he flirts alot...now i also do it.... i went on some dates.....
but need help in ideas.....dont think badly....many ppl have the same prob
2006-10-09 05:52:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anita Zultan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I personaly think you guys dont need to be married if thats what you want to do. Doing that is only going to lead to divorce but if your already leaning towards an open relationship then divorce is just around the corner. Not judging you I am just telling you what is gonna happen. You may think it wont and that it will make your marriage stronger but I am telling you thats not the case. You are either into each other completely or your not. Seek marriage counseling or file for divorce. That all I can say. Good Luck
2006-10-09 05:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by pregojess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ms.Anita hi!! again leaving some more advice for you ask yourself this question how open does he want this relationship to be? You two need to sit down and make a pros/cons list of the things you want to get out of having an open relationship this is a healthy way of not diving in head first for disaster.If you love him and he loves you even more think of your health and well being of adding spice to your relationship.Sometimes a man feels some excitement when another man desires what he haves its a liitle normal but really wheigh your options and try not to let feelings get involed so your marriage don't have problems in the long run.
2006-10-09 06:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by keishahayes2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had to resort to an extra marital affair, why be married. How could anyone possibly be forgiving when someone you love is out doing someone else all under the guise of an open relationship.... definately anyone that allows it has esteem problems and needs help. And the person that goes out to do it, needs to be shot!
Instead of looking for ideas...look for a divorce attorney.
Or maybe you want him to bring home a disease for you. Now thats a great way to say...I love you!
2006-10-09 06:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you settling for such low standards? You need to check your self esteem and ask yourself why having an open marriage is ok for u? I don't think badly of you I think sadness for you. That you think you don't deserve a man who is faithful to you. Knock yourself out. These things never end pretty. What you are doing is slowing down the inevitable. Your relationship has already ended you are just going through the motions now.
2006-10-09 05:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 11:32:55 · answer #5 · answered by sickels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think badly I just think if you need other people to please you then you should not be in a relationship. Maybe you should just be friends and go on flirting dates. Open relationship is a life style for some people but I think if they dig really deep they will find they are afraid of commitment.
So there you have it.
2006-10-09 05:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by valarie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your relationship in the end, personally this screams of "having your cake and eating it." What happened to love and commitment between you the two of you? This can only serve to break up the marriage through lies, distrust and unfaithfulness, I hope you are strong and not the jealous type.
2006-10-09 05:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Open relationships DO NOT WORK.
2006-10-09 06:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damnit girl, I can't seem to find a man who wants an open relationship. I'm jealous
2006-10-09 05:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an open relationship well kinda cause i can only hook up with girls not guys...eehh
2006-10-09 05:58:37 · answer #10 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋