If you and him are enjoying these things together than you both should get the same pleasure. If u feeling he's getting more pleasure than you are than you should be more than welcome to tell him that you want more. Like i said its 50/50 so work together in a situation as rare as yours.
2006-10-09 06:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by Peanut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that what's good for the goose is good for the gander ,,,,,, But if you engage in this sort of life style then what possible difference could it make what combinations develop ???
2006-10-09 07:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, he has no right to say anything. Although that's just a LITTLE creepy, although technically not incest if parents and children don't actually have sex with one another.
2006-10-09 06:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not get the brother and sister to both join you and your husband?
2006-10-09 06:19:06 · answer #8 · answered by Married Male 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell hubby so sorry... he had his two and now it's your turn. This swinging thing can't be one-sided.
2006-10-09 06:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He want his cake and now he wants to EAT it too??!! No my friend, if he's getting two, then so do you. Just remember to be careful for what you ask for though....
2006-10-09 08:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by kcastillo1220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋